Difficult to satisfy switch seeking a 24/7 committed relationship. I am a switch but I can take either role permanently in a relationship provided my parameters are met. I am a professional who works in the computer industry and I have children so things should look somewhat vanilla from the outside. I have a couple of tattoos but I am not into body piercing. A relationship with the right switch is preferred. I do require a physically attractive partner who is not overweight. Honesty is a very important quality I value highly. I enjoy being outdoors and going to the beach. The list of my interests is flexible although there are certain activities which are not. I do not have many recreational activities I participate in but if you have some you enjoy that is ok and who knows, maybe I will like them too.

For Switches:

We'll work something out. I do need an intelligent, attractive, and college educated partner for this role. I prefer to avoid power struggles and calmly discuss issues not related to our playtime with each partner having an equal say in matters. I do expect you to be rational and capable of coming to an agreement and accepting and apologizing when you are wrong. I in turn will do the same.

For Subs:

I am a firm, kind, but gentle Dom who will gradually lead you along the path into deeper submission and sexual bliss. I have children from a previous marriage so if you are looking for a Daddy Dom I can fill that role. I am not interested in persons who just want to be hurt. I am not a sadist and I primarily use pleasure for training, punishment for disobedience, and bondage sessions to remind you who is in control. Punishment and bondage may or may not involve pain. I will not beat you unconscious or bloody nor will I leave any permanent marks or injuries upon your body. You pleasuring me sexually will be part of the relationship. I am respectful of your limits and capable of pushing them as you desire. I understand that each person has their own needs from a relationship so I am willing to grant you these freedoms upon terms we mutually agree upon if that is your wish and if you meet my needs.

For Dommes:

I prefer a Mistress who is not completely lifestyle and is a normal person some of the time. I do not tolerate verbal abuse. I require female attention or presence most of the time and want to sleep in a bed with a woman. If Mistress is going out without me I need company. I also occasionally need the attention of several women and would prefer a household with another female sub. Mistress will have to be intelligent, attractive, and college educated as I am intelligent and will be quickly bored if you are not. You should make me feel like I am deserving as this is important to me. Your smile, attention, and affection are my reward. I enjoy sexual encounters so I expect sex to be part of the relationship. I am not a masochist and do not wish to endure torture nor do I not enjoy or need cages. I do not need or want verbal abuse. I expect Mistress to use me solely for her sexual satisfaction if she does not provide me a sub for that. I would prefer to work outside the home and I am not willing to do all of the housework so other than cooking and washing dishes so Mistress needs to find another sub to take care of these chores. I need a little recreational time. I have a few fetishes/kinks that need satisfying and I know what these are and I am willing to tell you about them.

A few last details:
I am divorced and have 2 teenage children who do not live with me. I have a few old injuries so I do not labor physically and I am have a devoted female dog whom I am dedicated to for the next 10 years. She would be severely traumitized were she to be separated from me so getting rid of her is out of the question. Photos of me will be furnished if requested.