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About IMLC
Is it possible he exists? He who knows my uniqueness and knows what to do with it? He who understands that D/s is a circle. I know and understand and meet His needs, and he knows and understands and meets mine. We give, and it works. Does he exist who can captivate my mind, continually, so that my body needs to be His? He understands that the mind must never be neglected. He knows himself well, and wants me rather than needs me. He doesn't expect me to fit a mold of what he's known, but pursues the challenge of learning that a woman can think differently, be rather fearless, self-confident, multi-dimensional, and creative, yet have no need to rebel if she trusts him. She wants him rather than needs him, and he completes a part of her by captivating her anew, every day. Does he exist? I need to know he does.
I'm a corporate accountant and writer, so left and right brained. I'm highly logical but also an empath. I don't do negative if there's any way to avoid it. I'm a bit of a human lie detector, so don't go there. I'm a host of beautiful and fascinating, perhaps a tad frustrating, contradictions, but somehow they all gel into a pretty interesting person. I crave variety in activity and the mundane never sustains me for long. I'm playful and full of wonder, but wise and mature. I'm a smoker and enjoy wine, (midwesterner with southern roots) but moderation keeps me quite healthy, and I have my e-cig too-which smells and tastes like a fresh cinnamon roll. I don't particularly want to get married again, but just want to experience you for as long as it's interesting for both of us, and then, be it a month or years, part as friends with great memories. I have a lot of goals ahead, so I'm not looking for the center of my world, but someone who enriches it in a unique way that I can't resist, and in turn can't resist giving something equally valuable to you.
As for you...I'm certain you know if you have that 'thing' that draws people to you. You know if you are honest. You know if you are here for something that challenges the mind or just entertains the skin. You know the difference between captivation and mentally lazy. You know the difference between dominant and domineering. Your exes are bummed rather than thrilled to be your exes, at least the intelligent ones are. I'm not a pain slut...I'm a sapiosexual, and you know what that means. If I don't respond to an email, please know it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, but just that I haven't read it yet, or did and don't wish to waste your time if it's just not a possibility for us. OR you just don't have a profile so I have no information with which to discern that you might be interesting or simply said 'Hi' so I wasn't motivated to click on it since you didn't bother to be interesting enough to spark an interest at all. I'm nice, so please be respectful. I wish you all good things. My schedule is a busy one, as I'm sure is yours, so please understand if I want to email a bit and get to know you while we work out a time to meet later. I'm real...and well worth the wait. You are too. If you don't have a pic on your profile, I would appreciate if you attached one so I know who's mind I'm enjoying. Gentlemen first on that one...grin.
I don't really do the friend request thing, not that we can't be actual friends, but I don't really see the value in the FR thing, so no offense intended in declining them.
I look forward to discovering you, so please give me something to respond to that gives me a sense of you. Just 'Hi' doesn't give me much to think about...wink. You and everyone you know may know how awesome you are, but I don't yet know that, and you aren't standing in front of me saying "Hi", so I appreciate the patience and knowledge while I get up to speed, so that I can appreciate you as you deserve.
Good advice I love to live by...if you want someone to be interested...be interesting...
Enjoy!
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Male Dominant, 32, Ri is 30 min.long, Rhode Island
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Female Dominant, 75, Pinehurst NC, North Carolina
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Male Switch, 49, Juno, Florida
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Male Dominant, 45, Ct,RI,Mass,VT, Massachusetts
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Female Submissive, 47, Gloucester, Virginia
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Male Submissive, 32, Chicago, Illinois
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