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Hetero Male Switch, 52,  Harrisburg, Pennsylvania
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ikots - Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

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BlackRose1987nightgoddess666YorkDomLTmyrive69 Kayderyn
MISTRESSAMINA7 DivinityLustnarvana

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52 years young, Country boy, Teddy Bear here. Looking for playmates while looking for The One girl to compliment my kinky nature.

I enjoy bondage most and am a very tactile sub Cut off my senses one by one (blindfold, gag, foam earplugs) and let my imagination go wylde as to what you might do next as you fuck with my mind and body. (Lately Ive found my thoughts drifting in a bi-curious vein while tied-up).

I can switch though I prefer the role of attentive (though occasionally bratty) sub.

I will only play in the company of consenting adults. Safe, Sane DD Free and WILL stay that way.

Ive been a bondage and ticklephile since I was young. Ive learned much over the years from many mentors and able teachers in the lifestyle. Im alway open to learn more every day and will Happily convey this experience to those willing to learn themselves.

Im told Ive a bit of masochist in my blood since my stuborn side tries very hard to not use my given safeword. Ive once or twice Ive simply collapsed in a ragdoll heap after a scene when a certain sadist (you know who you did their worst to get me to say the word.

Truth be told, I was simply in subspace and didnt wanna leave...hehe... I finally gave in though it took 2 days to recover... I thoroughly enjoyed it but, dont recommend it as a regular diet. (very hard to explain the bruises to family and friends)

I seek a soulmate in the longterm preferably another kinky kindred spirit. I can be vanila but, find kinky MUCH more rewarding for both. Until I find her Im open to acquiring playmates and expanding my small group of friends.

Ill be pleased to confide more of myself.. You need but to ask... Sin-cerely, Alex












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 Male Switch



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 3"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Mascdom Couples

Friends Only


 Lives For:



 Tickling (Expert)

 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)

 Puzzle Games

 Online Auctions


 Lifestyle BDSM


 Rock Music



 Breast Play (Expert)

 Cages (Beginner)


 Genital Punishment


 Hoods (Beginner)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Beginner)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Sensory Deprivation (Beginner)


 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)

 Theatrical Scenes (Beginner)


 Wax play

 Arcade Games

 Board Games



 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing

 Art Collecting

 Candle Making







 Female Supremacy

 Goth Lifestyle




 Country Music

 Eighties Music










 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Foot Worship (Beginner)

 Public Play  (Beginner)

 Spanking (Beginner)

 Card Games


 Online Chatrooms

 Simulation Games


 True Crime











 Intellectual Discourse






 1950s Lifestyle


 Old Guard



 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music



 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes

 Body Building





 Domestic Service

 Housework Service

 Humiliation (Beginner)

 Obedience Training (Beginner)


 Online RPGs

 Romance Novels

 TV News

 TV Sports








 EMO Music





 Curious About:

 Begging (Beginner)

 Body Worship (Beginner)

 Canes and Crops (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)

 Corsets (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Enemas (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Gas Masks

 Hair Pulling (Beginner)

 Hypnosis (Beginner)

 Knife Play (Beginner)

 Leashes (Beginner)

 Masks (On Partner) (Beginner)

 Masks (Wearing) (Beginner)

 Mental Bondage (Beginner)

 Munches (Beginner)

 Needle Play (Beginner)

 Objectification (Beginner)

 Plastic Wrap (Beginner)

 Role Playing (Beginner)

 Rubber Fetish (Beginner)

 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Whips (Beginner)


 Body Art





 Soap Making




 Gorean Lifestyle

 Alternative Music






 Conservative Politics


 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics

 Political Activism


 Diet and Exercise


 Opera Music


 Ice Hockey

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
10/22/2014 6:20:28 PM
Is there no one in the Harrisburg area up for some kinky fun ? I've a wylde imagination and an insatitiable libido... Only trouble is ... I can't host... Dangit.. Surely someone out there needs a safe/sane/dd free bondage fix !!! Being a switch myself I can be either side of the ropes as needed...

3/27/2013 9:01:20 PM

Been here only two weeks.  Emailed lotts of interesting folks.  Some were even kind enough to reply (Thank you all).  Those I've chatted with have been most gracious and I thank you for your time.


However, It's been a LONG dry spell and self bondage just don't cut it... Yeah it's fun and all but too easy to get out when you've done it yourself.  For safety's sake you KNOW where the escape and backup escape tools are.  You've tied the knots so you CAN get to them (safety again).  I'm not knocking safety. Don't get me wrong.


I simply NEED to reliquish control to another I trust to tie my ass up leaving me vulnerable to whatever evil desires their fantasies conjure up.  I REALLY need a bondage fix BADD!!!


Any takers?? Sealed

3/13/2013 6:51:00 PM

New here and hoping to find some new local fiends friends to chat and perhaps play some bondage games with.  Any takers n the Harrisburg area??? Wink

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