| Who am I?
Physically
I'm a straight, SWM, never married, tall, physically fit, clean cut, short, short brown hair and brown eyes. I've been told I have smiling eyes, a nice smile, and a great butt. I'm a well educated, intelligent, and successful professional. I'm also very, very funny and have a great sense of humor. I also have a very kinky side as well and believe that sex is the "last frontier" so to speak.
Personality
I like being in control, it's part of my personality...I'm VERY dominant, aggressive, confident, ...I like being in CONTROL...sometimes controlling. I like dominating a submissive woman, but I also treat her with respect, love, affection and as an equal partner in a relationship. I like a woman that is always trying to please me sexually, emotionally, and intellectually...and I am doing the same.
What I like and what I like to do
I LOVE tying a woman up, taking COMPLETE control of her Physically and Mentally and Sexually. Part of that involves spanking, flogging, and paddling. She MUST have "the spank gene" in her. You either have the spank gene in you or you don't I've found. The woman I'm looking for has the spank gene and spanking is very erotic and sexual for her. I have also recently discovered that I truly enjoy face slapping and chocking them while kissing them....it's very erotic. The mix of roughness, vulnerability and sweetness is intoxicating.
I'm a very aggressive, dominant man. I LOVE bondage (ropes, a kneeler, a bed, spanking bench, SAC, suspension cuffs), and spanking a woman with my hand and paddles, crops, leather slappers, etc. I am quite good at flogging with lots of sensual teasing and foreplay involved to whip you up into a sexual frenzy. My CONTROL comes from CONTROLLING you sexually.
I'm a romantic person with an extreme sensual and sexual side to me that loves advanced sex and all that comes with it...
I LOVE sex in all its multiple facets....I love to have sex in public...I'm an exhibitionist and love to watch a woman masturbate....I love finger fucking a woman discreetly while in a nightclub or public place and rubbing her clit until she comes....hoping BOTH that no one notices us and hoping that someone does at the same time........a woman that likes wearing short skirts, no panties, in public and intentionally spreads her legs to others in the right situation when we are together....a complete turn on for me.....or who is not afraid while sitting in the passenger seat, driving down the interstate to hike up her short skirt, prop her legs up on the dashboard of the car and masturbate in broad daylight...not caring who passes by and sees her while she comes over and over....I'm looking for a woman that either fantasizes about these things or actually does them for the thrill of it...that is sexually free, open-minded, and wants to take a walk on the "wild side"...and set her mind free......or WANTS someone to set her free of her inhibitions and "lead her" out of her shell....
I love a sexy woman that REALLY loves sex, she oozes sex with her body language. A woman wearing no panties, short black mini-skirt, black, thigh-high stockings, high heels, sexy top, out in public....turns me on and get me steaming hot...especially if she flirts with another guy or might even make out with him while I watch....There is something very exciting about feeling the emotion of jealousy and sexual excitement at the SAME time....I love it because I'm in control...it's a power exchange.
I believe we all take two important journeys in our lives: The Journey of Love and the Journey of Lust.
For some, those are two different separate roads. For me, they are both on the same road. And I believe that road has no boundaries and has no end...it's a constant evolving, growth-filled journey through life.
And as we get older, the more and more we come to REALLY realize the old saying that "life is too short"....so...ENJOY IT!
Me, I want to come in sliding sideways into my coffin, holding a glass of champagne in my hand, a great big smile on my face, completely spent and yelling "Wooo hoooo....what a ride!"
What am I looking for:
I am in a 24/7 D/s relationship with a collared submissive. We are poly, so we have sex with others and explore all aspects of sexuality and are adventuresome with sex and BDSM play.
I am looking for female submissives to play with, train, & teach. I am also looking to collar a female sex slave and possible full-time live in slave.
Who I’m looking for:
Complete honesty, trustworthiness, devotion, COMPLETE submission, a true commitment to Me, herself, and our relationship. Someone that trusts me enough to teach her and help her grow into all the she is capable of.......help her become the "best version of herself" that she can be.
I'm looking for a submissive female for BDSM play or a collared sex slave.
I'm looking for a woman that is extremely sensual and has a powerful sexual side to her and that loves advanced sex and all that comes with it...
I LOVE to eat pussy and performing anal sex on a woman OCCASIONALLY..not every damn time....very carefully and slowly of course.....and did I mention that I love to eat pussy? I love to tease a woman by eating her pussy, bringing her to the "threshold" of coming..then stopping.....letting her come down...then whipping her up again into a frenzy.....eventually after a little while.... sending her over the edge and making her come over and over until she feels like her head is going to explode....I will "push her to the limit"....trust me, I have a skill for that...
I like mixing up sexual encounters...keeps things interesting......dressing up, role play, bondage, exhibitionism, sex in risky places where you might get caught...that gets your adrenaline going for sure...
I love to fuck a woman from behind, really, really hard, while I pull her hair, and slap her ass while I'm fucking her. That's what I like. I also SOMETIMES like to use a whip, a riding crop, or (usually) my hand on her while she is tied up and I'm fucking her from behind because my big balls can slap on her clit while I'm fucking her and she eventually comes again hard, hard...
I want to explore where my sexual boundaries are....and where her sexual boundaries are as well....together.
I'm looking for a woman with an open mind, sexually uninhibited and LOVES to have sex all the time and can't get enough of it. She is a self-admitted "fuck machine". She masturbates all the time and often wonders if there is something wrong with her she does it so much. She is completely open-minded and liberal about sex and thinks about it all the time and open to trying new things to broaden her sexual horizon and not afraid to explore the unknown.
She is willing to open her mind and her heart to me about her dreams, desires, sexual fantasies, hopes and also her darkest fears and insecurities. ....we all have them....the point is, she opens her mind to me completely and is not afraid to bear her most intimate thoughts and fears.
GREAT sex is all about "the moment" and what feels right at that time.
If you already have read..."Screw the Roses, Send Me The Thorns" by Molly Devon & Philip Miller....and you liked it...then we need to talk.....
Intellectually
She is very intelligent, well educated, well spoken and a great conversationalist. She has broad knowledge on a variety of topics and opinions on things that are important to her and is not afraid to share them with me...even if I don't agree with them......she likes to learn new things and try new things and is not afraid of the unknown.
This is what I believe a D/s relationship is and the kind of relationship I'm looking for:
It is a relationship between two people that includes what is known as a power exchange. The submissive consensually grants the dominant the authority to exert control over her. It is a mutual relationship. It is based on trust and commitment. The necessities of such a relationship are communication, trust, respect, knowledge, awareness of self, and ideally love. It is a very complex and varied lifestyle, with each relationship differing from another.
Communication is a major key in a successful D/s relationship. The people involved must be able to talk with each other openly and share their thoughts, feelings, ideas and fantasies. This type of communication is difficult to achieve and requires work to maintain. But without it, the relationship will not survive. The goals of both participants is the pleasure of the other. Neither participant can meet that goal if they do not know what pleases the other participant. Communication can take many forms, bedtime snuggle talk, notes, letters, even stories can relate your needs, and emotions to your partner. The important thing is to talk with each other, honestly and in an open manner.
Trust is another major key in a successful D/s relationship. Trust is earned, not forced. And it must go both ways. The submissive must trust the dominant with her very life. Trust is earned by the behavior of both participants. Open communication and honesty help to build the trust within the relationship. Respecting the limits of your partner will build trust. Accepting all aspects of your partner’s personality will also build the trust. Within life, trust is a tenuous thing, within D/s it is even more so. It is easy to break the trust in a D/s relationship, and very hard to repair it.
The participants within a D/s relationship need to respect each other. Their partner's needs, wants, fears, doubts, achievements and abilities should all be respected. Respect is another earned aspect of D/s. Your actions will dictate whether or not you are deserving of the respect given within a D/s relationship.
The participants in a D/s relationship should have at least a basic knowledge of what they are doing. Of what the outcomes of their actions could be. How to use the various toys and equipment associated with the lifestyle. A basic knowledge of the emotional needs within the relationship, and a good working knowledge of each other. It takes time to know that much about D/s, and each other. Take the time to learn as much as you can and your relationship will work better.
Those within D/s should have at least a basic awareness of themselves. By this I mean a person should know what is in themselves. Know their own personal needs and limits before they can make the informed choice of whether or not to submit, or whether or not they have what it takes to be a dominant. This is a long process and takes some time to accomplish, though it never is finished.
They should also be aware that despite the close bond which forms in such a relationship, that they are in fact individuals also. The people in the relationship should never forget that they are indeed people, and should give room for human error. Everyone is human and no human is perfect. Expecting perfection is the easiest way to be disappointed.
Ideally a D/s relationship should include love. Though this is not a necessity for a satisfying relationship, it does strengthen the bond between the two people. From experience, I have learned just how close a D/s relationship becomes. With enough time, patience and communication, there is literally no secrets left. Love itself is hard to define and each person has their own definition, to me it is an emotional bond between two people. There are varying degrees of love, my opinion is such that ideally in D/s, unconditional love should be present. It makes the relationship so much more emotionally satisfying when love is present.
Such a relationship is indeed a very complex one. The exchange of power from one person to another can be a frightening thing to think about. There are varying levels of such exchange of power… ranging from those who play every once in a while, to those who mutually consent to a slave arrangement and give total control to another. What each person, no matter their level of involvement, should also remember is to respect their partner’s limits. Those within the lifestyle should be tolerant of the differences between their relationship and another's. There are no set rules for what constitutes a "proper" D/s relationship. And those of us who are within the lifestyle should accept this fact. I believe that so long as the participants are happy and each person's needs are met consensually, then the particulars do not matter.
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