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Dominant Couple, 22, Taylor, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 52, birmingham
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Male Switch, 23, coldwater, Michigan
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About ignitedthoughts
FL: https://fetlife.com/users/830042
Kik: ignitedthoughts2015
Email: ignited_thoughts at yahoo dot com
Due to the flaky nature of this site, please feel free to msg me on FL, kik or email.
About me
A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes."
"Biggest human sexual organ is between the ears and not between the legs" - Anonymous
If ever were two sentences, to sum up my approach to life and BDSM - it would be those.
Who am I?
About me: 38 yr old assertive, controlling male from the South East UK. In real life, I work as a senior executive and am what might be aptly described as a 'suit'. Below that suit and outside the office, I am dominant male, who seeks submission and power exchange. All personality tests list me as ENTJ or equivalent ( strategists, general, director or manager). I am an old school type of guy.
I hold a high power job in the city (US folks - the City is UK's wall street). Yes, I am highly ambitious, and that does translate to long hours and high stress.
Outside work, I am laid back and light-hearted. Enjoy fine wine, good music and a relaxing meal.
What do I seek?
I seek cerebral submission. My proclivities are for the fine art of spanking and domineering control of the submissive mind and spirit. I do not believe in pain/ spanking/ bondage /humiliation for sake of the act itself- each of those, for me, is a tool to use to express my dominance of the sub's mind. I would love to introduce a new submissive to the lifestyle as I love to mould (hate the word 'train').
About you
An intellectual Female, with a deep desire to submit and relinquish control. Kink with a dose of vanilla is ideal (Kinkilla, if you might). Interest in being bound and spanked would be nice. The cornerstone of your submission must be care, respect, obedience and service. Rest is up for negotiation.
My other interests
I have a voracious appetite for knowledge and want to understand anything and everything. To me, knowledge is truly power. I love books and browsing the net on a vast array of topics - from military strategy of Rommel to the fine art at the Louvre. Love to travel off the beaten path. Live life - love life, play hard, eh?
I love TED videos and adore intellectual conversation. I understand Keynes, yet respect Hayek. I like Krugman - and agree on a lot of things he says, yet like Rogoff, and Niall Ferguson. I would love to share a dinner table all of these chaps - and Noam Chomsky....
More details about my approach to life in my blog postings...
Its difficult to condense my entire life and thoughts onto a short profile page or a few blog postings , so why don't we chat for a few moments and see where we go from there....
My idea of play..
My idea of writing..
http://leahlayslondon.wordpress.com/
(Not my writing, but some very intense word seduction!)
Obligatory Test Results
You Scored as Dominant
Oxford Dictionary: Dominance: power and influence over others (sexually)
Sadist :: 100%
Dominant:: 100%
Experimental:: 79%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur :: 33%
Bondage:: 32%
Vanilla:: 29%
Switch:: 19%
Submissive:: 14%
Masochist :: 0%
Post
If you have reached this point - great- thanks for reading. It is a sad commentary on the world that I have to say what I say next... If you are looking for a white Caucasian male or a BBC, I will disappoint you. However, if you are looking for fun, intelligent company - go on, memo me.
Eye colour: Black Hair colour: Very dark brown Height: 5ft 9in
Truth Or Dare
So here's the deal...You get to ask me Up to 5 Questions!! No matter how crazy, inappropriate, or just random, and I promise to answer it 100% truthfully (that's the "truth" part) ...
Now I dare you to repost this and see what people ask you.
I will answer only if u send me a private message with the questions. |
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