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About Icarius
I am your average dominant male, though I am better defined as someone who holds an "Alpha Wolf" mentality.
I do not come to this site to seek a submissive, nor do I expect, as many that come here seem to, for one to simply fall into my lap. Instead, I am here to talk with like-minded people. Those who understand the joy that can come only from the Master/Slave relationship. A relationship that is, to me, the epitome of trust, love, loyalty, and respect.
I do not term myself a Master, for I do not currently have a Slave nor a Submissive. As such, I see no reason for anyone else to refer to me as such. Instead, I simply expect respect from those who speak to me.
To me, the Master/Slave relationship is not something you do once a week, or during bedtime, or even "just after work". It is a 24/7 thing, a way of life. This does not mean one must always Address the Master as Master, nor that the Master must always order the Slave about. It simply means that a degree of respect and obedience is obeyed at all times. It means one does not change their personality, nor hide their true self, simply to appease others.
The Master/Slave relationship is one of trust and loyalty. An obedient Slave will obey the Master, and place her absolute trust in him. The Master, Likewise, is bound to ensure that the Slave is protected and safe at all times, in all ways. Both mentally and physically. A Master who cannot do that, is not fit to be a Master in the first place.
The Master/Slave relationship is one of the most pure and deepest of loves. If the Master and Slave do not share a deep connection, if not a true and absolute love, then the relationship cannot truely last. From love spawns compassion and trust. Without it, neither can truely spring forth.
It is not a relationship that I feel should ever be rushed into. Master and Slave should get to know each other in a vanilla relationship first. It allows them to find out what the other does and doesn't approve of, without any chance of either holding back or limiting conversation for obedience reasons, as well as ensuring that the relationship will pan out. Without being capiable of surviving the vanilla period, a relationship cannot survive a Master/Slave period, either.
It is not a relationship that makes one person superior or inferior to the other. Instead, it is a celebration of strength. The Slave shows their strength, in the trust and obedience they show their Master. The Master, likewise, shows their strength, by protecting and guiding their Slave. By ensuring that their needs are taken care of, and that they are happy.
I do not feel that a Slave or Submissive may not speak their mind or offer suggestions to their Master, provided they do it in a respectful manner. Despite what many self-proclaimed "Masters" may say, no one knows everything, no matter how learned they may be. A good Master will weigh the Slave or Submissive's comments, their suggestions or fears, and will take them into account, before doing as the Master deems best for the Slave or Submissive. To do anything less, is a failure to their Slave or Submissive.
If you are of a similiar mind, and wish to speak to someone who understands, as you do, how amazing a Master/Slave relationship can be, feel free to message me.
If you, however, are one of those people that troll this site, trying to persuade others to change their role in life, or to attempt to forcefully dominate others, to try to force their point of view towards yours, move onward. You would find that doing such with me would be, at the very best, a waste of your time.
Strict,
When fitting,
Discipline,
When required,
Love and Compassion,
At all times.
This is what is required of a true Master.
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