Icanbnice


ICANBASUB4U Male Submissive, 42, ROCHESTER, New York	Icanbind Male Dominant, 50, Madison, Wisconsin	IcANbEmEAN Male Switch, DaBigSmoke

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	About Icanbnice Finding the right "one", to find her and for her to find you is so difficult. Two people looking to more than just fill the void but to create in what is a hostile world is a challenge. I am looking for a woman for this and much more. I like to train the mind as well as the body. The body is easy really but the mind is really where the contact can be felt at a very profound level. I do like tall women but I understand that any restrictions could cut me off from the woman who shares my desires.. I am looking for a woman to help me control the thunder...

I am surprised at the time it takes to even find a candidate to Explore if you are a fit that can become something. For me the idea is to lift both parties out of the mundane day to day life in this relationship. This can take many forms. I also know my age is a barrier for many. So it goes. I am looking for someone who is smart, articulate and is looking for that comfort and safety that encloses you. You may have no real time experience. We can start from where you are, with desire and passion and aim for that sweet spot.

I find if interesting that some people are under consideration and taken sometimes in less that a week or two.? As a dom with some experience I don't think a week or two would be enough time for me to decide that I wanted to explore with a person If we are suited to/for each other.??The responsibility of?? taking care of someone is Huge and I won't undertake it? quickly.?? There is a lot of day to day, vanilla stuff that must be tended to while the hours of the day go by.? I am not capable of making that choice in seven days or so.....But that's just me...

The outstretched hand, always to be taken..
To know and to depend on that... To be swallowed, completely...
Not sure, I may have seen too much day time TV.
I like to inflict pain if needed but find other methods more powerful with longer lasting results. I am looking for the woman who wishes that total freedom that comes only with that letting go that is sublime beyond mere words....

To stand in the flame with the right person and come out renewed and restored.?? To enter into the thunder and beome more of a couple as a result, well, that is what we all want isn't it?? Jointly, to share the gift and know that there is much more where that came from.?? The Hunger can be palpably painful....? the Hunger takes your breathe away...? Many of us never tire.. We wish to find that person so we may be One....

The upside of attempting a long distance relationship is that you can't easily jump in too quickly and regret it after you find out that you are Not compatible. Of course the down side of attempting a long distance relationship is that when you think this is worth a try it is not always feasible to get more involved. Involved as quickly as you would like to get involvedl. I suppose it it is all for the good... But......

I still miss the contact and after ten years with one woman it becomes all too obvious how intertwined your lives become and how much it is possible to take that "fit" for granted...

One holiday gone and one headed this way. I really don't like looking But it is not as I feel like I have much choice. How well does vanilla play in your home?

And you must believe in Love!

Edited my profile. Decided I needed to be more detailed. I have not looked in over ten years. Recent girl had family issues that resquired her ongoing presence. I am not lookng to date or play. I am looking to Own. I have a dry sense of humour, like to do a variety of things But make no mistake, I like to take and I like to hurt girl when she needs it. Be sincere. What does your Heart Thread say?

I was talking with girl about her possibly moving here. I told her I would get her a Dr. appointment for a physical and make sure any meds she needed would be provided and so fourth. She said no one had ever talked about that with her. I explained that if I was going to take care of her, that meant, all of her needs, not just the ones that were convenient to me. Besides, I explained, this is about My pleasure and her serving. Girl was a little confused. Anyway, I am not sure she understood the magnitude of being owned. And you must believe in love.

I am reminded again of how difficult it can be to find a suitable girl. I also am reminded how much effort can be put in to the training only to see it wasted. I am looking for a sincere girl who wishes to learn what it is like to have her conciousness shaped so that every deed of every day reminds her of who she is. I want my girl to Never lose sight of her relationship to me. I am not looking for play. I am looking for that certain someone who wants the whole package.

Searching again. Wanting to be confident that the "perfect" girl can be found. As I get more experienced I find my expectations, well, lets just say, less willing to compromise. And I know this is not fair as many of the girls do not have too much exposure to the more subtle forms. I also find the list of interests to be, well, each girl is different. Each girl needs to be treated, trained and loved for who she is and the gifts she brings to the table. I consider myself to be rather old school.

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