To clarify, kink is not my life, but kink is a very important part of my sex life. I know what I like, for the most part, and obviously there is plenty of room for explanation and learning but I want it to be known that my life does not revolve around only that. I have tried for a long time to define myself, it is always difficult. I've decided at this point that if I like to have sex with someone it is likely because thy are who they are, not because of there specific gender identity or orientations towards any specific way. If you feel like I need a label, then I don't think you would be completely comfortable with me or anyone I know or consider close to me. Along those lines however the one clear identification I follow with is my own identification as a woman and to take it a step further, I'm a woman who enjoys herself. Finally I will say my place in the bedroom also fluctuates slightly. I enjoy my time as a sub but I will admit there are times when being more dominant is exactly where I want to be. For right now I am looking for a play partner. That is all. It could be long term or short term, at this point, I'm just looking. Message me if you like what you see.