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Female Submissive, 40, Frostburg, Maryland
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Male Switch, 25, In your mind, Washington
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Female Submissive, 25, Atwater, Fresno, California
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About iamdaveguy
I am looking for a female bottom/submissive who is comfortable with a married top/dom. If you have any sort of problem with this...keep it to yourself. I don't care. Hate mail is deleted and the sender is blocked.
Now comes the not so fun part...I am not here to play games with anybody. I am here because I have a need that my wife cannot satisfy. She understands this and she is supportive of my finding another way. I am extremely happy in my marriage and I am not looking for a replacement. If we meet and hit it off, she will be expected to meet my wife in person in a public setting. This is NOT negotiable.
I am not looking for a series of one shot hook ups. I am not looking for a threesome partner nor do I want a doormat. I am looking for a long term partner to explore this side of my sexuality, to be a friend and companion, and to help me improve as a person. She should be looking for pretty much the same thing. This is not a game to me. At all.
I am looking for a bottom/sub who is willing to accept that I am not all knowing, all powerful and infallible. I can, do and will make mistakes but I am also going to learn from those mistakes so I can make new ones instead of the same ones over and over again. She should be independent, meaning she is with me because she wants to be not because she needs somebody to hold her hand constantly. I'm not into the master/slave 24/7 thing.
She must be able to communicate to me in some fashion what her needs and wants are. This is an important point to me. Part of what makes this fulfilling for me is knowing that I am fulfilling her needs and wants. I can't do that if I don't know what they are.
There are many facets of BDSM that I would like to experience at some point so I don't have a real list of "must haves". I am generally interested in rope play, sensation play, role play, and some forms of discipline. Therefore, an ability to be open to exploration is a necessity. She also must have the ability to tolerate, if not outright desire, to be pampered at times. I like chivalry. It is a way of expressing my gratitude for her submission. This is important to me and is also pretty much non-negotiable.
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