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About iadiedee
**UPDATE** I apologize if I give the impression that I am seeking AT THIS TIME. My life and house are in chaos right now. IF I were seeking it would be someone CLOSE to me, not in another country.
After being in the Lifestyle for over 12 years my path has changed and I have grown. I've trained Dominants while I was the submissive or slave. I've learned from the bottom and am now on the journey to becoming a Dominant.
Why? Because I no longer have the pressing and overwhelming urge to serve. I'm a very strong woman who has now found her confidence and place in this wonderful Lifestyle.
I have over 12 years of active experience in the BDSM, M/s, D/s, Long distance and 24/7 manners of living. I have knowledge of Gorean but do not run this house by that belief system. I have lived in a polyamorous relationship. I found that when everyone is honest it will work. When deception is in the mix a lot of people get hurt.
I do not tolerate lies. Dishonesty will get you removed from my life. If you thrive on drama, deceipt or whining do not cross my doorstep much less message me. I've raised my children. Although I have a wonderful sense of humor I do desire mature adult company who are who they portray in their communications.
I'm still defining what kind of dominant I will be. We all grow and continue to learn during life. I'm not stagnant in my beliefs. As my grandmother used to say "The day I stop learning is the day I die."
Blessed be, Namaste, peace be with you Dee
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I am not looking for anything other than friends right now. I will not tolerate any deceipt, lies or fabrications. I'm a tolerant woman in all other ways but will not stand being made a fool. There's no punishment for this. Well, if you consider being cut out of my life completely to be a punishment, then yes, there is one, and only one.??????????????????
Yes, I was slave. I'd been one for 12 years. I learned a lot about myself and gave all that I had to give. I'm now searching my Dominant side. A side of myself that I'd only revealed as a single parent of two children. With them grown and gone I now wish to explore the strength that I used to survive in life.????????????????? I'm freshly out of my last M/s relationship and was horribly deceived for 2 years. My trust was abused and I forgave too much for too long. It will take a LOT for me to trust what I'm told. If you can't back up your claims, don't make them - I will ask for references or proof if I decide to pursue anything more than friendship.
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Moved all Journal entries to my blog on Blogger.com
Thinking that my "openness" is too much for here. If anyone wants to know more about me, ask. |
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