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Greetings All Female Submissives
I am a 54 year old Dominant Male in East Central Iowa. I have been in this Lifestyle most of my adult life starting out training with another couple at age 19. I am a naturally highly Dominant male, and I enjoying useing my pet wherever, whenever, and however I wish. This is the kind of submissive I seek, be it highly submissive with strong slave tendencies, or the perfect slave by that alone. I do not compare what was in the past with anyone in the future as you are your own person. With me action speaks much louder than any words can and you wil be judged by those actions or lack also. Thru training I hope to bring out the very best in you and by your interaction with me , the best of myself also. If you are just in this to be a player, don't waste my time or yours, I seek those that know what they want.

If your seeking a tall burly dom, then look else where because, that is not me. I seek a woman that has a curvacous body with an average build/a few pounds extra in the right places, and a sassy temperment to go with it.

Dominence is not pain, pleasure or anything like that. Its first and foremost TRUST and MINDSET, if you cannot trust someone then your mindset will not be there totally either. If you understand that then let me hear what you think about it!

"A woman is not owned because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because she is owned"

The love of a slave girl is the deepest and most profound love that any woman can give a man. Love makes a woman a man's slave, and the wholeness of that love requires that she be, in truth, his slave.



Good luck in your search and may your days be blessed by finding what you seek.

Just me, Doc
8/27/2013 3:57:44 PM

Time to set sail and move west young man...That was told to me countless years ago.  I have reached that special time in my life that that I can actual do that so will set sails in Nov. 2013 and will let those who are interested know what paradise I have settled in.....God bless all in their journeys and let the players go with out any subbie pray and broken hearts

 

Doc

3/16/2013 9:12:04 PM
Seems like time moves so fast when we look back too far.
9/6/2010 5:56:05 AM
Again I have found Potential, but time will determine if a fire will be started with pine or oak.  The spark is there but not sure how it will grow
5/28/2010 6:33:54 PM
Am about to embark on another journey of teaching.  Will test to clay to see how well it molds and takes form.......
12/17/2009 5:16:59 PM
Well 2009 is about to be closed out and we will start the perfect "10" year.  So far this one has been very depressing with the money markets like it is.  Things will be better next year for many of us.
6/7/2009 9:10:28 AM
Had a not so good week but ended on good note.  Lost a crown tuesday and friday had balanced of damaged based removed.  Attended group munch first in a year since i suffer flood damage from june 12 2008 flood.  Hard to believe so much damage yet unattended.
4/7/2009 1:38:29 PM

Deleted my old photo and posted a new one.  In the mean time if you like to see what I look like just drop me a note.......Doc

2/19/2009 1:55:24 PM
After a wonderful wed. my world got a lot sadder these morning.  Recieved news this morning that a very good submissive friend of mine was found dead tuesday Feb. 17 by friends.  Mandy was always fun to be around and I had the pleasure to play with her also.  Mandy always had the wonderful sense of humor and spirit.  To find that she had taken her own life left a hole in my soul and heart, it also left questions if I could have helped prevent that from happening.  Having lost others to suicide this again opens those old wounds in my heart.
2/13/2009 8:09:48 AM
Life moves on some days at a slow pace and others just a blur.....Whats yours like today in the focus of the lifestyle?
12/19/2008 7:28:15 PM
Its amazeing how much emotion can turn a good day into a sad one especially when you know you are about to lose one of your grandparents.
12/15/2008 6:01:27 PM
Every once in a while you come upon a gem that shines with out any effort .... Today I found that Gem
9/28/2008 5:02:11 PM
Ahh what a Lil Vacation will do for ones spirit.... S E Island of Boracay was fantastic for the soul after such a terrible summer.
6/14/2008 5:21:00 AM
Well found out yesterday may have lost everything I own in millium Flood of 2008.  Will not be sure till they let use back into the town in 2 weeks we were told yesterday.  Will use my electrical skils for the town as FEMA want qualifered help to rebuild town safely.
2/21/2008 5:05:25 PM
Greeting all whom venture here.

They say home is where the heart is.

I say Home is where the soul of the heart is.  If your into bdsm for the sex, you are missing so much more thats there's to offer your Dominant.  Force is what you would call over doing it hiting a nail hard.  Willingness is a gift that is hard to gain and so easy to lose in the beat of a heart. 

Just my thoughts

Doc

1/26/2008 11:57:15 AM
Boy how time flies though this month so far.  Funny how we address things and people who enter and exit our lives.  Some times its funny and other times sad.
12/29/2007 1:17:29 PM
Sadist thoughts abound today and has been a good day of adding chapter to my novel.  Have completed another 2 chapters today and feel quite productive.  Funny how writers block can disappear just as fast as it came on.  Edge play makes for wonderful writing material
11/11/2007 5:50:54 AM
Mentoring is not a gift to be taken lightly.  If you deal with someone, mentoring them, do not shutoff communication with them without telling them the reason you do something like that.  They are not doormats or something to be played with, but wonderful beings with very giving hearts.  If you do not respect them, its your own fault they do not respect you!!!!........ 
11/3/2007 6:59:22 AM
To find strenght in oneself is to find happiness in ones heart.
10/14/2007 6:29:54 PM
They say action speaks louder then words.  Well this weekend I read volumes then
9/23/2007 12:40:50 PM
Making it a fun Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
9/19/2007 5:07:29 PM
What a wonderful dayfor..................?
9/6/2007 8:12:17 PM
Spent an Awesome 5 days in Estes Park Colo. last weekend.  Have never been there but it is a wonderful place to see along with Rocky Mtn. Nat. Park.  Will post so pics from the trip here this week I think.  I am still on a Rocky Mtn. High and it feels great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
8/5/2007 5:17:19 PM
Well another weekend wraps up with a wonderful munch and rope demo I attended on a sunny sat afternoon.  Learned a couple of new things i can try out   Also meet a wonderful new friend too finally.
7/29/2007 2:34:50 PM
Discovered the most lovely submissive today but the problem is she is from out of state.  Just have to see if she thinks herself worthy of joining me for some serious chats to get to know each other better.  Only time will tell
7/12/2007 1:02:09 PM
Am in extreme pain this afternoon as had a molar with extra long roots extracted.  Glad was only two roots!!!  Waiting for the good drugs to kick in now
7/8/2007 6:05:26 PM
To put all on a better keel i have updated my profile to reflect what i seek and will ask for in return.  If you are a player i have just one word for that  "NEXT"  I don't deal in players thank you very much.  I seek what is real and the person that can grasp that reality.  I am not here to fix you!  I am here to train you and help you grow and move ahead..  I will push prod and use my skills to enhance whom you want to become.  That will not be an over night task I will tell you that not.  If you cannot trust me or I you in the future then there is no point of starting anything.  My main point is control simple enough said but add to that fun, otherwise it gets boring
6/27/2007 6:23:05 PM
Well after 2 days off work now swelling in my crushed thumb is finally starting to go down Thank God!!!  Be nice to be back to normal things i hope soon.
6/26/2007 12:26:24 PM
Well after a well desrved vacation to canada first day back at work wind up smashing my left thumb under a plate of steel so have a lil mini vacation from work now
4/22/2007 11:51:51 AM

Been a lil while since i Left a note here but need to say I am only seeking Female submissives at this time.  And that said thank you for the interest in the new playspace

4/8/2007 8:19:45 PM
Well picked up new addition to Dungeon Sat and am now well suited for medical play.  Will tell ya more as things come together this week and when we have open house in very near future
4/4/2007 3:20:21 PM
well lil behind due to hang nail of all things causeing a bacterial infection due to too much danceing last weekend on my lil toe.  Guess am not perfect after all LOL
3/31/2007 6:06:59 AM
Guess picked a good day to work inside
3/29/2007 8:29:53 PM
Well new spreader table is awaiting padding and covering and then is ready for use.  Not sure what color yet between red or black.  Any one have an opionion I would like the input.

Thanks
3/27/2007 8:37:25 PM
Well Dungeon construction fans were still on schedule.  Will start building new spreader table tomorrow and finsh it up fri eve with leather covering
3/24/2007 6:14:13 PM
If your Life was a Book, What would the title Read?  Just a quiet thought to end the day with
3/24/2007 4:45:54 PM
Well Dungeon is coming right along and will be ready as planned.  First use will be fun!!!
1/29/2006 3:32:13 PM
Will be off line most of this week due to power problem in my computer hope to be back shortly

Doc
10/29/2005 6:13:48 PM
sometimes we foind in someone that one thing we seek and it makes us smile Sunday will see that in person
10/15/2005 2:34:40 PM
after a break from this lifestyle due to my moms illness and then passing 2 weeks ago I am again ready to continue my journey and seek a partner worthy to travel and share with me
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 Age: 24
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