Housesparrow

Hi Whoever is reading.

Just a question: I am in France at this time and when I search "Newest Users" it will only show me those who are in France. I changed my profile location to United Kingdom,now Ionly see Newbies in the UK. I seek an online slave so do not require contact only in a specific country.  Does any one know how, if at all, I can change that list to see all and sundry regardless of location?

Thanks

Nigh on two years since I was here. How time flies when you're having fun. :)

Lots happened. New house, new location. Retired now and resting on my laurels, not that I have received an over abundance of those. Hello to all if any who have fodn or at least reasonable memories of moi. Hope to chat to you as you wish and to find some new friends.

It is hard being a Master. Many do not make it. It is essential that one keeps in mind that the slave is not only there for one?s personal aggrandisement and pleasure, although that is a part of it. My precious slave once said in very true words: ?controlling a woman isn't about how many times you can make her cum. It's about looking into her heart and seeing what is there.?

A master must work at discovering the slave. What makes her tick so to speak. People are how they are for a number of reasons, a mixture of ?nature and nurture? if that worn cliché could be forgiven.

One problem is that when the sub or slave plays up, begins getting cheeky or disappearing, any number of possibilities, it is easy to forget not to be annoyed. That happens to every one but it is unwarranted, because there is always an underlying reason for action.

One must expect difficulties when dealing with people and especially when dealing with a slave. A Master / slave relationship will not work if the slave is not devoted. That much is obvious. However, it is easy for a master to forget his side of the bargain. A master must care, and I mean, really care.

A true master must be honest about his annoyance or anger; otherwise a falsehood enters the relationship. However, it must always be considered that the annoyance or anger maybe misplaced. Also, after any punishment if any is warranted, A master must then forgive. He must care and have charity.

To misquote I Corinthians 13: 4-7 to some degree: ?a true master is patient, kind and understanding. He does not envy or boast is not proud, rude, nor self-seeking. He is not easily angered and keeps no record of wrongs. A true Master does not delight in the slave?s pain or punishment but rejoices when the lesson is accepted and learnt. He must always protect, always trust, always hope, always perseveres.

It seems to me that the commonest trait on the profile introductions on CM by subs, is to go straight into shouting at the world what they don't wait. More often than not, being abusive with it. Attack is considered the best means of defence, I suppose.

It is an indication of their past unfortunate experiences that they do that, but it is off-putting somewhat, to say the least. I've only been a member for a shor ttime and alreadt, to find a nice sub to drop a brief line of introduction to is becoming much like wading through treacle.

Why I don?t have my photo in my profile.

A sense of privacy is the basis of it I suppose, although I am very willing to show myself to those I befriend. I have a recent head and shoulders for just that purpose.

There is more than one member in CM who I used to work with and with whom I did not of necessity get on with, one of whom was a notorious gossip. I have a vanilla "front" to keep up. I have also seen a family member on here but studiously avoid checking her posts out. If they knew I was also here, that could damage our relationship through her embarrassment if nothing else.

Anyway, that?s my excuse. :o)

Not sure if I'm amused or annoyed. I just did a search for dogging sites in the area I used to live in until recenlty. There is one there I used to drive passed nearly evry day. What missed opportunities to off-load my burdens. :o)

I'm new to this site and I must say that this "recent journals" section is the best I've seen on any site. I'm already chatting away to girls and tgirls, whether potential online slaves or merely seeking friendship.
Admittedly, a lot of people are merely checking out my profile and then disappearing but the point is, that people are looking.