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Male Submissive, 38
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Male Submissive, 38, new york
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Male Submissive, 50, new york city, New York
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About HouseOfSed
Dom Nerd looking for Subbie Nerdette. Not looking for a doormat or ashtray. Looking more for a kitty I can tickle, a puppy to throw a ball to, or a pony to groom. Mostly looking to have some fun. What do I bring to the table? Loyalty, I know who my friends are and I reward them with respect. I'm not a player. Sincerely looking for LTR Honesty, I have to admit I'm new to the scene but I'm full of ideas (some say I'm full of something else, but I digress). I just ask that you please dont ask "do I look fat in this?" Trustworthiness, to the core, I even leave found change in a vending machine if its not mine, is that a bad thing? Gotta keep that karma positive. Must get to know you before any play. I am as interested in your kinks as much as my own, maybe we can introduce each other to some new things. Punctuality, If I say I'm going to be someplace or do something, you can set your watch by it. No mind games (outside of the bedroom). See loyalty, honesty and trustworthiness above. Good sense of humor. Looking for a petite to average lady between mid 30s and mid 40's to have fun with. Local to the Tampa Bay area. Somebody compatible with my interests and can tolerate my quirks ;-) College educated. Lousy speller :-) My interests: playing with your body, bondage, waist training, need good excuse to build fucking machines, some discipline, not into extreme pain or any public humiliation. I enjoy going to the Renaissance Festival. I also admire corsets, heels, leather, fetish fashions. Did I mention corsets? :-) I often modify things to make them uniquely mine, you would be no exception.
You better sign up for yoga classes, you'll need them. Favorite magazines: Marquis, Skin Two Favorite author: Gord or Jacqueline Carey. Your picture gets mine. Congratulations... You've read this far so be sure to read my journal.
Not interested in groups, couples, one night stands. Ladies only. No Kids, No Smoking, No Drugs, No STDs, expect same. I am NOT a sugar daddy, I will not send money or help anyone relocate. |
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I just finished reading: Kushiel's Scion Kushiel's Justice Kushiel's Mercy all by Jacqueline Carey |
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My main goal is to reduce the drama in my life. Not sure exactly how to do this but maybe you'll be the key. |
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I love the first cold snap in Florida. All the women pull out their fashion boots from their closet. International Mall in Tampa becomes a mighty fine place. |
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Google.. "AMD offers dating tips for women" ~ thinq
"Get a Geek in Five Easy Lessons" ~ AMD
"Study breaks down divorce rates by occupation" ~? washington post
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Todays personality quiz. How do you eat M&Ms? A) At random B) All one color first, then another color C) The color of the highest/lowest number D) One of each color at a time (points for color in alphabetical order) E) Some other inventive way F) What the hell are you babbling about .... they're just M&Ms!!! |
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I just finished reading: Kushiel's Dart Kushiel's Chosen Kushiel's Avatar all by Jacqueline Carey
very very good |
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Best t-shirt spotted today... "Will Flog for Food" |
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Training schedule for the truly demented...
Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday nights you sleep in a mono-glove.
Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday nights you sleep in a leather hood, gag and blindfold.
Full time tightlacing. Showering excepted.
When at home your heels will be higher than when your out.
Prime time TV will occasionally be watched while hogtied. Suitable
posture collar or head harness will be provided to help keep the head
up. Maybe a gag with a built in tv remote :-)
Mandatory yoga classes.
You start out easy, it may take weeks or months to get use to. It is
more important to go slow and achieve the goal than to rush it and fail.
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This entry to appear once every 4 years. |
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I've been reading the forums again. There seems to be quite a few mean Doms out there. WTF?? I would never be a mean to a cat or a dog. Why would I be mean to a sub??
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However, If you pee on the carpet you'll get a swat with the newspaper. :-) |
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Happy New Year  |
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I just read a blog about a young lady near London that has spent over a year wearing nothing but ballet boots. She's to the point that she cant walk without them (no pun intended). I know it sounds more like a fantasy but if it is all fantasy it is a very well thought out one. The details she gives on her day to day adventures leads me to believe her, and I have a pretty well developed BS alarm. After all, there must be at least one person in the world who wears them all the time. right? |
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See no evil Hear no evil Speak no evil . . . This leaves... Do no evil WIIIIIIIIIDE open 
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I'm totally fascinated with the whole concept of the "Taken in Hand" relationship. Google it. It seems to be a much deeper commitment and more realistic 24/7 D/s scenario. I've only just discovered it so I'm not an expert at all it nuances yet. I love learning new things. |
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I'm very interested in your needs and desires. I am not a draconian selfish dom. I have an open mind to new ideas or points of view I hadn't fully considered before. I make no promises but I will try and accommodate your needs. In exchange for my taking care of you, you need to indulge (and hopefully embrace) my interests. |
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In the interest of full disclosure I have to admit the following. I'm currently living in my parents house. Don't take this the wrong way, I have my own house. I'm in the middle of renovating it. I cant stay there while I do that so in the meantime I am crashing at my parents place. Thank god we get along. They're not here 6 months of the year anyway. The down side of this is that we wont be able to play here. The up side is that if you move fast you can get in on the new dungeon design
Also because I spent more on the house than I wanted, I cant swing a newer vehicle right now so I'm banging around in an old station wagon. Yes it is hideous, not sporty, unhip, and screams loser but it gets me from point A to point B reliably, so don't laugh. It's also good for going to Home Depot I hope to improve this situation within the next 6 months. The only debt I have is the mortgage and I don't want any more right now.
If either of these issues puts you off, good, I'm not into over materialism/consumerism so better we not clash. This also means that I'm getting better all the time, things are looking up and life is improving.
PS: The house is going to be fantastic when I finish. |
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If your a michael moore loving, aclu worshiping, Bush-stole-the-election, dyed in the wool liberal, we probably wont get along. Just a warning  |
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I'm not picky .... nothing too specific, just because I'm looking for two beautiful young petite bisexual switches to waist train.... no, I'm not picky. Oh, they can even be strong out in the real world .... they just have to be submissive to me ;-) and each other.
Ok, I'm just a simple Dom ;-) I can dream.
hmmm, I probably should do something with better odds. I'll go play the lotto. |
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Four things that will never occur together: 1) Your arms are bound. 2) Your legs are bound. 3) Your gagged. 4) I am not consciously monitoring you. |
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Lets see, how can I put this nicely..... I believe the flipflop will be the downfall of western civilization. And before you ask if that includes xx or yy type shoe my answer is, "If it makes a flipfloppy sound, its a flipflop". |
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I discovered today that Dilbert is no longer funny but Oreos are magical. |
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I don't like angry drunks. I was out at a friend of a friends birthday party and found myself not having a very good time. It dawned on me that a few of my friends were completely trashed and being, quite frankly, idiots. I don't think they were actually angry, just acting like it. A whole lot of yelling. That's it, a whole lot of yelling. Yelling denotes anger and that's the vibe I was feeling. I think they are so use to drinking in a noisy bars that when they get a drink in their hand they assume they need to start yelling in order to be heard. Not that any of them were listening. Now understand, we were in the friends livingroom, an environment completely under our control. I left there exhausted and I don't think it was because of the clock, I was just worn out from having a 5 hour argument that wasn't. |
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The most called-upon prerequisite of a friend is an accessible ear.
-Maya Angelou
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I need to get a new/better picture of myself. I was just looking at the one I was going to post and geeeezzzz, I look like a pissed off neanderthal that just smelled a dinosaur fart. :-)
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I keep thinking that all the good ladies are taken and I will never find an "undamaged" partner without much baggage. I mean, come on at this age and still single, what's wrong with you. Then I remember, I'm not damaged and I'm this old and single. It give me hope that your still out there. |
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Things have finally slowed down a little. I just bought a house. Its going to be a nice home some day. If I'm cleaver my vanilla friends will never suspect its dual purpose..... house and dungeon. I must start designing some dual use furniture ;-)
It just occurred to me, ... HouseOfSed now has a house. This should prove interesting. |
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Preamble:
This is a binding agreement between hereafter known as Trainee and Sedulous hereafter known as Trainer. This agreement in entered into freely and openly by both parties.
Statement of Purpose:
The purpose of this agreement is for both parties to enjoy the process of waist training while sticking to a rigid and constant routine.
Objective
The central objective of training is to reduce the Trainee's natural and corseted waist measurements. This will be achieved through a thorough and systematic program of tight-lacing. Trainee will be required to be in a corset or other waist cinching device for at least 22 hours a day.
During the training Trainee will also be trained in other areas such as general deportment, movement and exotic dress. Some examples may be requiring Trainee to walk in heels ranging from the mild to the severe for a period of time until they become second nature and the Trainee take on the demeanor and movements of a proper lady while in them. Trainee may be asked to wear various outfits for Trainer and in turn model them in an alluring, tasteful, seductive, and ultra feminine manner.
Trainee will strive diligently to re-mold her body, her habits, and her attitudes in accordance with Trainers desires.
Trainee will submit to various forms of bondage while corseted to test Trainee's stamina and Trainee's willingness and commitment to the waist training.
Stipulations:
At no time will Trainee comment on the tightness, the comfort, or inconvenience that the corset presents to Trainee unless Trainee is specifically asked. If Trainee finds the corset absolutely unbearable and requires Trainer's intervention it must be an emergency such as unbearable pain, numbness, breathing difficulty or other malady that could permanently injure Trainee or subject Trainee to extreme discomfort. If Trainee does require assistance it must be done in a lady like, non emotional manner, Trainee should be prepared to make a full disclosure of the problem and if asked present a possible remedy. Anything but polite and ladylike statements about Trainee's condition will be dealt with by punishment of increasing severity for each instance.
Trainee at no time will be allowed to tighten, loosen, or in any way tamper with the laces or busk of the corset unless Trainee is given permission to do so. If it is found that Trainee has tampered with the garment in any way Trainee will be subject to punishment of increasing severity for each instance.
It will be the responsibility of the Trainer to choose a corset suited to the forcasted weather, environment or planned activity. The Trainer understands that in modern society there will be times when lacing will prove too burdensom or embarasing to the Trainee and will make adjustments to the training regement as needed on a case by case basis. The Trainer will be forceful but loving in all training activities. The Trainer will be responsible for monitoring Trainees diet, health and exercise, furthermore to dictate changes to diet and exercise to improve the training effectiveness and or the Trainees overall health.
Punishment:
Punishment will be administered in the form of both corporal correction and physical restraint. All punishments will follow the established guidelines that for SM and bondage play. Punishment will increase in severity with each infraction. Some examples of punishment include but not limited to the following.
Trainee may be forced to wear heels for an extended time, forced to stand or perform other tasks as prescribed by the Trainer.
Trainee may be denied all clothing except for corset and other apparel as stipulated by Trainer
Trainee may be administered enemas while corseted and forced to hold them for extended periods of time
Punishment of the Trainee is subject to certain rules designed to protect the Trainee from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm. Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse:
Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn
Burning the body
Drastic loss of circulation
Causing internal bleeding
Loss of consciousness
Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time
Inclusion:
This agreement may be combined with other agreements between Trainer and Trainee. In cases of agreement conficts it will be the sole judgement of the Trainer which agreement take presedent. This agreement is not to be used as a Master / Slave agreement nor a Total Power Exchange (TPE) agreement.
Alteration of Agreement :
This agreement may not be altered, except when both Trainer and Trainee agree. If the agreement is altered, the new agreement shall be printed and signed, and then the old agreement must be destroyed.
Acceptance:
I, , hereby accept the above agreement and subject myself to all the promises and covenants therein contained. I fully understand that this agreement is contingent upon complying with all the terms and provisions of listed herein.
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on waking.... I always feel better when I wake up naturally and am not woken up by some outside noise. |
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