HouseofPhoenix

 Next play party on the farm is Saturday, December 1st, 2012....from 8PM till ???????

Hope to see you there.

Great party....met some new folks and got to see our old friends as well.....can't wait till next month.  Thanks all who attended....

HALLOWEEN PARTY ON THE FARM 10/27/12 FROM 8PM TIL ???????  ASK FOR DIRECTIONS. 

Why is it that most female/male subs or slaves think this lifestyle is ALL about the sex and pain......doesn't anyone live in the real world of working and doing things around the house????

Another one of deceit and manipulation.............3/17/12

Master here,

   It APPEARS that we have found a female slave. She has been visiting from Mo on a fairly regular basis and wishes to be our slave.  Although there is a problem of sorts it should work as long as she is what she says and performs ALL that is required. Our last slave was a male who failed to disclose things that one should to the future owners and that caused some stress in the relationship...that combined with poor performance, started things out on the wrong foot.  

  We will be monitoring things on her mail and such and expecting full cooperation of course. However, we have agreed to help her out as friends in the lifestyle if nothing ellse and we are people who believe in keeping our word. She has performed well as a non committed visiting slave and hopefully she will do EVEN better as a slave to the house. It will be fine as long as the small problem does not become a big one.

  For obvious reasons we are cautious at this time...I am hoping that once here full time we will have FULL trust. The relationship should be for the benefit of all.

  Welcome firecracker04 who is now firecracker94

   Had quite a lot of fun on halloween and looking forward to the next gathering. We had some of our good friends over and some from as far away as Mo. It is truly amazing what fun one can have with folks that enjoy the real thing.
   I am a die hard no quitter, obvious from the length of time we have been searching. Although we have some friends thru our search we also have run across multiple fantasy players. Some are sincere but can't make that final step happen for whatever reason and I can only tell them they are missing out on the freedom of being who they are in a world of like minded folks.
   I know that maturity does not necessarily come with age but one would hope. Sometimes it seems the boldness and bravado of youth should be even more so with age and knowledge. BUT again the reality of things is FEAR of getting what you seek and then not being able to live to the fictional standards we have set. I hope those in this category eventually find what they seek, but its doubtful.
   Vanila always rises up unless one truly can live seperated from the real world.


   Master Phoenix

Just a small explanation of what the B&B association will be all about for those lacking in either lifestyle experience or business savvy (LOL).
What we anticipate is a not for profit retreat for lifestyle BDSM people to come and relax and enjoy the country air, atmosphere and company.
Any sub/slave that is a part of our family will be maintaining the normal household duties and Occasionally assisting in the B&B unless they desire otherwise. If you are part of the family, well then whatever it takes to run the farm you will be assigned those tasks if an when Master and Mistress are occupied with guests or visitors. If you are a sub then duties will be within your limits. As agreed and you will be expected to contribute if working outside the home.
If you are a live in 24/7 slave you will perform all duties directed in either area. All things are and will be negotiated on a contract with renewal or ?
We do not seek to make a profit....we wish to enhance our lives with like minded people. Not suitable for everyone and that is fine. More information will be given to like minded candidates. If you feel this is not for you then good luck. I/we would prefer to do without than deal with more wanna bes that have no concept on what is fulfilling to true submissive or a slave. If your goal is not to service and please your DOM/DOMME or Master/Mistress in any way you probably won't want to be a part of this.

Master Phoenix

  As we progress thru CM searchs and eliminate those who dwell in a world of fantasy full time I find that what we seek in reality is a female NO LIMIT full time live in slave with no allowance for decisions of there own. Willing to live in a confined area and taken out in order to complete their assigned tasks or for use by Master. Mistress and later guests.

  If a female submissive but not slave material then we would be willing to allow her to live and interact at appropriate times. The age range we seek will be from mid 30s to ??? They must of course be willing to learn what we require of them and willing to move ahead quickly. Seems it is a difficult requirement but one can hope.

  As far as a male we have dealt with one that claimed to be a slave and then found he could not handle slave work thus he has moved on. I require a male to be able to keep up with me in working the farm and property within a reasonable amount of time. It is also understood that it should be able to think logically........we seem to have found another and it will be visiting during our halloween party. We shall see.

Master Phoenix

  Well there is a nip in the air and still no long term male/female/or couple. I suppose that most are not really willing to try this type of life although the rewards are great. Peace and quiet (except for the occasional scream from the dungeon) Beautiful night skys. Healthy cooking diet. Great sex with a very peverted couple willing to share.
   But if you don't have the will power to test the waters or the integrity to be what you say you are....well then its not for you. If you are not willing to give all for the life you wish then you are not the right ones for us. We gave all to make the change and find it well worth it all.
   When we find them they will find true happiness in their use and contribution to the B&B that they will be a part of. It will begin next year and guests have already requested. But some issues arose that could not be helped and we will have to hold a bit.
   I know that somewhere out there we will find them. REAL slaves/submissives that want the REAL LIFE not what you see in hollywood. (LOL)

Master Phoenix

All of here at the House of Phoenix want to wish everyone a peaceful, safe and blessed Holiday.........

Merry Christmas &
Happy New Year 

  Well, seems like the search goes on. Futile as it may seem at times we will endeavor to persivere....sound vaguely familiar?
  I am having some difficulty getting a courteous response, or for that matter any kind of response from a lot of the slaves on the sight that I have contacted.
  I realize that I am not their Master at this time and may not be (THE ONE) but I am thinking that they have been poorly trained by previous owners if they lack the common courtesy to respond....unless insulting them is what they truly seek.
  My policy has always been that a slave is only required to address there Master as Sir and only follow their directives, but always to respond in a courteous manner to others.
  Possibly I should address them with the sadistic attitude that so many complain of ie.
on your knees bitch master is here....
  Would think that unless you are an on line slave only ,that this would be a way of triggering a warning....but I guess at least it gets a response from what I view.
  I believe that one must communicate mentally and find common areas of interest as well as verify that the real world is not quite ready for us 24/7 but our life at home is.
  I seem to see people feeling that since they are not dealing with the vanilla world they don't need to have common manners....are we an underground sub culture...if so I have surely misguided a few people and fooled myself for 25 plus years.
  I do believe that some see it that way, I am not one of those.
  Perhaps my demeanor and our profile do not indicate the true nature of this beast, but if you do not inquire how do you know,,,,and if you are not wanting to get to the peak why climb the mountain.

Master Phoenix

 I am just making an entry to express my observations of things I have found while we are searching for submissives/slaves for our lifestye retreat.
  It seems to me that there are more fantasizers(?) or curious folks on this site than real time real life lifestylers.
  I have no problem with that as long as they explain that they are really not interested in making that transition.
  I have found over the years that they will eventually go away....but in the meantime, we that sincerely live this life are lead on and tend to get a good line of communication going to a point.
  Of course we can usually spot the players at a reasonable point in time but, why waste someones time, if you wish to play at this say so...
  I believe that some of the so called slaves need to have a reality check...bottom line is if you wish to exist in the vanilla world you can not live this life 24/7, 18 or less is possible at certain times but REALLY FOLKS..
  We currently have a stepdaughter and grandaughter with us....moving soon but until then would any of you expect me to flaunt the lifestyle in there prescence?
  The stepdaughter is well aware of the way we live and has no problem...but a 5 year old could accidentaly cause a problem, don"t ya think?
  Our philosiphy probably differs in the way we would treat our slaves....yes, they are in fact property supposedly without rights or limits and the inability to use the word NO while in service or to set limits.......THIS is where we feel the so called slave needs to be very cautious....If you match yourself to the wrong Master your limits may not be their concern!!!
  Our goal is to have these people be a part of the family with living quarters in the lower level.....but to expect certain protocol and social order structure...
  I as Master will have the right to punish or reward as needed but my Alpha sub and Misstress in training, two seperate entitys will filter down most of that, if they fail, punishments will follow through myself. If you really believe you want to live this lifestyle to the fullest you must be willing to be prepared both psycologicaly,emotionally and physicaly for the move..
  Anyone who believes they have seen all there is as far as limits and such needs to be cautious with the words "NO LIMITS" And! If its only about sex....lets get real....the sex is a BIG BONUS but I am a sadist and I enjoy both sides of that coin as far as pleasure goes.
  I will probably scare some people off with this meandering but I thought I should sound off a little....those that I refer to know who they are and I will leave it at that.


Closing for now...

MasterPhoenix, www.houseofphoenix.net

Slave ...noun
Middle English sclave, from Old French or Medieval Latin; Old French esclave, from Medieval Latin sclavus, from Sclavus Slavic; from the frequent enslavement of Slavs in central Europe
1. a person held in servitude as the chattel of another
2. one that is completely subservient to a dominating influence
3. Drudge, Toiler

Chattel........noun
Middle English chatel property, from Middle French, from Medieval Latin capitale-- more at Cattle
1. an item of tangible movable property except real estate, freehold and things (as buildings) connected with real property.
2. Slave, Bondsman

submissive...adjective
submitting to others
--submissively
--submissiveness