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	About Hotmess88 4-23-16 First time logging in here in 8 months or so. I found a vanilla lover and deliciously corrupted him. Now, I guess we'll slowly try to meet other like-minded kinksters to befriend. ? ? ? About me: sassy/snarky smart self-aware fiercely compassionate bohemian private voyeur ( not an exhibitionist!) liberal extremely experimental, yet very cautious moderately well-educated (hope to be well-traveled by the time I shed this mortal coil) ? About you: ? ? I only talk to people with profile pictures, preferably of themselves. If you are a creeper who views my pics repeatedly, eeww, I am going to block you. I am not going to Skype with you and I am not in a position to relocate. ? Unicorn Hunters: I don't play casually, and don't want to form a tight triad....something in between perhaps? ? *MILF Hunters/Cougar Cubs: What is it you seek? Please only contact me if you have been around the sun no less than 28 times and around the block more than that. ? Thanks. I had to get that stuff out of the way.? ? ?

Hello fellow citizens! I want to exchange messages with you which could lead to kinky sex, a loving relationship, and possibly both at the same time. I'm just busy as hell. Please be specific if you message me. I do not have the time or inclination to respond to "hey" "how are you?" and such...

We haven't walked a mile in one another's moccasins.

7/5- I think I am ready to settle downish. I have been sowing these wild oats for 3 years. Time to overhaul the profile again.

Man from Tennessee: ----> sends chat request Me: "I'm not much of a chatter." Him: "Maybe that's why you don't do well here."

Hello cyberspace friends. I don't visit this site much anymore, as no connection has ever come into fruition from it. I'm on other forums. Still, hope springs eternal....

5 minutes online before someone named For c e ful Daddy Dom sends me message saying I look like a fun rape toy. Sigh.

If you don't use your/you're correctly I'm likely to point that out. I have found that one can tell a lot about D - types by doing this. I mean it in good fun and it is an excellent way to see how someone responds to brats. I like it when my spelling or grammar is corrected. Meh.

I'm curious as to how these stock messages work. How is it that someone can send me (an obviously generic msg prepared for the masses) without even viewing my profile?

Feeling rather untethered, atm.

I don't think collarme is the best place to get one's start into BDSM networking....why not educate yourself via blogs, books, FL groups, etc, before setting up camp in this sea of, well, bizarre human interaction. It would be so much more pleasant for everyone, including you, newbie. I say that with no snark.

Two different people have referred to me or my profile as "uppity." I am not even sure what that word means, really. Guess I'll use one of my fancy dictionaries to look it up :P Would a comment like this count? Dear stranger from a different time zone, my day was probably fine, as most are. Thanks for asking. Only not really. I'm all for making friends across the planet, but I do not think asking a stranger "how was your day?" is the way to go about it. You might have surmised this by, oh, I don't know, reading and respecting my profile. I am actually a very warm and earnest communicator, and almost always take the time to reply to thoughtful messages. I don't know how other intelligent women's profiles read, but seeing how being a doormat is not desirable, and being uppity is something negative, I sure hope they've reached that sweet spot of conveying just the right combination of what is acceptable.

Going on a vacation in Los Angeles in March. I want to go to an event, now, how to figure out which one!?

~If a woman is not submissive to a man it is not because she lacks the ability to submit; rather he lacked the ability to create for her a place in her heart and mind to fall to her knees. ~ Anonymous

I am adding this today after a man I had 10 email exchanges with wanted me to call him Sir and set boundaries for me and called me a naïve sub "at best." He also said I was sabotaging "maybe one of the best things to happen to (me) in a long time" by not deferring to him sooner as he was a "real Dom from NYC with 20 years of experience". I politely thanked him for his time.

I am genuinely wondering why Doms put only pics of their current/past play partners or even just pics of women from the internet on their profiles. If you are part of a couple it makes sense, but otherwise I just don't get it. Is it to display your "type"? Is it to show you're skilled and experienced? I want to see YOU, not just your women in various positions. For one thing, I am going to assume that those women are your desired aesthetic and if I don't resemble them, I move on. For another thing, it doesn't help me assess if you and I might have chemistry. Never ever have I thought "hey, that could be me! Sign me up!"

I want to fall head over heels in lust....life is too short to be filled with mediocre sex.

I love it when a profile says "that being said," for some reason...

Ha, I just realized there was a "stock" email of interest that CM can generate, and here I thought these fellows were all equally polite.

Please, if you are married and your spouse does not know about your BDSM proclivities, do not contact me.

Pictures of your face are important. I do not want to chat with you past a message or two without a pic.

I feel like there is water everywhere and not a drop to drink.

Kindly please don't ignore my profile stranger. I actually took the time to write it because I actually mean this stuff. Thanks.

Still learning the ins and outs of this site.

I feel like a cat on a hot tin roof.

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