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Male Dominant, 21, Reading
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Male Submissive, 43, Baltimorecounty, Maryland
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Male Submissive, 57
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About HonestDesires
I am exploring this side of myself. Looking for one who can be honest, willing to learn with me, and a desire to be themself with no games.
I started out as submissive so many call me a switch. I call me...me. I'm also married with a very vanilla spouse. So take that into consideration as well.
I am caring and loving with a firm hand.?Will earn respect since everyone regardless of dominant or submissive should do so. Nothing in this lifestyle is easy so do not expect it to be from me either. I will have you thinking, wondering...?Since I am just learning, I am not willing to get into the extreme side of D/s...yet. Time will tell...
I may seem "gentle" but will not hesitate to show a harsh side when warrented.
I have many interests both in and out of "the lifestyle", including intelligent conversations all the time. I'm not looking for a sub who cannot or will not think for himself. I'm not a babysitter. I want someone strong enough to be submissive. Confident enough to give up control and know it will not be misused and/or abused.
If you're into games....pass me by.
Know yourself, where you'd like to go....how you get there is for "us" to decide. The path may not be as direct as you want but..... |
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I am happy and very pleased to say that at this time I am no longer looking for a submissive. I now have a submissive who is just what I want and need. Thank you hawk. You are a gem among diamonds! |
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I have made up my mind on a sub...if he accepts. |
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I have now narrowed my search to 4 subs. Now to get to know them a bit more....see who best fits me and go from there! I am excited this is finally working for me instead of needing a shovel to get rid of the BS!
Nt saying the next step is going to be easy but it is a step forward!! |
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I have learned that we all have a place in life. We just need to be patient until we find the "perfect fit". |
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New friends are experiences yet to be discovered.... |
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The knowledge we glean should be shared...the question is ...whom? LOL geez... |
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Look inside yourself and find the freedom brought by accepting who you are...Keep your mind open and judge not lest ye be judged! |
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Been awhile...not much access but have I been doing some searching in myself...Interesting findings...LOL |
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I am getting more excited as I get to know myself better. This is one journey where there are no wrongs, only learning experiences... |
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I am not ignoring anyone. It is hard for me to get to my email right now. Please have patience with me. I will answer emails as I have time and access. |
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Summer is my favorite season. So much to do and see when one has time. |
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What a beautiful day to share with someone... |
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It isn't about one OR the other! It's about both...he and I make ONE...his wants and needs may come after Mine but they are important! |
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Let no one judge another for what they do, want, or need. If it's "right" to them, then it's all good yes? Just as we are each one different, so are the couples' wants and needs. No one and I mean no one has the right to judge another and say that person is wrong for how or what they believe. This lifestyle is supposed to be about being open minded...But not all adhere to this thought do they?? It all revolves around the two in the relationship be that as it may be....... |
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Real submission cannot be taken nor forced. It must be given by a man who has the strength to yearn and then beg for what he wants and needs. Tis not always easy nor a bed of roses. If it's easy you're looking for...please go by Me. |
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This lifestyle is a never ending journey of steps. Sometimes one takes one step forward only to go back 2 steps the next time. Patience is big is it not? LOL
I am not only looking for a submissive male but also a partner in the vanilla world. He will have input in every way tho tis my word in the end that says it is so.
Do NOT mistake my mutual respect for being overly soft! I can and will yield an evil hand or belt upon a soft behind or make very good use of a corner when someone steps over the line!
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I travel extensively with my job. I'm not being rude nor ignoring you if I do not answer right away. Manners and respect are big with me and they work both ways! |
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Is interesting how much one learns from other's questions. |
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I am just starting to explore this part of myself. Is a big step and a lot to learn. I know myself, what I want, what I desire.
Let journey of discovery begin... |
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