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Hetero Male Master, 45,  Spencer, Massachusetts
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At a glance I am:

Outspoken not rude
Confident not cocky
Precise not variable
Intelligent not conceited
Expressive not closed
Happy not medicated
Creative not conforming
Imaginative not dull
Spiritual not religious
Artistic not artsy
Chivalrous not entitled
Humble not superior
Disciplined not astray

A good way to start a list as I appreciate that I (apparently) had very little here in the way of what I wanted or who I was.

I am highly sexual/sensual by nature, but will use those hands to discipline when needed. I am not looking to have a relationship based on fear or submission as a "punishment".

I view life itself as a back and forth with Dominance and submission as a key part of it. I am proud, protective, proper and presentable. I am strong in mind and body.

I believe in open communication in any relationship - you can resolve ANY issue with it and it IS the issue without it.

I am here in search of "her", the one that identifies and relates to her submission as just a part of the much greater person that she is. This isn't an experiment for her in a place between relations but a point of knowing that this exactly what she seeks.

I seek a woman of natural beauty and abundant personality. Someone that doesn't offer excuses in place of results and expects that from "Him" as well.

She undoubtedly met this side of herself years ago and knows that this will always be a part of her. A person of character, integrity, and strength who respects hard work, and knows that nothing less than that brings the results desired in life.?

Someone who remembers the joy in laughing, loves to learn about her world, someone with imagination, personality, and the ability to express her needs and wants in life.

I enjoy talking and am an open book regarding my own needs - nothing to hide as well. On the other hand, I am not here to be IM'ed to death or to have the life emailed out of me. Be available and be real about this as well please.

I am an honest and hard working student of the world that is fortunate in being able to say I have seen much of it. It has made me a better person. more understanding, and open to many different types of people and interests - some explored and some yet to come.

I look forward to a thoughtful and insightful "look" at you when you are contacting me. Please respect that and be polite when contacting me - expect the same in return. Bonus points for saying "bonus points" when you contact me - I know that you didn't fall asleep getting through this.

Nice to "meet" you.....

Thanks for reading all of this.

Please don't be quick to say hello without having a photo to share as well. Only fair.....











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 Dominant Male



 6' 0"

 225 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)


 Anal Play (Expert)


 Body Worship


 Breast Play



 Enemas (Beginner)


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service


 Foot Worship


 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training (Expert)


 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation

 Shibari  (Beginner)


 Speech Restrictions




 Wax play (Beginner)






 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping













 1950s Lifestyle

 Curious About:


 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Suspension (Beginner)

 Hard Limits:

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

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Journal Entries:
10/4/2017 3:18:46 AM
I refuse to get old (as some say), I will continue to grow old and enjoy each minute

10/4/2017 3:14:09 AM
Imagination is a priceless tool we all possess...some use it, some lost it, some stopped understanding that like most tools, owning one does not mean that you can use it in any sotuation that requires a tool. Did your imagination guide you or betray you, replace or enhance your reality, or is more like a multi function tool....versatile, ready at a moments notice, but even MacGyver wouldn't need it if he just read the directions first?

6/8/2017 4:34:10 PM
de?lu?sion?al dəˈlo͞oZH(ə)nəl/ adjective characterized by or holding idiosyncratic beliefs or impressions that are contradicted by reality or rational argument, typically as a symptom of mental disorder. "hospitalization for schizophrenia and delusional paranoia" based on or having faulty judgment; mistaken. "their delusional belief in the project's merits never wavers"

10/28/2016 6:22:04 AM
she does exist....

10/22/2016 3:57:35 PM
The Trumpiesburg Address....

Four misspeaks and seven accusations ago my whorefather brought forth on this election, a new candidate, conceived in opulence, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are not created equal.

Now we are engaged in a great civil disturbance, testing if the voters of this nation can endure. We are met on the information superhighway of that war. We have come to dedicate a great portion of that internet, the final resting place of ones public actions and deeds, as living proof of these embarrassments of political leadership options. It is all together fitting and proper that we do this.

But in a larger sense, we can not proudly support, we can not boast about, we can not fully side with, nor fully explain our current options. The brave Americans living and dead, who struggled for the office, who brought this amazing creation to life, far above our ability to influence or be truly heard in the process. The world will little note, nor long after remember what was said here, but should never forget this process and the facts. It is for us the alive, rather, to be speaking up about the unfinished work of fixing this mess. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the task before us - that from these horrid options for the office we take great notice of the actual agenda they represent - that we highly resolve that these nominated mistakes were not the best we offer - that our vote was not in vain - that this nation, under (insert favorite mythical cheerleader), shall have a rebirth of intellect - and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall one day resemble, reflect, and equally represent the people it serves.

In all my years of voting options.....this is a tough one.

And for those of you that may not agree...I know, I know, don't mix Politics with Poly Tits....I get it.

6/12/2015 4:00:20 AM
The one who asks for nothing deserves it all

2/15/2014 11:29:16 PM

should have read that one

8/6/2013 7:13:20 AM

"u", "c", and "k" are letters not words


8/6/2013 6:38:37 AM

Never regret a well thought out decision, never be afraid to be spontaneous, never assume either of these will be as you imagined them to be......

7/14/2013 1:54:18 PM

you need to do a lot more than look good to be good...

6/29/2013 9:15:08 AM

why is it that imagination holds the best and worst of all of our pays to connect with what is real and spend the time thinking about that.


take the best of that and make it real.

4/19/2013 10:14:37 AM

its only a game if you decide to play along

1/16/2013 6:38:48 AM

Do you know what a real problem is? Its something that you don't have a solution to and will never have an answer for if you do not apply yourself to figuring it out.


Credit problems are generally experienced by people that don't know how to spend  or save in proper moderation.


Math problems help you learn - they aren't the reason you cant multiply


Problems with your memory can usually get fixed with a pencil and a pen.


Remember that you have very few problems in your life that cant be overcome with effort, attention to detail, and a good long look in the mirror.



12/6/2012 3:09:19 PM

Can you be who you say you are? can you listen? learn? live the way that you write about?


4/27/2012 7:55:08 PM


4/8/2012 6:29:13 PM

A seemingly normal conversation takes an odd turn when I read this "I've never wanted for anything, I don't see that being a good way to live"

4/8/2012 10:24:52 AM

It is so much more than wanting it if your goal is to have it - ME

4/8/2012 2:14:46 AM

ladies, remember to say no when a stranger asks you if you want to kiss the bunny between the ears.

4/3/2012 3:47:54 PM

it is amazing what you find when you narrow the search

3/14/2012 1:46:21 PM

excuses are like assholes......they stink if they are not fresh



2/25/2012 6:25:18 AM

It is not enough to have good intentions when you are supposed to be having good impressions

2/20/2012 6:50:50 AM

I am thinking that Lincoln would even want to get a Polk today - hehe


Happy presidents day all

2/18/2012 5:46:14 PM

does anyone remember bubs daddy bubble gum...long sticks that were plastic wrapped and dusted with powdered sugar (of some sort - could have been corn starch)??

2/15/2012 12:48:17 PM

remember when someone says that they are a "Pro" that there is always a pro in is sad

2/13/2012 2:46:44 AM

are the jolly green giant and santa claus related? they both can only seem to muster a "ho ho ho" when on the spot

2/11/2012 8:45:43 AM

I like to read profiles from all types of people here and still am surprised (albeit rarely) at what I read posted by seemingly intelligent people.


A recent GEM was posted by someone who is on a committee to help stop domestic violence (a noble cause indeed).


Her brainstorm was to to put together a fundraiser called "Spanked to End Domestic Violence" I missing something here???? WTF???


How about these for the next cause:


Getting stoned to stop drug use (put on by the Masons of course)

Gang-bangs to stop sex addiction


What are people thinking?






2/10/2012 3:46:28 PM

Its easy to talk, we can do that before we are two years old....Can you walk and chew gum as well?


Can you be what you say you are and who you want to be?


Can this get past an email and a promise?


Can you be real???

2/2/2012 8:42:19 AM

Gobblers Knob, are you kidding me??

1/29/2012 3:44:01 PM

it is a specific search

1/12/2012 2:56:28 PM

I will not lower my expectations as a result of your lack of effort.

1/6/2012 3:08:18 PM

waxy flossenberg....imaginary for sure but are going to have to ask about this one to understand it.


I ran for the answer....I found the funny

12/1/2011 6:09:59 PM

826 is sweet

11/25/2011 10:39:44 PM

wide awake...

10/29/2011 12:37:44 PM

after it has been marinated and roasted you need to braise the bones before they are rendered into me, worth the effort and the energy for the best taste.



10/1/2011 1:41:13 PM

actual consequences = less crime

8/13/2011 4:37:34 AM

Have you ever wanted to be photographed?


5/21/2011 12:42:39 PM

contrary to popular belief, many people think less of you when they can see more of you.

5/18/2011 12:38:03 PM

Promises mean nothing if they are promises of nothing

3/4/2011 4:09:09 AM

I don't care about how round your curves are if you are always working an angle


MM 3/4/11

2/12/2011 2:22:46 AM

reliable, consistent, accountable....if you can use the words to describe yourself, I would be interested in hearing the rest of the words that would describe you.

2/10/2011 7:47:52 AM

you cant hear a thing when the pause button is many people here seem to be paralyzed by the past and seem to just live it over and over again. M

7/29/2010 1:34:43 AM
Everything important lies in the are not entitled to anything you have not worked for in life. Dont assume that a 1/2 effort should warrant whole results. 

5/23/2010 5:44:06 AM
I enjoyed this from a complete strangers profile ........."u"  "ur" "bc" are NOT words. "Hey" is not a good way to approach me.

5/1/2010 9:41:01 AM
Can you maintain a job,  have a life with responsibilities and interests outside of this lifestyle, are ambitious and not have be medicated to cope with all of that?

Do you work and play with equal intensity?

Do you laugh at yourself (and others of course) and still think you are learning about life?

Can you be as equally excited to be taken by the arm for a fancy night out as you are to be taken by the hair by someone?

Are you passionate, caring and considered reliable/honest by those that know you?

Do you exist?

4/17/2010 4:53:30 PM
Don't let a thought become a memory that you never acted upon. 

3/23/2010 5:23:41 PM
Learn from everything you enjoy and that which you don't understand equally.

2/14/2010 7:10:23 PM
If you dont like being heavy - lose weight
If you dont like being broke - change jobs
If you dont like fakes - speak your mind
If you dont like excuses - dont offer them
If you dont want to just play - say hello
If you are tired of whiners - say hello
If you are full of words and no actions - dont

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