I went to college and law school in the Bay Area but actually grew up in Southern California. In my spare time, I do some computer work, enjoy the outdoors, sports, and am also into history and science. I also own a home and have various financial interests and more nerdy interests. I am very kinky and identify solely as a Dom. I have had real life and online subs in the past but no one presently. Specifically, I am looking to chat with a sub who loves to learn, is open to listening, and is truly submissive and intelligent as well. I don't do sadism or pain for no reason. I do enjoy posture and stance training, tasks, and some corner time as punishments and slut training for naughty innocent girls. I also am a fan of journaling, clothing and orgasm control, tasks, dress and speech control, checking in, and good conversation centered around medium levels of protocol. Other kinks: stockings, heels, and anal plugs, and cum play. The most important thing is good conversation and connection before play begins.