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Male Dominant, 52, Cherry Hill, New Jersey
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About HighSlayer
Im a single male, living alone just outside Durham. I am self-employed, intelligent, articulate and have a wide range of interests. I have a wicked sense of humour and love to laugh. Im also a good listener. I do appreciate good manners and good grammar. As far as kink goes - well I like pretty much most things! I believe that what works and doesnt often depends on the dynamic of a specific relationship, so for that reason I rule nothing out. I do have a penchant though for punishment, humiliation and bondage. I can be harsh and demanding, but I also like to kiss and cuddle. Call me fussy! Update - as I am often asked what am I into and the long list which then follows perhaps it would be easier to say that I am about the DominatingControllingHumiliating itself rather than the means to which I get there. The means is likely to be dependant upon the dynamic at the time and could be different each time. However I can be harsh, I can be cruel, I can be strict and I do like to use my imagination to those ends. I can be sophisticated, witty and elegant but I also have an extremely base, savage side. Perhaps I should be called prime-evil.I have no age limitations. I am attracted to much younger girls, to women my own age and to ladies of advanced maturity. Each has a unique dynamic, something I enjoy tremendously. Can you tell that I like dynamics?Ideally Id like to meet someone whose personality, interests and desires mesh with mine and become a long term relationship. However, Ive been on this site for a long time and have yet to find that, so in the meantime I am very open to making new friends, chatting generally and even to finding a regular playmate. One-offs dont really do it for me Im afraid!
Also, I have a strong dislike of smoking.
Dominant 96Sadist 86Experimental 57Exhibitionist Voyeur 57Switch 4Bondage 62Vanilla 25Masochist 4Submissive 0 |
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On a more positive note, getting to grips with my posh new camera now, although I have so far only used it for work.
Any suggestions? |
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Mmm - I needed a new camera for my business, so decided to splash out on a reasonably posh Digital SLR. Just arrived, and having a play takes me back to my photography days of the 80s!!
That got me thinking too, of all the kinky uses which to be honest I have never considered before. So - if anyone reasonably local would like some free photos done and doesnt mind giving me the practice, just let me know. Not just kinky ones, obviously - happy to take kink-free ones too lol! |
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Just realised that yesterday was my first birthday of joining CollarMe! I joined b.com many years ago, but cancelled that a while back, and have been on IC for several years. In the year I have been on this site, I've come across a fair few fakes, wannabees and liars, and also chatted to a few nice people too. I still get offended when people just stop chatting for no reason, or dont reply to messages. I mean - common decency! Anyway - that rant runs into my previous post so I'll stop it!
So - bring on the nice people, the honest people, the intelligent, the witty, the eccentric, the friends, the potentially more than friends - and the rest go crawl up your own backsides lol! |
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Common Courtesy seems to be a thing of the past. If someone takes the trouble to send me a polite message, I will ALWAYS reply, even if its just a 'Thanks, but No Thanks'.
Why are some people, whether D or s, so far up their own bottoms that they dont have the manners to do the same?
BDSM is based on mutual respect, trust and open-ness, so it seems amazing that so-called lifestylers dont practice the respect bit! |
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