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Submissive Couple, 30, Chicago, Illinois
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Male Switch, 31, cork
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Male Dominant, 38, London
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About HieroV
To be ravished, to be open and be known, to obey. And humor too!
I am a gentlemen, a geek, a cuddle whore. I'm very good with words and been paid to communicate, in, and tell stories. (Mostly in the corporate world but some creative stuff as well).
I was ravished and introduced to this world by a mature woman in her 40s when I was in my late 20s. She was a wonderful teacher.
All the best, as much happiness and meaningful connection as you desire. |
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Vulnerability works on both side of the fence ? being fully open is what has attracted me the most to dominant women in the past.
The first time I surrendered to a woman she was so open to me (after a while) ? that although I didn?t fully realize it at the time ? it was a big part of the attraction to her for me and I fell to my knees pretty quickly emotionally. She would share things with me casually that would melt my heart such as:
Upon tying me up:
Her: I would never let someone tie me up.
Me: Because you?re not submissive?
Her: Because I could never be that brave, that vulnerable. (Grabbing my face in her hands.) You?re reckless, putting yourself in such a situation so soon after we met. You?re fortunate that I am not going to hurt you?.much.
Or:
Her: I will never intentionally harm you. I was in an abusive relationship and he didn?t take care of me. Who knows? It may be part of why I am the way I am.
Or:
Sometimes I want to hurt you so much?just a little?that it drives me crazy.
In a way, she was so brave to be so open to me that it set the example for me to be an open book to her.
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If I'm late don't wait
Go on without me
I may tarry awhile
Cause I need to know
Before I go
How come the Devil smiles
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For me D/S is love distilled - think only of me, desire only me, obey only me. This deep intimacy, this emotional nakedness is a big part of the draw of D/S for me.
Worship only me, you are only allowed pleasure if I allow it, give me pleasure because it give you pleasure to do so?it can be very delicious but it can lead to hurt feelings on a submissive/slave?s part if they take it ?seriously? and the dominant is only ?playing? at it. (That?s how I look at it - casual play doesn?t fulfill me.)
So for me?friendship first?which leads to warm feelings?which could lead to love?.which could lead to commitment and devotion?I have found the more I love someone, and the more that love and respect is returned...the more biddable I find myself becoming. I'm a sucker for a woman saying I am cherished or being called dearest. (Being called slut is fun too...it is a matter of balance.) When I have interacted with those who felt love would get in the way of the kink - I felt uncomfortable. |
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Chuck Norris has a pet kitten...every night for a snack. |
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Chuck Norris invented Kentucky Fried Chicken's famous secret recipe, with eleven herbs and spices. But nobody ever mentions the twelfth ingredient: Fear. |
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Have an opportunity to work on something creative for a start up. Little or no money involved but it is a chance to be creative and have some fun. I?m excelling at work but feel a little burned out recently.
Working on a screenplay that I got some great feedback on?have to do another draft by the end of the month to meet a deadline for a few contests.
Letting my hair grow out...getting a lot of good feedback on that..used to have a goattee as well...found it annoying to take care of, may grow it back. |
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A quietness, a satisfied surrender, a place of safety and accomplishment...it is a need I have but such desires sometimes seem unreasonable, unrealistic in the light of day...but I have experienced it before.
Accomplished something at work today that I was a little afraid to do...thought it was beyond my skills...and I got praised for it. Amazing how sometimes you can do more than you think you can.
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