Home
Home
Browse Profiles
Browse
Collarspace Video
Live
Join Collarspace
Join
Collarspace
Dating
Dating
Collarspace News
News
Collarspace Glossary
Glossary
Collarspace Mobile
Mobile
Alt
Alt
Safety
Safety
Extreme Restraints
Toys
Friends
Live BDSM
Resources
Resources
Welcome to Collarspace
Welcome
Login
Login
Vertical Line
Sakura

heypais

Male Dominant, 38, Tampa/St Pete, Florida
Back
Back
Kinky People Meet
KPM
Collarspace Directory
Directory
Interests
 Interests

About heypais

 
Please don't send me pictures of your junk. It's just...rude. I would like to think that chivalry isn't dead, and that there are a few gentlemen with a touch of class left in the world. I won't discuss sex in our first emails (again, rude), I am a lady above all else.
Being well mannered is extremely under rated.?
For the men:
"What brings you here?" Not a good way to open conversation, because the answer is... same thing that brings everyone else, I would imagine.

Playing 20 questions. I understand it's a getting to know you phase, but a better approach is a give and take, and open questions that can lead into a mutual dialogue. You ask too many questions in a steady stream, and a gal starts to feel like she's on the witness stand.
Conversely, just talking about yourself. "I do this, and this, and a little of that..."
That's nice, but it seems like you're really saying "Look how great I am! Really, look at me, LOOK AT ME I AM AWESOME!"
I understand it's a pretty competitive market, and the need to peacock can come out, but the first five minutes of conversation is not the place to do it. Makes a gal wonder, if he's so great, he really doesn't need me around, or anyone else for that matter. Not all women are drawn to your money, or your success or whatever else you think you need to flaunt. I would much rather know that you are a kind and decent human being.
Male Submissive, 21, Grand BLanc, Michigan
heywood2684
Switch Couple, 46
Male Dominant, 52, Daytona, Florida
Male Submissive, 25
Male Switch, 40, nwflorida, Florida
Male Submissive, 25
Male Dominant, 38, New York
Male Submissive, 45
Male Dominant, 30, Auckland
heyyou8685
Female Submissive, 24
heymoma
Female Dominant, 29, Pembroke, New Hampshire
heyitsme1976
Male Dominant, 29, herndon, Virginia