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Male Dominant, 56, Reno, Nevada
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Male Dominant, 28, Pima, Arizona
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About Heironeous
I am Dominant with a preference for mental control rather than sadism, so pain-sluts aren't really my speed. However I do have a lovely custom-made leather flogger that I enjoy using, and I'm fond of biting to mark my territory. Girls who want to be told what to do should contact me now.
I'm looking for a new sub at present - ideally someone with long term potential. I'm looking for a meeting of minds rather than just random hookups. To me the term "D/s relationship" starts with the "relationship" (which happens to have a strong "D/s" flavour). I'm not looking for a mere play-partner.
Obviously naughty girls need to be disciplined, but since the well-being of my sub is my priority, I'm not inclined to cause real damage and never to draw blood. And having to "correct" or punish a sub during every session sounds terribly one dimensional and boring to me. "Maintenance spankings" are another story. Some girls just need their butts tanned regularly. But I prefer girls who want to please and don't need to be punished with anything more drastic than a frown from Master.
Besides, subs need to be cherished by their Doms/Masters in my opinion. For me, the whole point of a D/s relationship is that it provides a framework for two people to develop a deeper, more intimate and loving relationship than is usually possible in the vanilla world (at least in my experience).
I am into girls who have an exhibitionist streak, and who get a thrill from the risk of getting caught in the act. You will be excited at the thought of going out wearing a short skirt and no panties. You will be adept at standing in positions where the people around you can't see my hand sliding up your leg and under your skirt. You will practice keeping a straight face as I stroke your naked ass and finger you while people are mere feet away from us.
You will also be turned on by being taken just out of sight, grabbed by the hair and kissed passionately. I'll be whispering in your ear as you feel my hand sliding up your leg, my teeth grazing your neck while the sound of someone's conversation comes closer...
Restraints, ropes, and gags are lots of fun, and I attend regular rope-bondage sessions and seminars. Bound, gagged, spread-eagled and helpless? Yum. Time to get out the toy bag and decide how you're going to cum today.
I prefer submissive women who like to look after their men. And I enjoy repaying the compliment. Good girls deserve lots of affection and the odd treat. I actually like taking my girls shopping (aren't dressing rooms fun?) and love brunching, going out for coffee, and trying new restaurants with someone who can hold up their end of a conversation.
Communication is the cornerstone of any relationship and kinky ones in particular. I demand honesty and openness.
I like my girls short and cute, smart and snuggly, and flirty and maybe a bit cheeky. I'm 5'8" (173cm) so short means shorter than me.
To quote another kiwi kinkster (thanks WR):
I am not looking for a brat or a player.
I am not looking for someone who is hard work.
I am looking for someone with whom I can explore with...someone to accompany me on this part of my journey of discovery.
I like people with a sense of maturity, responsibility and "personal calm". Drama queens need not apply. Common sense would be a plus.
I don't have a size preference - attractive women come in all shapes and sizes. Intelligence is a big turn-on for me, as is geekiness in general, though it's not mandatory.
I'm not shy at all, but I'm very comfortable drawing shy girls out of their shell. I'm very patient and supportive where required.
I'm also a professional geek (software engineer) with a good education and wide life experience.
For those into astrology, I'm an Aquarian.
I'm also a non-smoker and I only date non-smokers. No offense to all those wonderful people who are caught by the habit. |
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