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HectorErus

Male Dominant, 26
Male Submissive, 28, Alicante
Male Submissive, 49, paris
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About HectorErus

Now about me...
Single, never married, no kids. I work, currently go to college part time, work full time. As far as hobbies lets save that for the getting to know each other stage hmm?

I'm generally straight forward, blunt and direct. I prefer it when other people are too.
For a partner/submissive/slave I'd like to find someone that has similar interests in and out of the lifestyle because while a 24/7 bdsm partner is intriguing I don’t know that my current life situation would be fair to either my partner or myself to attempt. So I think someone that enjoys the lifestyle but has things we can share without "whips n chains" would be a better fit.

If any of the above sounds intriguing send me a message lets talk and see if/how we match.

Is perfection too much to ask for? lol....I suppose that's really just a way of hoping for somone to fufill those amorphorous qualities I'm looking for but not sure how to put into words or not consious of.
I need a woman/girl to be partner, toy, occasional servant, and most importantly inspiration/muse.....
wherever could she be?
Admittedly I havent been on THIS particular site for an exceptionally long time but between here and other social sites i have the following observation:
two personality traits prevail on the net arrogance and insecurity. Dom, sub, or vanilla a majority of the people communicating on "public forums" seem either totally convinced that the world (and everyone in it) owes them something or they try to instigate arguments because they're so self consious they need the rush of getting everyones attention...like the toddler that misbehaves just because getting yelled at is the only way mommy/daddy will pay attention to them.

just an observation, take it or leave it.
Just realized I left myself logged on for a couple hours without realizing it....such is life I suppose.
Recently pondering the difference in things I would like to do to a partner vs. someone seen as purely an object...and how unique it would be to have a partner that could be both for me. This was brought on by a friend I know whom in their relationship the Dom has his significant other...but also a slave he sees on occasion to do those things Dom enjoys or wants to experiment with that are beyond his significant other's hard limits.
It strikes me as a perfect relationship as all parties conserned benifit from the arrangement and are quite happy with it....

Unfortunately was away from my profile for a bit after having re-starting it. Still straightening out my profile to reflect my current interests.
Looking for people to talk to and perhaps a submissive for either just play or a relationship, depeding how things develop.

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