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About hecameandsaw
I'm married but we play. Sometimes together, sometimes not. I started on this particular type of journey um, bout, 14 years ago. A woman I dated asked me to spank her. So I did. I kinda liked it. And then I learned. There is spanking and there is spanking. Rhythm, placement, size of hand, size of butt, position of body. O there was so much to learn. And then other implements, riding crop, cane, whips, belts. Gosh there is so much to do, how can you stay vanilla. I write short stories in the erotica genre. I would be really interested in cowriting something with a sub. So you should know your grammar and have a sense of literacy about you. |
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The difference between a paddle and a cane you ask? Diffuse pain vs localized pain is one way to think about. A smack, a slight sting, a wave of warmth. Or, a sudden focused sting, a momentary, endless pause, and then the second wave of pain going deeper into the flesh. Over and over again. |
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