HeavenlyLips

Who Is she?

she is His girl

she aches to please Him

she yearns to serve Him

she longs to worship Him

she is His slut, His babygirl

His toy, His possession. His love

her body burns for Him

her heart beats for Him

her souls longs for His possession

she is His

Tenderness and affection. He would break her many times over, yet each time, loving her more as he held her close and made her whole again. She was his.

One of the main factors, in feeling truly OWNED is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of a Master's control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded her submission, the deeper it becomes -- and the more fulfilling. So here are some ideas you might want to try, and no matter what rules you decide to make your own, please be consistent. If you are unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules you make, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Master who ignores her transgressions and does not exert their dominance.

1. Have her wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her submission.
2. When she has broken a rule, talk to her as you punish and make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.
3. Make her take her shoes off every day as soon as she enters your house.
4. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.
5. Have her call you each day at a specified time, no excuses.
6. Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.
7. Whenever possible, have her kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.
8. Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to your specifications.
9. Whenever possible, have her display herself whenever you come into the room -- legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, she is to be sure your view is unobstructed
10. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has an alternative title for you besides Master, such as "my love" etc.
11. Use her sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever she was doing.
12. Choose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.
13. Have her crawl to bed each night.
14. Bring her a stuffed animal each time you go out of town.
15. Choose her clothing each day.
16. Have her get your daily wardrobe ready for you the night before.
17. After punishment, have her kiss your boots and thank you for loving her enough to correct her.
18. Have her bring a warm towel and wash and massage Your feet each day after work.
19. Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).
20. Get her pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself).
21. Get her branded.
22. Respect, but push her limits.
23. Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.
24. Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.
25. Reward her by allowing her to please You sexually.
26. Supervise her workout routine.
27. Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with her Master, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank her Master for the privilege.
28. Have her polish Your boots weekly, on her knees at Your feet.
29. Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.
30. Give her a writing assignment: "The definition of Pain - 1000 words"
31. Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission.
32. Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.
33. Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do....even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.
34. When appropriate, she is to speak when spoken to.
35. Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.
36. On occasion, share her.
37. When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.
38. Have her keep her body clean shaven at all times.
39. Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.
40. Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.
41. For transgressions: have her write Your name on the bottom of her foot and tell her to remember she is walking on You with each step. (This is harder to do that You might think.)
42. Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare.
43. Give her reading assignments.
44. Test her on the reading assignments, to make sure she learned the appropriate lessons from each.
45. Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed
46. Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.
47. Reward her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.
48. Call her your slut, your pet, etc.
49. Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.
50. Work with her, having her do the things on the list, so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.
51. Sometimes, pamper her -- wash her body and hair, having her remain perfectly still as you turn her and move her about.
52. Hand feed her like a small child on occasion.
53. Have her eat from a dog bowl on occasion.
54. For transgressions: make her wear a sign to the next public function naming her crime.
55. Praise her dedication when she has pleased you well.
56. Instruct her that she is never to touch your body without permission.
57. Have her write a meditation about her submission, devotion and trust in you, to be said aloud each night before falling asleep.
58. Some days allow her no clothing whatsoever.
59. For transgressions: deny her play.
60. In the same ilk, For transgressions: deny her orgasm. Give her sex, but she can't cum.
61. For transgressions: Command that she is to be silent for a week.She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure you give as silently as possible.
62. Treat her like a pet in front of friends, making her present herself, turn herself, etc.
63. Give her a writing assignment: "The definition of Obedience - 1000 words"
64. Have her wear nipple clamps all day.
65. Tell her one morning that she must cum for you 15 times that day, and then write about the day.
66. Have her wear a butt plug under her clothing out to dinner.
67. On your birthday, let her receive your spankings.
68. Spend time training her how to move to please You.
69. For transgressions: stand her in the corner like a 3 year old.
70. Always flog her after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.
71. Speak about her as if she were not present.
72. For transgressions: deny her any D/s at all for a week, letting her do just as she pleases, not allowing her to serve you in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame her and certainly make her strive to please you when it is over and she is in her place again.
73. Defend her honor to those who would disrespect your prized possession.
74. Pet her often.
75. Make her be webmaster for your site
76. Whenever possible, have her sleep in a cage.
77. Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to your liking.
78. Teach her things, expand her knowledge, in a patient daddy way.
79. When you are apart, call her and have her masturbate for you.
80. If you choose to play with others, make sure your slave knows who is first in your heart and that some things are just for her.
81. Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.
82. Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day and make sure it is done by day's end.
83. Teach her patience.
84. Videotape your sessions and watch them together.
85. Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside. Inspect them periodically.
86. Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book. Let her slip for a while thinking you are not noticing. Then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement.
87. Tickle her just because you can.
88. Have her be perfectly still and quiet while you bring her extreme pleasure. When she moves or makes a sound punish her then return to the pleasure.
89. Keep her locked in her collar when you are home. Wear the key to the lock around your neck.
90. When possible, have her cook and serve your dinner wearing nothing but a collar.
91. Buy her a digital camera and give her assignments to take pictures of herself for you in certain outfits or positions, etc.
92. Don't be afraid to bring her to tears, for they are yours as well.
93. Take her and the dog to the park, both on leashes.
94. Have her fall asleep between your legs, licking your cock and balls, and tell her you expect her to be there when you awake.
95. Occasionally, fulfill her fantasy.
96. Master's word is the last word.
97. Be consistent.
98. Take the time to talk to her, learn her fears, her dreams and fantasies. Use your knowledge.
99. Specify exactly how she will address you in private and in public.
100. If you are willing to correct her each time she forgets until it is a habit, have her refer to herself as "this slave"

Pissed off big time at the moment

If you see me smiling it's because I'm thinking of doing something evil and naughty, if you see me laughing it's because I've already done it.

I think if you asked me I would meet you tomorrow

I think if you put the time and effort in I may even want to be yours

sappy aren't I?

If you cannot stop her in mid stride with but a single glance...
If you cannot take her breath away with but a single word...
If you cannot drop her to her knees with but a single gesture...
If you cannot make her body quiver with but a single touch...
Then all the toys and tools in the world will do you no good.

Find her mind, grasp her heart and her body and soul will surrender.

Not my words, found on the internet but it rings true

I had a dream last night that proves I ready to make that step again.. ready to give myself over to one and be owned.. :) who knows it may happen or not but at least I am not still thinking about Mick.

So you messaged me again but blocked me so I couldn't reply.. you weak pathetic excuse for a man. Now I know you read my journal.

Take your pills attend your psychologist appointments and you'll eventually become normal until then please stay under your rock and leave the normal people alone :)

I did well I was nice and friendly and welcoming despite the fact the new girl at work is a pain in the butt :D

Today I received a message from one of those called Dominants who believes he knows it all and know other way other than his is right. So he proceeds to tell me what is wrong with me. Funny enough I have just been messing with his head all day and laughing about it.

Why do people believe that strangers will care what you say,

Keyboard warriors are funny

I am exhausted and can bearly move I need to go borrow some of my friends pain meds for backache lol

It's my birthday and yet again no birthday spankings, more importantly no birthday cuddles or a cake

I am watching Secretary yet again, whilst I don't think it's 100 percent worth all the hype attached to it.

I understand it, the first time he smacks her I understand her feelings I am sure I make that face time and time again.

I understand her need for him and I also understand him.

I love it when she does what shes told for days on end and then I love the gentleness of him. I am not attracted to James Spader but in this movie hawt!!!

Over the bullshit if you can't spell don't blame me

There is a profile on here that makes me laugh so hard, I have met the person who owns the profile and it is a complete bunch of bullshit. The person is pretending hes a Dominant when reality is he does not have the confidence or the self-esttem or the inner strength to Dominate a flea.

Delusions I tell you

feels rejected :( muahahahahahahahahaha

good girl, make Daddy cum baby<--- that would so turn me on if I had a Daddy and He said it :D

As I stated before my last entry was going to offend but the reality is they are my thoughts and shouldn't bother you totally unless I actually mentioned your name as being the person who ensured I formed those opinons that is something I did not do and would not do as I have something called class. I have already received one round of nasty emails when all anyone needs to do when displeased with my words is ignore it block me and definately not respond, because all that will make me do is play with you get some amusement and then stop when I am bored with doing so. Yes I sound bitchy but considering all the crap I have had to put up with lately bitch is all you are going to get, it's alot better than dwelling and constantly feeling the hurt.

I am sorry to who this offends but it needs to be said:

1. I am tired of the games and the headfucks, the only headfucks I am interested in are the fun ones not the emotional ones.

2. I am intelligent I use my brain I think if thats potentially going to confuse you please move the fuck on and don't message me.

3.I am cautious I have had my heart broken enough that I will not fawn over you I won't be instantly inlove with you, if you require either two acts as a verification of my interest in you, please also move the fuck on.

4.I don't want you to waste my goddamn time because I certainly won't be wasting fucking yours, if it's not there it's not there and with me you will know because if it's there I will contact you and I will want to hang out with you.

5.I am a parent and yes that means that I am not available for you to come over and fuck me and pretend it's all to do with Dominance... fucking is just fucking

6.You will not gain my interest or my respect by telling me about what you want to do to me like I haven't heard that a million times before you, try a different approach

7.I want a relationship, you don't want it don't fucking message me. If you do want one, fucking act like it I know you may be horny but I don't want to fucking know, use your hand and jack the fuck off

8.I want more children so if you don't see all the above that states leave me alone

9.If you are unable to put effort into getting to know people outside of play, if you thrive on drama and if you are generally moronic please do not fucking message me.

Hopefully this clears it all the fuck up because I have had enough.

Oh and do not email me telling me I am scaring people off because if I am then they would probably do all of the above and those are the people that I have no desire to even receive a single message from.

Nevaeh Lleh

when a so called Dominant refers to women as bitches he is being a complete idiot :D and they say I am opinonated where would anyone get that idea from?

so i just finished slashing three quarters of my back lawn and I am having a break before starting my front lawn because my electric whipper snipper was omitting a if you keep fucking pushing me I am going to light on fire odour. I want to meet a Dominant who beyond all the BDSM stuff will come and mow my lawns for me just because he knows its a big job and that I have a back injury that makes it difficult to keep going.when am I going to be that loved that it will be done for me :D

I want to feel better I am trying to feel better .I am not angry at you I am sad I am not hopeful because I am no fool .I am tired and when I manage to sleep all will seem brighter.If I had more alcohol I would use that as my sedative .Its to hard to give when your brain feels like mush and your heart is hard

I feel kinda empty at the moment but it will get better

I played last night first time in 18 months.. I really didn't do very well I still tried which is the main thing but being who I am I feel like I failed

feeling pretty low right now, I hate to disappoint and clearly I am disappointing :(going to get of the computer and go to bed soon

I wish everyone there own happiness I truly do however, I was looking thorough another site of someone owned and whilst I smile at the photos of the girl serving of the cuddles with her Master I want that too.It has been too long since I formed that connection, and some of the blame for that lays with me I let previous hurts to enter my soul and fester so that I would keep people at arms length.I am at a point in my life where I am no longer going to continue that behaviour. It's time for me to not be alone anymore it is time for me to find my home in someones arms.I am really tired of being single, I actually never thought I would get to the point where I would want to actually be somebodies. After my last partner and the pain it caused (him nearly dying and me loosing a baby) I never wanted to love someone again. Now I do just need to trust that their is someone who will hold my heart softly despite how rough he treats my body.To many thoughts buzzing around my head lately... on another note Corrupter you are so fucking hot muahahahahahahaha huggs and stuff.

I am embracing the darkness
I am relishing the feeling
I am sinking into the abyss
I am nothing if I am not created to be
:)

So I have just got finished reading my journal entries and I appear to be a sad human being so to let you all know.my life is great I am happy I have a beautiful daughter a job I love and family and friends that I adore.Of course I don't have everything I desire but I have faith that one day I will :) 

see I can be a positive upbeat girl

The connection the exchange the closeness that is fostered during play is completely indescribable.. if you don't partake you cannot understand

The deep friendship and almost love that can be forged by serving and being served

The sense of belonging and of ownership even when it truly doesn't exist

its all a wonderful torture

I gots a blister :(

I am just going to say this well because it's my journal and I can I am tired of being single by not being in a relationship, most of the time I am happy as a single person  but right now it would be nice to have a significant other.Funny website to mention this on when the majority of the people on here are looking for casual or even ongoing play.Not interested in no emotional ties I want love and happiness. 

Want to know the sad thing I have never found love with a Dominant only with Vanilla men maybe one day I will meet a Dominant who can give me the best of both worlds.Afterall I am a submissive that will never change and it would be nice to be with someone who fits with that side of me as well as my nilla side.I had a great christmas though and hope everyone who bothers to read me did too.I however don't want to go back to work tomorrow