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Male Submissive, 45, paris
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Female Switch, 55, Signal Mountain, Tennessee
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Male Switch, 26, Walla Walla, WA, Washington
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About HarleyBottom
A dear friend, much wiser in the ways of the dominant world and whom I proudly consider my spiritual counselor, advises me that this profile should be more than some superfluous drivel. Of course she's right and, although this might require some painful soul searching and honest admissions, so it will be. Stay tuned.
Communication, I have sorely learned, is the most important part of a relationship and while there is more to life than sex it is the most important form of communication between the sexes. Endless, meaningless kink is the perversion of dominance/submission's beauty and love. A tender embrace, kiss or vanilla ravage can be more submissive when done out of love and respect.
I am presently in the death throes of a marriage; there will be no reconciliation nor do I want one. We did not communicate. I assumed that a dominant woman did not have to be a part of my life and effectively eliminated probably the most important kind of communication that there is between a man and woman. I will no longer do this.
BDSM has facinated me most of my sexually aware life and I have dabbled for over 30 years. I vividly remember my first S&M magazine "Aggressive Gals That Want To Meet You". It was an elixir beyond belief.
While I have always been submissive I don't look the sterotypical part. With the new found insight that there are dominant woman that demand an sexually aggressive male to service them once in a while I find myself confronted with a problem: could I see past myself and indulge in that practice. I now realize that to properly please a dominant woman that would allow me in her life and demand so this would only be proper. It might take some effort, creativity and imagination but I think I could, and should, do this.
Original inspiration: Emma Peel of The Avengers! To this day I'd roll over and beg for Diana Rigg. I often wonder exactly how many impressionable young men of that era were influenced by that powerful, intelligent leather clad woman. For me it was a seminal moment in the enjoyment of leather, boots, gloves and submission. |
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Too long since last posting; good things have happened on this front so no excuses there. Some wonderful experiences with a new playmate, support from good people that allow me to call them friend. |
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Well Harleybottom's bottom is now on a new Yamaha. Just can't seem to find the time to finish the loyal leaker in the garage. Perhaps having something to ride will provide inspiration! |
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Way over due for an entry/update and this'll be a little on the wimpy side but what the hey.
Time and tide have conspired to minimize "operational opportunitys" (read as play time) so anybody that wants to bitterly criticise the personell management skills of what's left of American industry will get no argument from me. Some excellent people, that I admire and love, keep raising that one eyebrow with a knowing "all work and no play...". So true. So true. |
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Still amazed, and encouraged, by the decency of most contacts here and the pleasure or their company. Horizons broaden! Maybe time to update the profile? Yuh think? |
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Enlightenment Alert! After an IM discussion with a wonderful Lady I've met here I was struck at how fast the little head auto-engages! What a perfectly great way to blow right through the time required to learn, accept and build to completely RUIN a potentially great relationship. Thank goodness She was so understanding. |
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During the short time of my "residency" here it has been quite a pleasant surprize to recieve the support of quite a diverse, interesting group of people. There's been a couple spammers, to be sure, but in general everyone has been at very worse considerate, at best facinating.
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