happyqueen

I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, kind and fun.  Humor is important.  I see a warm climate in my future, whether part time or full time.  

Someone who adores me and wants to spoil me.  I am not materialistic but I like to be appreciated. 

Why do you message me, then delete your profile?

I cannot respond and I also doubt your validity.

Either you're in or you're out... up to you.

If you aren't willing to provide a face photo of yourself, either here or another way, I won't engage with you.

I am inundated with inquiries because I am real, discreet and nonthreatening.  

But I won't waste time and I'll move on.

Also, be willing to meet me!  You will put forth the effort that matches mine, or exceed it.

Twice on this site I've been messaged and harassed and called the C word for my political beliefs.  It is startling and frightening.  It is assault.  

Like any bad behavior, the bad guys ruin things for the good guys.

My beliefs are stated in my profile for a reason.  

Engaging with me, then assaulting me makes these so called men the C word:  Cowards.

If you've blocked me and then send me a message, I can't respond.  

If you've sent me a message, then delete your account, I can't respond.

Thanks for coming to my DOMME Talk!

I receive 5-10 new messages a day.

At times it can be overwhelming!  Here are some things to do that will make your message stand out:

Tell me about you.  Your real life.  What do you like to do?  hobbies, interests for example.  

If you are comfortable sharing, tell me about your work life.

What skills do you have that might match my needs?  

Attach a picture or two.  I have no interest in nefarious actions against you and won't do anything with them.

Can you come meet me where I'm at, regardless of where in the world you live?

• It is so silly to send fake pictures.  Recently a person sent me photos of a well-known Australian gigolo.  That's not only silly, it is plain stupid.  why fake who you are?  

I am always kind and respectful if I'm not interested in someone.  I clearly state I'm not interested.  There doesn't need to be a reason.  Accept the kindness and respect I am giving.  No means no.  

I understand discretion and keeping your kink life private.  I too am discrete and private about this part of my life.  But please be accommodating regarding how to communicate.  My life is full and busy, and I'm not willing to download a new app, use Morse code or guess what you look like.  This is a relationship site after all.  Be kind.  Be easy to talk to.  

If you ghost me and block me, then reach back out...you might want to unblock me first.  LOL  unbelievable disrespectful behavior by men who purport to consider women superior.  

I've had only one person from out of my area come to meet me within a month of initial contact, although I state that as a requirement in my profile.  That person earned a lot of points for having read my profile and respecting my request.  It shows interest, intent and respect.  I'm open to distance for the right person, but won't be a virtual partner without having met in real life.  

Topping from the bottom can take form in so many different ways.  If you want to be considered as a potential sub or slave or partner, do not withhold pertinent information regarding your search goals, methods of your search, or photos of yourself. Anyone can message cutely or handsomely.  Dishonesty can occur through omission of your intent as well as your images.  I'm inundated with new messages, and I am the boss. I know how rare I am and what my value is.  I don't chase and I don't acquiesce to demands.  

When a person ghosts you it shows you his true colors.  The color of cowardice.  You aren't strong enough to be a servant, sub or slave if you cannot be a good human, first and foremost.  

I'm shocked by the subs who expect my complete attention upon simply matching here.  This Goddess leads a very full, active life.  I'm not going to change my life immediately to chat with you endlessly.  It doesn't mean I'm not interested... it means I'm savvy and don't spend way too much time too early.  I've been burned by ghosting after spending a lot of time getting to know someone; I've found out a person was married after chatting for a month.   I'm guessing you'd admire the life I lead...so respect it and my time and my ability to set boundaries.  

IF you are attached (married, in a relationship, with someone), please be honest and disclose that.   It is wrong to not be honest about this very important fact.  

If you've completely ghosted me in the past, I won't consider even talking to you.  It's a cowardly action.