Greyslade


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	About Greyslade Hello, and welcome to my profile. First off, while I'm ultimately looking for a female submissive, conversing with new people is the best way to be a better anything. New ideas, new perspectives, new experiences. Picture is available on request, I don't have one listed because my job precludes publicity. I do wear pants in all my pictures; without will cost you extra. As for things about me, I'm a dom. Got tricked into it by a girl who was curious about being a sub, and now five or so years later, I'm happy to say the joke hasn't worn off yet. I doubt it ever will, considering how much I enjoy it and especially learning more about it. Aside from my tastes in D/s, I enjoy writing of all sorts, from nonfiction to poetry, and can honestly say almost everything interests me to some degree. To be more specific, I like martial arts, literature, and music. Board gaming, debate, and occasionally gambling have caught my attention lately. I also like trying new things, which is one of those "correct interview answers" that everyone says, but I'll be honest enough to add that while I like trying new things, I don't always enjoy pursuing them. For instance, the bagpipes. I'm mainly here looking for a D/s relationship, emphasis on the relationship part. I'm not interested in polyamory, as I've tried it and did not care for the result. My experiences suggest that the open communication and solid trust needed for a healthy relationship, D/s or no, are most likely to develop between just two people. It may work for some people, but I don't think I'm one of them. Minor notes as I think of them: I primarily lean towards the classic BDSM model, favoring D/s over the other aspects. I don't have a strong sadistic streak, and don't plan on developing one. If a masochist draws pleasure from something, that's something I'll explore, but in isolation it is not a driving fetish of mine. Also, I'd really like to learn to dance better.

At the risk of sounding pretentious (in my case, less a risk than a certainty), I somewhat resent people telling me what I'm like in their response to my first message. Most notably, being accused of lacking seriousness or not having the right tone. I will not attempt to be "dominant" in a few thin lines of text; I will attempt to be a gentleman.

Making people feel comfortable is a gentleman's duty all the time; making people feel uncomfortable is the job of a waitress when people are at a restaurant table too long. I'd rather be forgotten as a vanilla gentleman than remembered as a pushy jackass and self-described master.

I feel compelled to put the same quote here I often attach as my email signature:

"I have made this letter very long, because I did not have the time to make it shorter." -Blaise Pascal, though the sentiment is attributed to Cicero as well.

Writing messages on here is occasionally a great deal of work. The rest of the time it is even harder.

Where's my Lucida Bright for writing these things? Thou unrivaled king of typefaces, fairest in your elusive 10.5? point font. Instead, I get Courier? The freakin' typewriter one? How am I supposed to be excited by a profile or comment written in Courier?

Also, rant of the day: Apparently some people are of the opinion doms are born doms, that it is a natural talent, and it magically appears around 35. The only condition I know of that has similar requirements is schizophrenia. Why should having been around the block long enough to get a divorce and restraining order from my ex-wife make me a better dom?

I've learned there are two kinds of dommes in the world (for some reason, I run into five talkative dommes for every dom or sub I find period, but doms seem to fit the patterns too).? There's the kind that puff themselves up as their shtick, and usually have nothing behind it. The "Me"-capitalizing Queen-Goddesses who frequently and repeatedly reference their experience and tribute and how wonderful they are. It's not exclusive to dommes, though; doms are just as bad.

And then there is the other kind. The ones who don't need to blow a trumpet because they have the invisible nameless thing that makes them a dom/me. Something the first group doesn't have and never will.

That's the sort of dom I want to be.

Apparently I'm forbidden by the rules from complaining about profanity or illegal activities.

More seriously, I've decided to get back into the dating scene, which for me includes this.

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