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I have realized that I need to look for what I want, rather than try to fit myself into a life. I had some conversations that rekindled the Dom in me, and this time I want to take it further than an occasional thing.

The most important way to begin is to get to know one another. I came very close to starting a 24/7 D/s relationship before we really knew each other, and it was exhilarating but could not have worked out in the long run. A D/s couple is still a couple.

I have some experience, but to be honest, not a great deal. We would be learning together.

You should be within travel distance of the Boston area and/or be willing to relocate. I am looking for someone younger than me (20-25 ideally), slender, attractive, open-minded, eager to please, with a personality and similar interests.

Those interests include a D/s lifestyle, and some particulars, but a lot more. I'm an artist, a gamer, a geek, and a demi-goth. If the idea of going out for a weekend to dress up as an elf, and pretend to fight evil monsters with a hundred other people, sounds stupid to you, we probably wouldn't work out. (Though that's just one example.)

I am looking, eventually, for a 24/7 slave, or a very dedicated submissive with some firm ground rules. I'm not greatly interested in causing pain or humiliation, but my pet should be willing to do virtually anything when I demand it.

To find out more, I figure we should simply talk.
Well, that's a conundrum. I have now had relationships not work out (in part) because we became more focused on the idea of a D/s relationship that we didn't form a relationship, and because the other person wasn't at all interested in D/s.

Do I just keep meeting people normally and hope they end up into it, or hope that if I meet someone in a D/s setting that we can form a real bond?