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Truth is, I know what I want when I want it.? I dont like being told no.? However, if you catch me in the right mood.? I may want to be told how things are.? You better have a blindfold and some way to tie me up if you are going to tell me no.? I really like letting my inner desires (for sex or violence) let loose.?
I've found that being tied up and letting that frustration build up, can build for alot of fun when I get untied.
I lean more towards a dom, but like I?previously said, I get in my moods.? I like being in control.? I have no problem with takin my?woman when I want her, and wherever I want her.? I have an impulse problem.? I tend to just go for what I want the second it crosses my mind.?And if that things happens to be you, then I will be coming your way.?
Away from that, I need someone who can allow?me to actually be myself.? I am fresh out of a long term relationship with a vanilla.? Not looking to rush into anything.? Hoping to make friends. And Im probably?not going to complain if it leads anywhere.? Just dont expect too much too quick.
I would prefer to start vanilla and see if things go anywhere?from there.
Dichotomy.? I play a role during the day.? So if and?when we begin communicating, dont expect me to immediately act like I am your dom.? And please dont assume that I am too soft, just because I am a nice guy upon first speaking.
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Ugh, so I've been in a relationship with a vanilla and it is really taking its toll on me. And its not just that, its the jealousy. She is so jealous and threatened by everyone. Her jealous actions do nothing but push me further and further away, and yet, somehow, she seems to have no clue. These two combined have pretty much killed my sex drive. I fear that I am no longer sexually attracted to her. To be honest, that kills me. I love her, and the thought of being unsatisfied with her is heart breaking, simply because it will end up hurting her. I apologize for whining on here. I needed to vent before I figure things out. |
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Domination is an art. Its not
about forcing submissiveness, but making her want to be submissive. Let
her be a sub because she wants to be your sub. Not because you feel
that you should make her want to be your sub. You will never be able to force anyone to want anything. You can pretty much fail right off the bat. And when you do, there is no going back. You cant force what isn't there or what isn't going to be there. Trying only makes the other resent you. You will not make a sub out of her, but an unhappy person in an unhappy situation. Odds are, you will make two.
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Touching her accordingly isn't hard. Pay attention to her body. Listen to her breath. Watch her skin. Follow what she tells you without saying a word. Touch her accordingly. |
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I am a romantic. I truely love women. Their grace, their beauty. There is a difference between savagely taking ur woman like an animal, and using her like a toy that you put down when you are through. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with making your woman feel like a slut, as long as she feels like YOUR slut. Personally, I get great joy from knowing that I've pleased my woman. Am I saying that I am an amazing in bed? No. Well, I am a guy, so of course I think so. What I am attempting to say is that, in my opinion, the greatest pleasure starts with being in touch with your lover's desires. As a matter of fact, just being in touch with your lover. Or even yourself, for that matter. I am lucky enough to have met women who have allowed me to become that animal that loses control around them. I have learned that not every woman deserves for me to let go for them. Just as not everyone deserves your immediate respect or obedience, etc. These are my random thoughts and observations. Always touch your lover accordingly, be it gently or harshly. Just don't lose touch with their heart and soul, or you risk losing the ability to please either of you. |
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| Age: 33 |
| SANTA MONICA,
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