GrayTexas

Life goes on and my collarme experiences accumulate. Now I don't bother anymore with writing a thoughtful message to each and everyone. Why? Because it really isn't time efficient to throw that much effort into it. Especially given the effort & quality of the few replies.

out of 19 people contacted, 11 replies were from obvious scammers,  2 deleted my message unread and now I finally got replies..  2 persons replied with one liners.

I have to write some more about these two anomalies (the replies) because they are so revealing. First of all, neither of the respondents could get themselves to do an effort in writing clearly or actually answer the principal question I was asking them. 

In essence, the one-liners were questions in response to a  question. Both one-liner replies  contained no more than 5 words, and included spelling mistakes or text-speak.

And finally, one of the respondents had obviously not even bothered to read my original message.

To put it in context, only one of these two persons would qualify as a human if I applied a touring test. (for those who don't know what a touring test is, read this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Turing_test ) 

Now, I don't know if the last 4 persons who haven't responded might be bright persons   and by implication their lack of interest is entirely my fault. What can I say other than I hope it's not that simple? My quest for intelligent conversation continues. Regardless of the possible faults of the transmitter or recipients. ^_^

One week after creating this profile:

13 People contacted, where:

9 are obvious Scammers

2 Deleted my message unread

0 serious Replies

I try to be a serious and honest Dominant but it doesn't seem to work as advertised.

I were once given the impression that women find intelligence, wit and a honest effort really enticing and attractive. My own real life experiences have 'til now supported this. On the other hand, maybe online is so different that being ignored is the only acceptable "reward" for such efforts. t does raise a interesting question, is this the accepted behavior and how collarme users wish to behave?

Hello Texas! My journal of irrelevant things and weirdness:

Todays experiences after having had this profile for about two days is: out of 5 profiles I've introduced myself to, (mind you.. I try to write a interesting and though of introduction):

3 replies were obvious scammers, the fourth was a prostitute/cam-whore and the fifth haven't answered (yet). Guess the crazies are the first to come out of the woodwork. *roll eyes* I really hope this is not representative of the bdsm subculture in the Houston area.