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About Goldilocks19
About me
I am a kind, caring, open, honest, happy, loud, hyperactive, interesting, maternal, strange, weird, unusual, contradictory, fun, silly, broody, emotional person. I am also bossy, stubborn, assertive, strong-willed and cheeky despite being a submissive. I'm a walking contradiction, an indecisive mess of emotions, a deliriously pleasant bitch, an optimistic depressive and an oxymoronic twat! I am a sweet and innocent dirty girl.
I love pain, rain, the Harry Potter books, singing, nature, Disney films, pizza, rollercoasters and fairground rides, tattoos and piercings, babies and children, milkshakes, dreams, musicals, strap-ons, crying, cosy beds, sleeping, snow, thunder storms and masturbating.
I don't like getting up in the morning, the dark, my excessive worrying, spiders, being overweight, bitchiness, annoying memos, nightclubs, being single, bullying, most vegetables, being late, feeling insecure, the news, adverts on television, not doing the things I want to do, painting my nails and making hard decisions.
BDSM
In terms of bondage and discipline, I love being tied up and restrained with rope (including ropefights) being and controlled although I hate being told off and disappointing or upsetting people. Having done water bondage now, I am a fan. Being tied up and then repeatedly pushed under water is so fun. I love the sensation of rope on my body, sometimes loose and sometimes tight. The restraint and restriction is almost freeing in a way. I also love the security and trust that I feel goes into rope because I have to trust the person I am allowing to restrain me in such a way. I haven't tried other types of bondage, such as handcuffs, yet. I'm looking forward to trying them especially combined with sex, which is still new to me.
In terms of Dominance and submission, I am a submissive and I bottom when playing with people. I'm the nice kind of girl who wants everyone to be happy, avoids conflict, usually puts others before herself sort of thing. So, I strive to please people whether that's in a BDSM context or not. I'm submissive in personality, life and 'in the bedroom' as it were, although I sure as hell can be cheeky and whatnot. I could probably top people but the desire comes and goes and is never very large. I only really want to top women. However, I am definitely submissive, masochistic and a bottom. I like doing as I am told and having someone else control me.
In terms of Sadism and Masochism, I am a masochistic painslut. I enjoy receiving pain most of the time although I often flinch away from it. The endorphins from sadomasochistic play makes me get 'sub dementia' whereby I say strange things, go hyper, giggle a lot, tell jokes, do impressions and all manners or weird things. I love being spanked, flogged, caned, paddled, bitten, scratched, electrocuted, cut, burned, slapped and more. Pain is a sensation I frequently desire and it does turn me on!
What I seek
I want to meet a Dominant man under forty years old to be in a relationship with. For now, I just have casual play partners. I am not actively seeking anymore but if I meet people whom I want to play with then I shall. I definitely want a D/s relationship where I am the submissive partner. This will be with a Dominant person who is a competent player in terms of rope, sadomasochism and everything else who can also love me and be a boyfriend/girlfriend for me within 'vanilla' society. Basically, I need someone who will control me and can tie me, hurt me and fuck me in the bedroom (or anywhere, for that matter) and can also take me to my parent's house for dinner.
Physically, in a male partner, I appreciate height. Being 6ft or more is a plus. Being less than 6ft is a hindrance. I prefer dark brown hair and blue eyes but like all hair colours and eyes colours. I like slim men but prefer large, muscular men with broad shoulders. Attractive hands and good teeth are a must for me! Also, I need a sexually clean man. I, myself, am 100% clean and the same must be true for any partner I have. I prefer hairless men but don't have a problem with body hair.
Physically, in a female partner, I like them quite similar to me in terms of height. I like red hair and blue eyes but love all hair colours and eye colours. I love all builds in women and definitely prefer arses to breasts or legs. I'm an 'arse' girl. I particularly like pear-shaped women with small-to-medium breasts, a visible waist and large womanly hips, bum and thighs. All women are beautiful to me in their own way though. I am a true lover of women, although I still get jealous of slimmer, attractive girls. Again, having good teeth and being STD free are massively important. Soft, kissable lips are also essential. I love butch women as well as feminine women, it has to be said.
In terms of personality, I've got to have things in common with someone, no matter what they look like. If you're a fan of the Harry Potter books and/or Disney films that is a major bonus because I'm a massive fan of both. Liking similar types of films, fiction and music is always useful. I like kind people who care about others, animals and the world. I love people who enjoy nature, the sky, the sea, weather etc. I'm not a very active person so really sporty people tend to put me off. Someone who is happy to stay in, watch a movie and eat dinner but also equally happy to go out to a party or on a date to the cinema or a restaurant is excellent. Also, I need someone to be intelligent and able to teach me new things, stimulate me and excite me. I like people who enjoy museums and take an interest in history, society, psychology etc.
Ideally, I will meet a Dominant sadistic person aged in their twenties, maybe thirties, who shares interests with me and I find physically attractive who also finds me physically attractive and likes me as a person.
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