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What I offer is a better future than you are likely to find elsewhere, and this comes in the form of well structured high quality polyfidelity with an exceptionally creative selection and application of BDSM practices. There are several inherent advantages to this alternate lifestyle that I can absolutely guarantee, and there are other speculative benefits that I can promise to strive to achieve. What you need to do is come to me with an open mind and a willingness to listen and give it a try. You owe it to yourself to take a chance on a better and more loving relationship. Please read carefully before writing to me.
In brief overview of myself, I am an exceptional man, very loving and thoughtful, highly intelligent and articulate, and an excellent listener. As a highly skilled and valued professional, I have repeatedly achieved what others deemed impossible through a combination of diligence, attention to detail, creative problem solving, and commitment to succeed. I have an innate sense of serenity and remain much calmer than most when confronted with challenges or a crisis, to the extent that my colleagues have expressed their amazement and envy. In the realm and parlance of BDSM, I describe myself as a near-mainstream Top and Master, with a very limited interest in switching. I am patient, caring and overall an excellent partner, especially if you are new to exploring your interests in BDSM. In general, I value quality and outcomes over other considerations. In a relationship, it matters to me that your needs are met and your wants and wishes are sufficiently satisfied. I am currently single and unattached because after college I chose not to date while I focused on other priorities in my life. I am here now and committed to my search for quality long-term partners in this alternative lifestyle.
You should be a generally healthy height-weight proportionate woman between at most the ages of 21 to 37. I expect you to be above average in some way - please tell me how you are above average in your initial message to me. You must be a non-smoker and not already have children. I prefer if you are white, but I am open to meeting women of any ethnicity. I would prefer if you are also a college educated professional. I shouldn't have to say I expect you to be fluent in english, but from experience I do - if you write to me in broken english I will not respond. I prefer if you are more mainstream in your choice of foods and not a vegetarian nor otherwise restricted. It would be nice, but is not too important, if you already share some of my specific interests such as heavy metal and adjacent styles (Metallica, Alice Cooper, Oingo Boingo), anime (Attack on Titan, Gate, Slayers), video gaming (Yakuza, Infamous, Lollipop Chainsaw), fantasy (Game of Thrones), or sci-fi (Westworld). Similarly, it would be nice if for your own image and style you are into body art, hair dyes, or alternate clothing styles like gothic or punk. Geographically, I expect you to come to me, so while I prefer if you are local to Bergen County NJ or the NYC metro area, as long as you are willing to relocate you are welcome to contact me. Those are my requirements, preferences and wishlist. Exceptions made for the exceptional.
In part because of my commitment to polyfidelity, I can be more flexible in choosing and building relationships and I am looking for women in a few distinctly different "roles":
[1] I am seeking, first and foremost, partners in polyfidelity. These are partnerships in daily life. I will share with you my favorite entertainment and involve you in varied creative projects, while exploring my participation in your interests. I prefer to think of this style of relationship as "committed friends with extraordinary benefits".
[2] I am seeking one "in-home TPE slave actress", who will dress and behave as I direct and at my whim. This is the most extreme and demanding "role" due mainly to the range of acting ability I will expect from you, ranging from regal lady to punk-gothic to pet-girl and more. Prior acting skill will be greatly appreciated. Age 21-30 is strongly preferred.
[3] I am seeking one "in-home slave executive assistant", to be tasked primarily with facilitating this very search process on my behalf. As such, marketing and social media skills will be greatly appreciated. This is a less demanding role with a high degree of autonomy, more closely resembling a submissive in style but still requiring obedience when directed. Age 21-25 is strongly preferred.
What to expect:
I intend to meet in person fairly quickly, after a limited exchange of emails and a phone conversation. I am a busy man, so please be a little patient and do not expect me to respond immediately to your initial contact. I will respond to all sincere and satisfactory messages. When I've seen your photo, I will use it with google search to weed out fakes and scammers. If I like what I see and don't suspect fraudulent use of the photo, I will respond with my photo and arrange to talk by phone. If our conversation goes well, I will invite you to meet in my local area. Please note that while I will happily cover the costs of our dates and of course expenses should you become my in-home partner, and while I may be willing upon request in person to reimburse reasonable and documented expenses you incur to meet me, I will not provide any advances or financial assistance for any reason. At some point within the first three dates, I may invite you to my home for a private conversation about polyfidelity, BDSM and our prospective relationship. I am very honest and open and will tell you clearly how I feel so you aren't left guessing. I do not play dating games and I expect you to be similarly forthright with me.
When you write to me, in addition to telling me a little about yourself in general, I suggest answering one or more of the following questions. What do you want most in a relationship? What do you want most in life? What do you most enjoy doing in your free time? What is your favorite movie and what makes it your favorite? What do you like most about your job or your daily life? What one thing do you most want to do or achieve? What puts a smile on your face?
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