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| I'm not only new to this site, but to the BDSM lifestyle - I will start by saying that I am happily married over 27 years. He is my life and soul-mate. I am not looking for relocation, being a live-in or becoming part of poly relationship. We have been in swinging lifestyle for over decade and have made great friends with many pleasurable times. We swing both together and separately, thus exploring this part of myself and my life journey is not a major issue. However, I will say he is working on getting his head around my needs and desires as they have expanded quite a bit from our "normal" swinging days. I consider this an expansion of myself not a replacement to me swinging with or without my husband.
I am an educated professional career woman in management so my time obligations with family, work, personal alone time, etc., could be an issue with some Doms. I so much want to find the right male Dom to be my Primary (and perhaps I will be his Primary also) where there is both a mutual physical/mental/lifestyle fit for me that also lives more local in Central Indiana. I know it will not happen over night but I believe he exists and hopefully we will find each other through these types of sites.
Communication will be very important to establish lines, limits esp as I explore what mine are because being newbie I'm still trying to find out - as well as my total communication with husband and willingness of Dom to meet with him in beginning at least, for discussion - my safety is very important to him which I'm sure is understandable. I have a few normal hard limits I guess one would say, but I'm very excited to explore many other areas.
Respect and caring attitude toward sub is important to me and I don't feel these attributes in anyway diminishes his ability to be a forceful command giver and should not lower his expectations of my requirement of obedience. I do need training/discipline which I would fully expect and definitely want. I feel safe words are important during play/discipline time.
I do have a very playful side and enjoy so many of life's wonderful things and know that balance in life is critical to happiness and well being. I love so many types of music, going to concerts, bikes - want my own Harley so bad, fast cars (actually cars in general but sports cars are my fav incl muscle cars), many sports as spectator esp football (Go Colts) and basketball - (I like playing golf but not good at it), traveling-we have a few timeshares, fine dining, movies, reading, shopping, playing pool/darts, beaches incl nude ones, swing clubs, dressing sexy and high heels.
I have gained some weight in recent years bc out of lifestyle for awhile, but starting to lose so work in progress currently but very positive attitude.
If after reading this, you feel we could be a good fit, please contact me at your convenience.
I am also open to chatting to make new friends even if you're not local to me. I love to have playmates too and currently since I'm searching, there could be opportunity to have some fun. Of course I understand, if I have a Dom/Master, that the playmates will have to be discussed and establish a mutual agreement that works for everyone.
Wishing everyone erotic, fun, pleasing and safe play.
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