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Ok, before writing, please read my ENTIRE profile, AND the journal entries... Pictures of the furniture on my profile are equipment I built. They are all for sale. No reasonable offer refused. I'm an experienced player in this thing called "BDSM". I'm happy to chat with newbies, or answer questions for the curious, but at the same time, I don't play games and expect people to be honest when they write me. I have no tolerance for flakes, fakes, or inappropriate emails or responses.

I’m 6’ tall, 185 lbs, in decent shape, but not a huge muscle bound guy. So if you really want someone who looks like he can bench press a Buick, that would not be me. Blue eyes, light brown hair.

For fun, I enjoy all sorts of outdoor athletically minded activities. If you're cool, and we click more than just a play level, we could have some great adventures together.

I don’t follow any sports, at all, ever.

I’m the home handyman type & can fix almost anything. In fact, I built my own home, but I’m not a contractor, I just like working with tools and creating things... kind of like working with a person and "creating things"... lol

I’m fascinated by human psychology, self-improvement, and I practice “The Secret” daily.

In many ways, my life kind of rocks. Now I’d like to find an amazing woman to share it with who also has a penchant for D/s play.

My play varies, and I enjoy everything from from mild to wild. I believe in open communication, that any scene should leave ALL parties satisfied.

I'm open to meeting a really cool, fun, intelligent, sassy, sexy, sane, adventuresome, open minded woman with a great (and preferably wicked) sense of humor who also has an awesome personality, with a beautiful smile to see what develops naturally.

She should also have, and be able to appreciate the occasional wild side. Ahhh, who am I kidding? It’s more than occasional.

Athletic, active, and health conscious. Please be local and in SOCAL. UPDATE: I've had a lot of questions about the pictures of the equipment. Yes, those are in my playroom, and yes, I built them all from scratch. If you are interested in hiring someone to build you specific play furniture, feel free to say hello. I can build almost anything out of wood or metal. .
1/15/2011 11:28:53 PM

Ok asking for or doing any of the following will get you deleted and blocked:

 

1) Cock pictures:  That's a sure sign it's a guy and not a woman or couple.  I've met tons of women online, and NONE of them have EVER wanted a cock picture before meeting.

 

2) A written account of how things would go down if we met:  Really?  Do you think I'm going to waste my time writing you porn to jack off to?  Again, totally what lame guys do.

 

3) A couple claiming "the guys need to meet first":  Again, a DUDE claiming to be a couple.

 

4) Refusing to talk on the phone:  Again, not going to meet anyone without voice verifying.  Why?  Because it usually turns out to be A GUY. 

 

5) Refusing to send face pics:  I totally get the need for discretion, but let's be real here folks... Ain't meeting without seeing WHO I'd be meeting.  It's that simple.

 

 

 

 

12/13/2010 2:10:03 PM

First off, I'm not a dick, but I am tired of the bullshit, games, flakes, fakes, rude emails, etc, so I've come up with some rules you need to adhere to if you write me. 

They are:

1) If you write me first, send a proper introduction of yourself.  One liners, questions out of the blue, etc, are just rude.  You wouldn't walk up to someone on the street and just start asking them questions without introducing yourself.  The internet is no different.  Rules of decency, class, conduct, etc, are the same.

2) Either have a picture posted, or be willing to send one at some time.  I like to see who I'm chatting with.  My picture is posted.  If yours isn't,and you don't send one after an email or two, I'll assume you're another flake or fake.  

3) If you write, be prepared to actually TALK sometime.  I'm not into endless emails.  After a few emails, again, I'll assume you're another fake, and CM seems to have a lot of them.  I'll send you my number, and you can call me and block yours.  If you want to email forever, IM, text, etc, I'm not interested.  I'm looking for real people who are serious about getting to know someone and seeing if we click. 
I know some of you, especially newbies, are a tad timid.  That's understandable, but at some point, you've got to "pull the trigger" so to speak.  I'll set it up so you can preserve your identity and remain somewhat anonymous, but if you're here, it's because you're curious.  You can't explore that curiosity AND remain totally anonymous forever at the same time. 
11/12/2010 3:06:32 PM

Ugh, time to update again.  I'm interested in meeting REAL people.  I don't expect "tributes" nor do I give them either.  I'm not going to "webcam" with you first, or see you on your site, or appear in your videos.

If you're stranded in Nigeria, sorry that sucks, but I'm still not sending you money either.  While I'm at it, I won't give you my personal information complete with bank account numbers and credit cards either.  lol  

Again, I'm looking for someone REAL. 

Clear enough?  lol

3/15/2009 5:53:13 PM
How I play: 

I believe ALL play should be consensual, fulfilling, and  rewarding.  Any Dom who  doesn't treat his subs well isn't a Dom, he's an a-hole.  Sorry to be so blunt, but I keep hearing from women who tell me they met a "Dom" and his only interest was in what HE wanted.  That's NOT the way I play... 


1/9/2009 5:10:10 PM
Ok, My "friends" list are actually people I know.  No, I haven't played with all of them.  Some are just friends in "real" life.   

Frankly, I think the whole "friends list" thing is kind of silly, but what the heck. 

Anyway, if you want to get on my friend list, I've got to know you are for real.  
2/22/2008 2:18:48 PM
Heard something interesting today that made me laugh. A woman here wrote me, and said, "you look like a "bad boy" but you have a "good guy" smile and you write well, so which is it? Also, if you're a good guy, can you do the job?

I'm both. I'm a good guy when it comes to things that matter, like treating other people decently, handling my career and finances, etc. I'm a bad boy when it comes to getting things done in life, and the bedroom, (which is what you really want to know anyway). The question isn't "can i do the job" the question is, "can you keep up?"  lol