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About GameDayServant
Service is, for a slave, paramount!
I'm new to Pennsylvania and wanted to connect with the community in a way both useful and non-threatening.
So, here's the offer: I would gladly serve as a domestic for any event where an extra set of hands is useful to You. Could be friends coming over for a game, a holiday party, a get-together of whatever sort. Could be totally vanilla or totally kink--You decide.
You decide the menu and the time. You decide my attire (white shirt/black pants, 'team colors' or ???? !). i will handle the setup, the serving and the cleanup. (If it's just a simple game--munchies and pizza, i'll even pick up the tab!)
No expectations for any 'play' at all--i just want to meet some of the folks in the local community. Where it goes from there is up to You.
May i fill Your glass?
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An excellent perspective from a dominant's profile!
Slavery is NOT all about suffering... Slavery is primarily about SERVICE. Slavery is NOT all about humiliation... Slavery is primarily about HUMILITY. Slaver is NOT all about pain... Slavery is all about being present. Slavery is NOT all about being used... Slavering is about being of use. Slavery is NOT only about control... Slavery is about letting go. Slavery is NOT about your desires... Slavery is about giving to others. Slavery is NOT about abuse... Slavery is about ACCEPTANCE. Slavery is NOT about proving anything... Slavery is about being real. Slavery is NOT about contempt... Slavery is about RESPECT. Slavery is NOT about how you look... Slavery is about how you care. Slavery is NOT about denying yourself... Slavery is about being open. Slavery is NOT all about punishment... Slavery is about DISCIPLINE. Slavery is NOT about being unable to escape... Slavery is about being committed. Slavery is NOT about submission... Slavery is about obedience. Slavery is NOT about fear... Slavery is about TRUST. Slavery is NOT about Sex... Slavery is about SERVING
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i thoguht it would be useful to put a few random thoughts down on my perspective of the power exchange dynamic.
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For all those who argue it is JUST about the Dominant, they're not being realistic. Yes, the Dominant MUST get ALL of Her needs/desires/wishes/whims met...but if the submissive/slave doesn't get enough of his needs (and an occasional desire/wish/whim) met, then the relationship will eventually end. i've seen it happen too often.
As for trust, it is an equally interesting dynamic. i suspect for a Dominant, the trust part comes slower--as a slave proves itself. She says 'JUMP' and the slave responds by jumping...how well and how high determines if a small deposit in the trust account of the Dominant occurs.
For slaves, trust must build more quickly. Slaves know they are replaceable very quickly, that they MUST perform as demanded, and that their future depends on whether the Dominant is pleased. So, the responses, early on, are often over-the-top displays of submissive behavior.
The best matches are those between a Dominant and a slave who are in synch and aware of each others' psychological state--both should cater to the other, understanding how the Dominant's demands and the slave's surrender are linked.
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