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About GabrielF
Get ready for a long-ass monologue, because I'm about to lay it down.
My name is Gabriel. BDSM has always been a part of my sexual identity, ever since I've been old enough to have one. I'm relatively new to "the lifestyle", but I'm learning rapidly how to swim in these waters. I'm single, and I'm looking for a partner who is submissive. Not a submissive partner, mind you.
Adjective time.
I am: Serious, disorganized, honest, intellectual, caring, earnest, dominant, chivalrous, intelligent, nerdy, enlightened, atheist, clever, competent, honorable, relaxed, polite, adventurous, thoughtful, inventive, generous, introverted, self-conscious, laid-back, stoic, intense, conflicted, trustworthy, self-reliant, courageous, measured, loyal, and unfinished.
You, hopefully, are: Smart, charismatic, skeptical, organized, adventurous, competent, independent, submissive, iconoclastic, brave, loyal, thoughtful, sensual, cosmopolitan, educated, kind, clever, capable, and honest. Or some combination thereof.
Adjective time is over. Monologue resumes.
I'm not looking to own my very own human being. My intentions and desires are both universal and honorable. Like any decent person, I want a partner first -- a comrade, someone I can count on having at my side in life's battles. I want the enrichment of shared celebration, mutual trust, and a deep and unconditional friendship. I am not interested in a full-time slave -- my partner must have her own agency, she must be whole.
While both parties in a relationship should of course draw strength from each other, they ought also to be strong enough in themselves to stand on their own. I am not looking for perfection -- I'm far from a perfect being myself -- but I need someone whole, someone at peace with herself.
All that being said, it's probably obvious from my mere presence on this site that sexuality and kink are important parts of my life. I'm not a full-time dominant, but dominance is a large part of my identity -- especially my sexual identity -- and it's something that I need to express regularly.
I am by no means a jealous or possessive person in my daily life, but I get a thrill from topping, from that sense of total control and freedom (even if it is an illusion entwined in the greater sphere of trust and responsibility) that is like nothing else I know of. The willing submission of a woman to my darker desires is one of the most exciting, stirring, satisfying experiences I have ever partaken in. It's indescribably intoxicating, and while I would never want to let it control and define my life, it's also something that I want to explore and experience as deeply as possibly within the bounds that I set for it.
I am in a phase of rapid growth regarding kink, and I am excited to see where it leads. I am comfortable with the degree to which the BDSM lifestyle influences my own way of life, but every new experience brings another level of fulfillment and self-discovery. That's what kink is to me -- not necessarily a way of life, but a fulfilling pastime, a passionate interest through which I constantly rediscover myself.
That's what I have to say right now. Now that you know a little bit about who I am where, I'm coming from, and what I'm looking for, why don't you drop me a note? I'd love to hear your perspective.
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