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Male Submissive, 45, Edmonton
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Male Dominant, 40
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Male Submissive, 58, So California, California
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About FunAndPains
I'm mostly looking for friends, online relationship, and perhaps the "real deal" if everything is perfect, but I'm very laid back about this. I'd be thrilled to meet my muse, and a few outstanding friends that I can share intelligent conversation with.
Even though I listed myself as a Dom, I do switch, I'm just not interested in Dominant women at this time. I would be interested in meeting a switch who tends towards the sub side. The sub side of me tends towards more physical play as I get off on the endorphins and adrenaline rushes that come with it. When it comes to the mental and psychological part of bdsm, I tend to be more comfortable as a Dom.
Also, I'm not a 24/7 kind of guy. I don't think I'm cut out for the "always on" aspect of a 24/7 relationship. Perhaps because I have a switch personality.
In my vanilla life, I enjoy writing, working out, various sports, and online games (I'd love to meet a 2nd Life slave here). And if you find a bdsm themed gym anywhere, please let me know...
That's just a bit about me. If you want to know more, just send me a shout. Cheers!
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Well I give up trying to put a photo up on this site.? No, I'm not showing my face on my profile because I really don't need my vanilla friends seeing it.? Anything I try to put up here gets rejected for being cropped wrong, too blurry, or whatever.? Fuck it.? If you want a photo just ask for one.
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My first journal entry, how...exciting?? I've been trying to think of something to write about, and I stumbled across this in the forums:
"Being a masochist doesn't make one a switch anymore than being a switch makes one a masochist."
That's a good quote for me, because I've been constantly struggling with this "switch" identity.? I'm not a good sub, unless we're talking strictly about bondage and s&m play.? I tolerate degredation and following orders during a "scene" as a means to getting to what I crave: being tied up, flogged, clamped, or whatever my sadistic partner has cooked up in Her head.? But that's pretty much it.? When it comes to the prolonged scene, the absolute control, the playing outside of sex and bondage, I'm much more comfortable as the Dom.? I can't imagine being led around on a leash in a park, but I fantasize nearly daily about holding that leash.
So, maybe I'm not a switch really.? Maybe I'm a Dom with a masochistic side.? Someone who likes to experience someone else's technique from time to time.? Who knows.?
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