A Dom .... Hmmm what does that mean to me ? Care, understanding, trust, reliability, honesty, creativity, discretion, yes ... discipline, and whole host of serious responsibilities in caring for ones sub/s.
Me .... well, I'm educated, mature, hopefully funny, 40 and male .... actually shy at first but I get to be myself when I feel that I'm amongst friends. I can also be serious ( only sometimes though ), I hate time wasting, or tardiness, or wasting other peoples time, and yes I can be "moody", but aren't we all occasionally ? Trust and loyalty are BIG things for me, once you get to know me you will know why ... If you are looking for a "life and soul of the party" type of person, then you might have found me, but you won't get it out of me straight away ... fair warning :)
I love techy stuff, Sci Fi, engineering, cinema, reading, walking, entertaining. ... Oh, and where possible I design and make my own "toys" ... so that kind of fits in with the fact I'm told that I am creative in terms of play and roleplay.
Why am I here ? Well I have been into the sexual element of the lifestyle privately for many years with several subs / partners, and I have just come out of a long term relationship. So, now it is time to change and be the person I want to be in public! I also want to learn more about the lifestyle, history, and symbolism, as well as share my experiences with others, make friends, and yes, dependant on chemistry or compatibility, the possibility of finding a new long term partner / playmate.
OK, what am I into .... well, naughty or nice girls in need of discipline or punishment and correction, BUT all done in a strict but safe and discreet environment. Age play, breath control, candles, knifeplay, ropework, spanking, caning, oral, anal, fisting, sensory deprivation, orgasm denial, teasing, exhibitionism, and roleplay are some of the things I have partaken of in the past.
If you are still with me then please message me ...... I want, and would like to make friends, as well as possible play mates, or even a long term relationship :)
