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	About foXnotinsoX ... drops a velvet glove into the ring ... Experienced hedonistic semi-bedroom submissive seeks likewise experienced Partner I'm educated, professionally employed, and a natural. I laugh hard, love hard, and =] play hard, yet have a definite softer side. I also have quite well-defined limits .. primary being I offer my submission first, before you exert your dominance. The second most important limit is that I DO NOT CHAT! I'm seeking a single Gentleman who resides locally (in and around Ottawa), within my age range (late 30s to late 40s), and who understands the difference between one who identifies as a submissive versus one as a slave. Somebody who is empathetic, jovial, and knows when and how to take things seriously .. and ;] when not to. I work out regularly (currently in training), and thus have a preference for fitness. Beyond that, my tastes are wide, enjoying many things, both within BDSM and without. Or both! Music, animals, art, science, games.... Curious? I certainly am.... If responding, please tell a bit about yourself, including a photo if you so desire. Polite notes guarantee a reply. Thank you, ~~foX~~ Veni Vidi Veni

Back to teaching aerobics again, and did the whole class my first foray in. Foot was a bit sore , yet went well. Garden is growing wonderful .. I've got plum tomatoes almost the size of beefers =] .. and what the heck am I going to do with all these cucumbers!! heheh

It's been nice having time off, but back to work today. The broken bone is healing well, and I no longer have to do stairs one painful one at a time .. can do them [almost] normally.
A short week, then on holidays again .. but this time, I am NOT going camping ;]

Wow, what a trip.
Went camping at Mont Orford, had a slip, and broke my toe, diagonally through the second bone of the left big one. Can't walk for a week, and I imagine driving my standard is going to be difficult.
Lots of crawling =] though

?? Hmm I guess I'd better update this thing .. it's been almost a year =)
?? Heading to Toronto this weekend (first time in 2 years!) for Pride celebrations.
?? Gardening still .. my front garden had to be ripped out and moved, all because it didn't conform to condo corp *standard*, which had changed since the garden had expanded. They didn't grandfather me and even forced the move of a 4 year old miniature Korean lilac ... ohh well =) it looks much better in the back yard.
?? Still on the road to certification, and? scheduled to teach first class in August.
?? All the time for now ..

July Update: Don't know when I'll have time to sit again, so might as well do it now .. First course of studies finish this weekend, and it's going quite well. Studying anatomy (musculature, energy systems, skeletal, nervous, etc.) which is ummm coming back to me. The garden is beautiful with many flowers blooming and tomatoes coming along. Haven't had time to redig the west bed (where the bbq had to be put last year) but man! it's been into the 40s taking into account the humidex which is 100% most days. And to top it all off, I got too much sun during a offsite visit despite the sunscreen .. but that's OK .. drink more water and wait for the heat to pass .. cause I also gotta lay some patio stones .. a much better job in cooler weather ..
All for now, nighty night cause it's wayyyy past bedtime. ~*~

June Update:
   Been gardening LOTS and LOTS .. and it's wonderful watching everything green-up and grow. Having the fence replaced last summer put the garden on a mini-hiatus last year, but this year? Wow =] .. it's making up for lost time.
   I love to garden .. planning in winter, planting and double-digging in the spring, autumn harvent .. and the lush green growth of summer. Pulling weeds and such gives one much time to think .. and the topic my mind keeps wandering to is the BDSM search .. seeking to learn from outside of oneself .. hm as opposed to searching within.
   There are many who subscribe to a certain view, which may or may not be their own. There are even those who believe that their way is the best .. granted true, it may be best for them .. but is it best for all?
   I'm reminded of a rather unfortunate incident that happened on my 40th birthday .. where I caught my then-partner in a lie and rather than own up to it, he berated me in public for having the audacity to challenge a "dominant" .. and then one of his friends joins in, a chick I had only just met that night over dinner, and she grabs her collar and admonishes me, saying that "this collar is what it's all about" ..
   Hmmphhh .. yeah right. My bdsm is all about her collar? I don't think so ;P
   My bdsm I believe is all about giving and offering .. from both sides. As Newton stated, for each action there is an equal and opposite reaction .. so this giving and offering needs to come from my dominant partner as well as from myself.
   In having something to offer and in the absence of a dominant partner in whom I can trust enough to offer to give, I'm trying to improve who I am as a person. And in doing so, I can then offer a hand-up to somebody else.
   One thing I really like doing is exercising .. it raises the endorphin levels [err in absence of a dominant partner] and keeps one fit and flexible. And by the autumn equinox, I will be certified as an instructor.
   I will be teaching such classes as "Power Yoga" and "Mini-BootCamp" .. where I can tell the class to "drop and do me 20" heheh =]
   I'd like also to develop a class on Flexibility .. for this is something that degrades over time if not tended properly. The connection to WIITWD <grins> is not only in the flexibility (and by extension the ability to hold a position longer) but also in the fitness .. for many have certain issues, whether it be back or shoulder problems, or being beyond one's Body Mass Index (BMI).
   It's sad in a way cause we can be more and overcome these things with just a little bit of effort, and tending to things within ourselves. To be in touch with the space between the things we can touch .. for much of the universe is simply empty space, as within an atom itself.
    Hmmmm .. OK enough of this philosophisizing =] .. and back to gardening ..
Enjoy the day!
~*~

At work, we regularly have different events. This month, it's "Health and Safety". Three years ago, I had my fitness tested .. and faired poorly. I knew however that this was only a starting point. Welll =) got my fitness testing again last week .. and my body fat % has decreased to 23.1%. Normal range for a woman is 18-28. What's more, my flexibility is fantastic! A "stretch" of 37cm is considered excellent, and I did 43cm (being able to touch beyond my toes=).
Onwards and upwards heheh

Almost! Springtime!! Welllll only 10 days left of winter, and so the countdown begins ..... Hmmmm seems even though my profile is chock full of stuff, it requires some =] clarification. Thank you all who contact me, yet I'm seeking somebody local (ie, near the nation's capital) for friendship and getting to know one another. I like to take things ssllooowww hmmm in more ways than one. Please do understand that the only limit I have .. at least, for now heheh .. is that I offer my submission before you exert your dominance. There too seems to be some confusion on my *bisexual* label. Please Ladies and I am flattered, yet my desire with respect to women is not to submit to them .. rather, if and when I become comfortable in my primary relationship with a Male Partner, we might bring in a girl for Our pleasure. Sooooo we'd have to wrestle to see who'd be on Top .. and I work out regularly........ heheh OK, that's about all for now. Going out to the Cabaret tonight, so perhaps (if you're local, that is) might see you there. Have a wonderful day! ~*~foX~*~

I finally did it!
New photos taken on Sunday =) .. and the last for a while with long hair.
For, sitting in a baggie ready to be sent to an organization that makes wigs for children cancer survivors, three braids awaiting mail-out.
No worries, as it shall grow out. Still can put it in a pony tail or pig tails. The way I figure it, I had more than 20 inches of thick natural auburn waves .. which is 5 hands in horsey terms .. and now I have a bit more than 2 =)
Have a wonderful day!

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