I am an outgoing person, and not very submissive by nature. Its difficult for me to submit, but i long for the peace it brings me.

I am married to a vanilla man who doesn't seem to like me very much...sexually or otherwise, so i do what my spirit needs me to do to keep my sanity.

I would like to meet a nice clean, not insane, caring and sometimes gentle dominant butch woman for occasional play. If any kind of ltr happens, then, it will lol.

I don't act or look my age, i'm chunky, thats for sure but that just makes me cuddly lol. I have a wicked and sometimes inappropriate sense of humor. I don't like games, i'll be upfront with you if you are upfront with me. I've been involved w/the lifestyle for about 12 years.
I am not a wannabe or a player and i am definitely NOT a swinger, so if you are any of those, please don't bother.