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Male Submissive, 40, Riverside, California
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Male Submissive, 55, 91316, California
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About ForServiceObject
Many talk about slavery/ownership (on both sides), referring primarily to BDSM/bedroom fun with some other aspect as side dish. Some are serious about much more than that, but that is rather a (pleasant to read) exception.
When I use the terms slave/ownership/TPE, I talk about their actual meaning (google for it), what I look for relates to that (as close to it as possible), obviously with mutual consent to enter/live that way.
Ownership is to me as literal as possible, a property I own, like owning a pair of shoes. Like every item I own, the item is used HOW and WHEN I want, not because 'it' wants to be used. Naturally, I keep my possessions in good state, do not break those, ensure they remain usable. It takes a strong will to accept NOT getting what YOU want when YOU want it, but depend on your Owner to use you (for anything a slave can be used for). You may get what you enjoy often, or may not get any of that for weeks/months if at all, it's not easy to place the owners will before your own wants and likes.
The T in TPE means Total, there is no exception, every aspect of a slaves life and living is in MY decision, the slave obeys, accepts, follows those decisions, no if or but. How you walk, talk, dress, look like, who you talk to, what you do, if you do anything at all or just stand silent in a corner (no matter how long), what you eat, if or when you use a toilet, anything and everything is decided by the Owner. Again, it is not easy to jump over your own shadow and accept your Owners likes above your own, be and act way HE wants, not you yourself. A slave is allowed suggestions, if he believes it is beneficial for the living together with the Master, but every final decision is mine and the slave accepts without discussion. (Obedience is measured by executing commands without hesitation within the second it has been given and by following every existing rule to the letter)
Slavery is also taken by the original definition of the term slave/slavery. It is not a sex related term. A slave is a tool to perform as ordered, to provide labour, comfort, to please the eye, mind and body of it's Owner in any way it can. While in the ancient times this behave was enforced by law, in todays world it is voluntarily given by a slave to his Owner (there is no legal way to enforce it, and I would not want to require force either, if a slave does not WANT to serve freely, he is not the slave I seek to own). It again takes a strong will to accept the level of selflessness and subservience involved in such a lifestyle.
Sexual related matters, fetish-wear or actions, BDSM activities but as well as basic as suck/fuck actions, are separate, those are 'play/games' one may or may not enjoy, not related to being a slave in ownership. They may (likely) happen to some extent, some more often, some rare, some not at all, but if or when those happen is solely Masters choice, if a slave is lucky he gets enough of those, if his Master chooses not to give those to the slave, it will (should) not change the slaves devotion/obedience/submission either. That is why I often doubt when I see a 'slave' advertising himself, but the profile focuses only on BDSM/Play/fetish, and not on the actual meaning of slavery. Because you have no influence on it and may not get plenty of those activities, you may not be happy in your slave life at the end. So it is more essential to ask: can I live without those (or with rarely getting those), is selfless servitude to my Master enough to find my purpose, my fulfillment, my happiness...
It does not mean there will never be anything to enjoy, it is still a life lived together, but under specific circumstances, there will be times of fun, chat, laughter, being out, but everything under the terms, rules and choices of the Owner. But if you know you cannot 'serve' when it isn't about getting your BDSM fix as often as you wish for it, then you are likely not the type slave I am looking for. |
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