ForRealAndOpen

This profile is for real. All of it, down to the last detail, is true.

I a passionate and caring person. I am dominant as well. That is right--I love BDSM but I have passionate, wild and romantic heart. I care about the people I am intimate with. I care about their minds. I learn them. Sound strange? Not at all. I have nothing to hide and I take the time to understand, to read, other people. Knowledge is power in sex as in everything else.

If you want to conjure up my ideal, think of the classics of the genre such as the "Story of O" as opposed to a leather clad, repressed bully. A libertine not a liar. Refinement and ritual as opposed to crass antics.

I enjoy meeting submissive, wild, service-oriented and literate women. I have no agenda...if we end up as friends, wonderful; if we end up as more that would surely be a pleasure.

A brief and realistic description of myself: as for the superficial and necessary: I am easy on the eyes, 6’, fit, given to a dry wit and extremely well-educated. ‘never lacked for success or the desire to work for it. Well read is not the phrase that captures my relation to ideas and the written word.

Beneath the surface somewhat: I am drawn to women who have a mastery of their desires and a love of adventure—and the feeling that life has to be caught before it slips away. Cultivating a wonderful person’s interests and desires sets my blood flowing. I find an intelligent woman’s expressions as sexy as anything else.

Next to romantic thoughts---I love to dance and to write.

Play with me will involve plenty of imagination.
I respect limits. I am clean. I am devious. And I love the release of kink. So, BDSM is not a matter of dry experiences for me (of which I have plenty) but a form of expression--a way of pushing personal and sexual barriers. I enjoy it deeply and it is a release. I will mold and train and relentlessly push you to something new, so that we can share this release.
I will not waste my time with narrow, uptight women. If you cannot relax or you are a drama queen, move on. You will not register on my radar. Passion and creativity are what I respect, in large or small ways. My life outside of all of this is full and I love it. I believe in the in the basic tenets of feminism and I am treat everyone with respect. I am discreet and carefree enough to accept a casual relationship; I will not accept someone whose idea of BDSM begins and ends with some tired version of a dungeon, however. There is more to it than that.