Forceu2love

This is a first for me.  Someone actually blockes me days ago, and today, messages me this:

"HaremShareHim" writes:
"Pardon me, but you seem very one dimensional. our Master keeps us naked and that is His law. Do what you want with your property but don't even dare to think your way is universal. "

Would I dare to think "MY" way is universal?  I Dare not.  As a matter of fact, to each HIS or her own.

I'm flattered that you came out of retirement from talking to me....to share something with me. 

I never said MY way was universal.  In fact, come to think of it, I don't HAVE a WAY!!!.

I was merely saying orginally, that one doesn't have to be naked and shackled to be "REAL"

Nor does one have to shackle and enforce nudity on another to be real (though is sounds like a fun idea)

Peace Out.

My lattest blockage:

I responded (I thought harmlessly) to a profile stating:

I put in bold print the one line I was commenting on when I PMd this member of CM
the following:

To which I got the following response and  blockage:

Pardon me, but all shoes do not fit the same foot.  Until i read your comment i was totally unaware someone had been appointed to make up the rules and regualarions of slavery.  Just imagine all those centuries back when slaves were sold naked and chained in the market, when slaves in the New World arrived dockside naked and shackled -  guess they were all wrong.  Good thing you are around to correct history.  Thanks for sharing your inane thoughts.  You are blocked.  My Master gave me pernission to do this.

sweetpea

part of "HaremShareHim"

So, strike up   #3 recent blockages for yours truly ForceU2Love.
Shame on me for volunteering my opinion about their "Real as it gets" comment in their profile.

I guess they have the right to think they're cool for being so naked and shackled.  I'm just  substituting "real" for "cool".

I mean everybody deserves to be cool for something at some point, don't they?

I find it funny how everyone seems to have this  special ownership of "real", like, "hey my Master is super real, he whips the shit out of my ass(literally) and makes me cry"

"Warning: We are very REAL.  Becareful what you wish for.  You just might GET IT!!!"

I mean seriously, isn't EVERYBODY real?  This whole thing of who's real and who's not get's pretty old if you ask me.  Some of us are dull, some dynamic, some of us are "Masterful" with a capital M.  Some of us PRETEND to be what we're not.  Some of us are "wannabe's"  Some of use represent ourselves as Doms or Masters and maybe we're not.  Some who say they are Sub or Slave, maybe are or maybe not.  I'm not the one to say.  I'm not feeling like being God today. 

I agree that there are specific definitions somewhere in the Official Bible of D/sBDSM Handbook.  Ok, that's cool.  But not everyone has handy access to that book.

Seriously, a student of the "Lifestyle" CAN learn all they want about the various jargon, definitions, skills, mastery, the differences between a sub and a slave, the differences between a Master and a Dom, the story of O, the stories of ABC and XYZ, etc.  That's all great stuff.  But all that stuff and a cup of coffee get you nothing but masturbating alone in your dungeon/torture chamber if you don't have the right person or people to share things with.
Maybe you have the satisfaction of knowing and thinking to yourself, "I'm the baddest ass Master on the planet" as you sit there making your latest home made spreader bar.

I think a lot of resentment comes from two things:  1---People being frustrated and  being rejected and...2---Resentment from others misrepresenting themselves.

1--as far as being rejected and not loved, not appreciated, I can relate.  I've gotten a lot of rejection on this site; not nearly as much rejection though in my life as a salesman in general.  I think rejection is human but that doesn't keep it from hurting.  Who likes to be rejected?  The masochist perhaps? 

So, if you've felt rejected, unwanted, unloved, join the club.  Just try not to hate and resent others for it.  I refuse to.  But, rather, let's try to have compassion for all these others out there who are perhaps lonely, feel rejected, unloved or whatever.  They may be Super Master or hopelessly half baked dommywannabe's...or....confused shemale bipolar switches.  They are still HUMAN BEINGS.


2---As far as people "making believe" who they are( you macho doms...and masters know who you are) that can really be a pain in the ASS.  Either to have someone with a 4th grade education just happen to come across a computer and be able to log onto CM and message some submissive, out of the clear blue, "Eat it bitch!!!"  And call himself MASTER.  That kind of thing does not
 further the human race at all.

Saying one is a Dom or Master is sort of like applying for a job as a Mechanic or Doctor or whatever.  When you show up for the job  interview you'd better produce the goods, otherwise someones going to be pissed you wasted their time.  The same thing holds true for subs and slaves.

Misrepresenations on what one looks like are at this point a cliche'.  Oviously, it's not good to lie or fib about onces appearance.  Pictures do wonders to allow others to see your physical you.  If you're not happy with the way you look.....MAKE CHANGES.  Life is beautiful, we ALL are dynamic and can enhance ourselves. 

Don't fall into that trap.  I want someone who loves me JUST THE WAY i AM!!  Trap!!!.  "Yes bitch, I have no money, I'm trending for a triple bypass from the way I'm living, I'm an alcoholic, a gambler, smoker, have b o....but if you don't except me the way I am as MASTER D'LIGHT, then you're just superfical!!!" 

As far as you women are concerned, I love you all, fhat, thick,  thin, in betwin, athletic, dainty, petite, MONSTER FATSO, bbw, bbbw, bwwwb, whatever, I love you unconditionally.  Realize one thing, however.  I learned as a life insurance agent many moons ago, that somone carrying 50 or more pounds of "extra weight" was automatically charged...TWICE the premium as those of "normal weighted" people.  Why?, because they're statistically expected live like 20 years less, the heavier they are the shorter their  lives are EXPECTED.  So excuse me if that fact doesn't exactly turn me on.

Also, realize that we live in a screwed up society here in the USA where obesity is a bigger and bigger problem every year:  meaning, we are becoming a sicker and sicker country physically and mentally.  Big companies who push all this fast food on your asses...don't give a RATS ass about you or me.  We're  just  a profit number to them.

Politicians are OWNED by these big companies.  So it's up to us folks out here to edumacate each other.

I realize that you may have a lot more motion to your ocean and a bigger bang for my buck...and you may be very thick and sexy and you may be a human sex machine volcano woman at 250 pounds.  That's all good.  But please don't think me superficial if I want a HEALTHY woman.  Someone who takes care of herself.  Someone  I can chase around the bed a few times, if not around the field and trough the woods without her having a heart attack.  There is this undercurrent thing going on that: "guys  who want in shape women are superficial"  I guess a woman who wants to marry a millionaire(make that billionaire now adays) is superficial.  I supposed a girl who wants a guy with a nice car is superficial.  Wanting a mate who is academic, scholarly,  or...intellectual I guess could be considered "alloof" or superficial.  Sadists dismissing subs who are not sufficiently masocistic, I guess  could be superficial.  Masocists who scoff at sadists who don't know how to lay down enough pain might be considered ungrateful and superficial, but I think the key, is in opening up honest diologue about our various concerns, interests, and desires and explaining WHY we like what we like, why we do what we do....trying to be kind but honest with others.

If a woman tells me "you're not edgy enough for me"  I'm cool with that.  If she says, "You're too hardcore for me"  Im cool with that.  If she says "you're  not rich enough" or "your  cock is not big enough", I'm cool with that. If she doesn't return PMs or phone calls, and just causes me to wonder, I think "why did I ever get mixed up with someone without class and honor"  That I'm not cool with.


Disclaimer:  all statements about bbw's...and that general topic were done( believe it or not) in the spirit of true (perhaps tough) love.  It's not easy to discuss or confront such matters.

I find it kind of weird to see that I am being blocked email wise or whatever you call it....by a few subs on the site here.  I would never contact someone who didn't want to be contacted anyway...since it's a mutual interest thing for me.  It's beneath me to go where I'm not wanted.  Perhaps that's some peoples way of having a "last word" in a disagreement"  Oh well, so be it.

Two things: First of all...I think there are two kinds of doms....one type dom....loves women, has a healthy respect for women and  enjoys helping his submissives grow, nuturing them...to be their greatest selves. Punish mostly out of love, to give their  submissives loving consequences that say, "I care".

The other kind of Dom,  uses D/s to "get even" with submissives since they have an ax to grind with women in general.  By inflicting on their sub the are getting back at some past villan and evening the score.

I believe a sub has to ask...what kind of Dom/Master do I want to be with.


 The second thing I want to say is, I'm only here for positive reasons.
I'm not looking to waste my time arguing with others, splitting hairs...life is short...let's enjoy it.
If you don't Like me.  Go find someone you do like...and enjoy them.  I won't take it personally.  Just don't argue with me.

If I've insulted or rubbed anyone  the wrong way(I obviously have to have a few people blocking my mail) I'm sorry; let's move on.

Bottom line.  I refuse to let....a few bad experiences with women, any bad attitude ladies, jade  me twords women.  I love women in general and  will continue to see them in a positive light.  Ladies and gentlemen, I'd suggest you all keep a friendly and open minded outlook on things...since a bad frame of mind attracts more negative things and expereinces.