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Hetero Female Submissive, 28,  San Luis Obispo, California
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forceme2submit - submissive

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i am nothing but those things:)
It is unlikely for me reply to inquiries nor will i contact profiles that share no information about you. i respect professionals and the privacy of those whom are leery of showing their faces, but please be willing to share yourself with me, if you're planning on conversing with me. Please do not contact me if you're looking for "discreet" due to a marriage/vanilla relationship or anything of the sort. i am not looking for mere play or a weekend fuck session. i am real and am looking for something real as well. i discovered D/s a couple of years ago. i have found it is what i need and can no longer be completely fulfilled in a vanilla relationship. Childhood fantasies (as well as adulthood) and finding out about bdsm and D/s has shown me that this is what i need, and i LOVE AND CRAVE IT. i want my sexual life/sexuality 100% dominated and controlled. Outside that i also need some direction and guidance, orders and rules. i know i need to be broken. i have realized (perhaps known it, but feared it) that i do need pain. i need and crave to be pushed until i'm exhausted and crying. So i guess i am masochistic, although it's newly coming out into the open. i'm in a personal process of learning to take more pain and to beg for it. i expect and need discipline, so if you're just looking for kink, that is AWESOME but we probably wont be the right match, as i like the formality of D/s. YES i am a normal woman (very silly) that has vanilla loves and needs also, but i need a DOM who understands that i have a submissive side to me that i crave to give. i need a Dom, who takes this lifestyle seriously and is non-judgemental. i am only happy, fulfilled and satisfied if the Man i'm with is. i like attention to detail. i will definately defy, test and even push His limits, and i hope He loves this, as i am much into forced submission as well. i am highly aroused by being made to do things i don't want (not including hard limits or disrespect) Variety is the spice of life, right? :) Trust, respect, communication, understanding and patience are key qualities that i need from Him. i expect to be challenged and He should expect challenge from myself. i want to feel as though W/we are both a challenge for each other and keep each other on O/our feet. I AM NOT A DOORMAT, nor would He want me to be. While i am not bisexual, please note that i prefer to "top" or co-submit with women, should one be involved during play, scening or any other scenario. Feel free to check out my erotica writing blog, i'd love to hear your thoughts;) XoxoX
After much consideration and discussion i am now under Overbound. While i am happily obeying Him, i am encouraged to find a Dominant Man who is looking for a long term situation, as Overbound has His life partner HudsyHawn whom i adore. With that said, i continue to be open for opportunities that may arise while under the protection of Him. i am thankful to Him and His for allowing me to be a part of this journey and cherish all moments with T/them. ive learned and grown SO much as an individual and with T/them. Thank You Sir, and sis. XoxoX












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 Submissive Female

 San Luis Obispo 


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 7"

 125 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Friends Only

 Lives For:


 Breast Play

 Hair Pulling






 Bird Watching

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining






 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts




 Canes and Crops



 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial


 Intellectual Discourse




 Lifestyle BDSM

 Rock Music



 Amusement Parks





 Anal Play (Beginner)


 Corner Time


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community




 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions

 Wax play


 Romance Novels

 True Crime



 Alternative Music

 Country Music

 EMO Music

 Punk Rock Music


 Electrical Play

 Housework Service

 Curious About:

 Art Galleries




 Scuba Diving


 Surf Boarding


 Knife Play

 Medical Play

 Outdoor Bondage


 1950s Household



 Opera Music



 Foot Worship

 TV Sports



 Hard Limits:

 Fire Play

 Needle Play

 Female Supremacy



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Journal Entries:
11/21/2010 3:15:50 PM

I desire and need to submit because I want to make the man I'm submitting to happy, proud and turned on. Asking or making a man aware of my desires in a given moment is extremely difficult for a submissive I put myself 2nd to my man. His pleasure comes before mine. So when asking for something I want or need,  I feel as though its selfish. I've pondered this thought and debated as to why I feel like its wrong for me to ask or share something I need. Such as asking or sharing the feeling that I need to be dominated. I've determined that my need to feel that...once again is focused on his pleasure. I'm wanting him to be happy with my desire of his control over me. I'm wanting him to be deeply pleased and feel appreciated that I want HIM to take control over me, guide me, dominate me and use me for his pleasure.

I find it difficult to ask because I feel like I'm being desperate or needy. But this is something I need all the time. I need it as part of my life. Its not something I want on a weekend. Not something I want when we have time. I want him to also need and want to exert his dominance over me at all times. I don't mean inappropriately in vanilla society. I don't mean bdsm every second of the day. I mean we live our lives and Ds is an all the time dynamic. Without this, I feel it is hard to keep the submissive mindset. I think its good in a submissive role to ask or beg for things, yes. But not to ever feel a lack of his desire for control over her. In order to grow and be the best submissive for Him, she has to trust that He is her Dom.

I don't care if he doesn't care. I submit to make him happy. I submit to him to turn him on. I obey for the same reasons. His happiness and his arousal is what happens to me in return. If he is not getting this out of dominating me, then neither am I.

7/25/2010 3:50:54 PM
Lately I have been into writing erotica, if youre interested in reading.....please see the below blog.
If the story is signed by Jae, that's mine;)


4/19/2010 11:10:11 PM
*** (Sorry if this update comes across as bitchy, as I am not trying to come across that way. I am extremely malleable to the one I crave to serve.... But I am tired of getting hurt.) I realize it takes time to make a commitment to someone, especially in a D/s manner as there is so much more involved. But I am not looking to get into a casual relationship, open relationship, or just be a play partner. I am looking for a Dom to be my best friend, lover, partner in life and possibly the father of my children. I am tired of giving my whole self and my gift of submission to those who want nothing from me. I crave and desire to submit to my Dom and do everything for him because he in return gives me his full self, and we together make one because we complete each other.***

I know it takes time to find this, but if youre not looking for a commitment, then please do not contact me and spend time getting to know me and me knowing you if you know you cant or dont want more.

I am nothing but those things:)

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