JUST BE HONEST AND OPEN WITH ME!
i am nothing but those things:)

It is unlikely for me reply to inquiries nor will i contact profiles that share no information about you. i respect professionals and the privacy of those whom are leery of showing their faces, but please be willing to share yourself with me, if you're planning on conversing with me. Please do not contact me if you're looking for "discreet" due to a marriage/vanilla relationship or anything of the sort. i am not looking for mere play or a weekend fuck session. i am real and am looking for something real as well.

i discovered D/s a couple of years ago. i have found it is what i need and can no longer be completely fulfilled in a vanilla relationship. Childhood fantasies (as well as adulthood) and finding out about bdsm and D/s has shown me that this is what i need, and i LOVE AND CRAVE IT.

i want my sexual life/sexuality 100% dominated and controlled. Outside that i also need some direction and guidance, orders and rules. i know i need to be broken. i have realized (perhaps known it, but feared it) that i do need pain. i need and crave to be pushed until i'm exhausted and crying. So i guess i am masochistic, although it's newly coming out into the open. i'm in a personal process of learning to take more pain and to beg for it. i expect and need discipline, so if you're just looking for kink, that is AWESOME but we probably wont be the right match, as i like the formality of D/s. YES i am a normal woman (very silly) that has vanilla loves and needs also, but i need a DOM who understands that i have a submissive side to me that i crave to give. i need a Dom, who takes this lifestyle seriously and is non-judgemental.

i am only happy, fulfilled and satisfied if the Man i'm with is. i like attention to detail. i will definately defy, test and even push His limits, and i hope He loves this, as i am much into forced submission as well. i am highly aroused by being made to do things i don't want (not including hard limits or disrespect) Variety is the spice of life, right? :)

Trust, respect, communication, understanding and patience are key qualities that i need from Him. i expect to be challenged and He should expect challenge from myself. i want to feel as though W/we are both a challenge for each other and keep each other on O/our feet. I AM NOT A DOORMAT, nor would He want me to be.

While i am not bisexual, please note that i prefer to "top" or co-submit with women, should one be involved during play, scening or any other scenario.

Feel free to check out my erotica writing blog, i'd love to hear your thoughts;)

XoxoX
 

Jae

After much consideration and discussion i am now under Overbound. While i am happily obeying Him, i am encouraged to find a Dominant Man who is looking for a long term situation, as Overbound has His life partner HudsyHawn whom i adore. With that said, i continue to be open for opportunities that may arise while under the protection of Him. i am thankful to Him and His for allowing me to be a part of this journey and cherish all moments with T/them. ive learned and grown SO much as an individual and with T/them. Thank You Sir, and sis. XoxoX