ForcefulDutch

Learn by failing, but do not make a habbit of it

There is no relation that has the same depth as owning a slave. 

The trust and responsibility she gives out of hand is heavenly.

I love smart and intelligent females. And respectfull how they limit/adjust it while serving.

Why is a Domme looking for a Dom as partner..is she actually a submissive?

Having your holes filled is not BDSM..it is the result of BDSM

Don't learn about the lifestyle, learn about yourself.

I do not spank..I punish

If you forbid your slave to talk to others..you either do not trust him/her/she/this/that or you are not in control.

People prefer lies that fit them above honesty.

But most will say otherwise.

I answer everyone who contacts me.

But do not message me the same question every month.

Not sure what to think about people who hunt a dream for 10 years.

Do I adore their willpower or is it stupid to waste so much time.

I hope one day the word daddy ( in bdsm) disappears as fast as it appeared

I always think there are groups of profile types

-the artist and writers

-the roleplaying pc nerds that role play the lifestyle

-those beaten and abused in the past..looking or longing for that what they know best

-those who want to show their body off and need attention

-those who need money

-those why damn the world and want to find the only good person alive

Somehow I feel BDSM gets softer and softer (or greyer)...while I get more agressive and violent as an Owner. I am more the S and the M.

The B and the D became baby and daddy

I wonder if these profiles that have already 5 years written"I recently joined. New to the lifestyle" do that on purpose.

Trying to trick horny Masters and Doms.

And those people are probably to proud to admit they are screwed. 

A cunning plan would Baldrick say.

"slave tendencies"

what are those?

Don't think so much of yourself. There is a reason you have to look so long.

If you write journals and wwant peopel to respond...remember your you have message filters on. People might react..but you do not read.

If you are to lazy to update your profile once every 2 years or so, you are probably to lazy to serve or Lead

Yes..the website is old..has no fancy options.

But it is not fair to complain about it when you come back over and over.

....to myself..

A wise man once said ( translated from Chinese);

You better rush, you are not getting any younger.

So people want you to writye a 4 page introduction..with the right to not reply when not interested.

Please salute them with the middle finger

If you feel betrayed or tricked repeatedly on here, dont blame the other.

Ask yourself why you get tricked.

Assholes will always excist, they won't go away.

Change yourself. Stop being tricked.

Nice..finally we can add links in message now. Hopefully that doesnt lead to lots of spam

"serving"

you are a waitress?

Your Master should take care of yourself. It is not called Master(y) for nothing

If your message starts with a word, we might not fit

Worthless slave....intelligent and smart...

Interesting combo. Make yourself less worthless with your intellect

Do the interactions on here change you.

You read such nice cheerful journals and profiles. But when asking about it you regularly get such dull drained answers.

Does dating/talking on here drain so much passion?

Not everyone that says Hi or compliments wants to breed you.

It is ugly to say you are beautiful.

Did you know...that you ger bonus points...

if you add the ones who block you...to the fav list?

It is like airmiles..worthless..but fun

".. to meet like minded people" 

How do we know what is in your mind from just these few words?

" a healthy balance"

If someone says that..what does it actually mean.

It says ..nothing..but also a lott.

Are you looking for a job or a partner?

People talk and demand things in such way I think I am reading a HR paper 

I love the alt.com ads.

Beg for mercy.

But there will be no mercy...

If you constant fail with a relation on here, look at yourself.

Ask yourself why it happens to you all the time.

It is more important than to blame others.

I always wonder how people who suck at interacting or be social...search for a partner

I understand the complaints about cock pics..but please keep in mind that all asses and tits are not wanted either

I always wonder why people tell they traverl and want to meet people at their destination.

Something to hide?

Not to offend anyone..but sometimes the request for having a Daddy..sounds like sex for goods/money...just pure prostitution.

Giving more of the same a new name or name it kink..doesnt change it.

I read in a lot of profiles that people come back to C S "just for friends".

Why did you leave your friends in the first place?

No you can not call yourself MILF.

But we can.

People in BDSM are way more interesting than bdsm itself.

Everyone is searching but no one wants to be found.

Concept Profile text:

I am looking for a partner, but

no

no

no

no

no

no

no.

I might not respond if not interested.

Concept journal:

I feel lonely. No one is real....every one is fake. I leave.

Not interested to train your girlfriend or because your Mastter fails to do so.

Not interested in telling my fantasies

Not interested in talking dirty

I will reply, even when we are not a fit

I always wonder how people are in real life when I message them or get messaged. 

There are lots of nice people that give a decent answer. But some act so weird when asked something simple and decent. 

Is this who they are or is it the safety and anonymity of the web.

I guess they filter themselves out in the end.

A pity. It is already hard enough to find bdsm partners and friends.

Intelligence is shown, not mentioned.

It is interesting slaves call themselves useless and want to be owned.

Why would someone serious want to own something useless.

You are a slave, be useful. Stop with that romantic fantasy bs. 

Don't expect the the other person to start talking.  Be pro active. Nothing to lose.

I just read a journal about someone saying it are mostly the same people still searching..the same face..the same profile texts.

It is kinda true..what does that say about the lifestyle..or its users?

In the past I got interested in Gor. Although it are just SF novels, I liked the concept of unlimited slavery.

I owned a kajira for 6 years.

Sadly the subculture was not my thing. Not many could project the lifestyle on reallife and reality. It started to feel as roleplay.

Still I mis it sometimes.and I hardly see people mentioning it.

If you don't understand someones question or answer, just say it.

It takes energy to make friends or lovers online. People seem to be imptatient.

They want friends to be deliverd with Uber.

Even when it ends in nothing, you had good discussions and hopefully learned something about yourself.

Be patient.

It is good to see so many write journals again. Always good to read others people thoughts and opinion.

And you learn soemthing new weekly.

Spring cleaned my hidden and block list.

It had more people in it than active users of CS.

ps. Must user names seem to start with an S  

Do males have more often pictures in their profile than females?

What it is with everyone being "a brat" ? Is this the new "cute"

I am curious why people who talk about being a slave, select submissive as orientation.

There is a big difference and you might feel mistrested or misunderstood when people contact you.

Everytime I use Google reverse picture search for profiles I end in ,50% of the cases on websites with models.

Funny thing is that those profiles talk about trust and honesty. A great start.

They should make a black list of people who just come here to fart.

"'My dominance is GOD gifted"

bdsm does have humor

Does a "No Drama" life excist?

Or is it just BS to look special.

I don't believe in life with out drama...so I skip the profiles

It seems more people are looking for an online porn fantasy than to be in the lifestyle.

Interesting these slave/sub profiles that have "tell me what you would ...."

Isn't easier to watchporn to cum ?

Isn't it funny that people have lots of "expert" in their interests. But propably not in meeting people as they are here for ages.

There is a difference between being a slave and "liking to be fucked a lot".

The S in BDSM is not sex.

I like to compliment those who ask for humiliation

Do you, as a slave, want to be destroyed, so you can be rebuilt

even new beginnings can have old ends...if you do not learn

Did BDSM got softer..or..I more extreme

If some one said I had x Dommes in x years.

Is that expoerience..or..are they bad in relations

50 shades of gray sound like to much unclear choices or options.

I prefer black and white. A slave doesnt need more. No shades..yes or no.

What is an All American Woman?

Does it mean "disliked in the rest of the world"? 

it sounds kinda "superior" ...blond and blue eyes kinda thing...

Do you have a favorite user that you watch regular..or dream about?

We can't be female or male but we can have sex as Daddy and a little on here.

What a logic. I do not understand the world by times 

If you contact me, please don't ask " tell me about yourself".

Ask focused questions. 

Not want to write a book. 

It is easy to look for a new life on here, but do you know what your present life is?

Priority is breaking. The soul needs to be obedient. The body follows.

A wise man once said..whip the pussy till you cum

Only interested in reality. 

No fantasies, role-play or sessions.

No interviews, keep it natural and flowing. I am not looking for a job.

Keep it to the point. Say what you want or think. No long stories about how your fish died when you were 14.

What is the obsession with being bratty.

You enjoy the pain of punishment?

Have nice Xmas days. Relax and enjoy.

Not sure if I am a Builder or a Destroyer.

I enjoy both..and both are needed

If you have to tie your slave up to dominate her, means she is stronger

I read always this about married people;

-males are cheaters

-females  "my husband knows/allows me to be with others"

which is more worrying?

Refresh your pics people.

you are not 18 anymore...you are 40.

Time is relative.

Weekend days pass so damn fast..week days are turtles

conclusion for this week:

People without profile picture are professionals.

Don't call me Daddy or I wil hang you (which I enjoy)

"no one liners" "one liners are boring"

ok...fine.

But do not send me your whole life in the first mesaage, It is stupid to send a stranger a whole book.

And if you do not recoqnice kindness consisting of a few words...you have the answer to you being single.

I guess you do not say "good morning" at work..because it is to short.

just an opinion..lets drink coffee.

Do you have experience?

mmm 30 years in BDSM

In people?  no..sorry..they are a mystery

A lifestyle sounds like a group effort...but mostly it is just ego.

If you read the profiles here, we almost look vanilla and normal people.

If you ask for punishment, you have never been punished the right way.

The subs are so dominant in their wishes

random profile

So...your profile is approx 2 lines of none content text.

Then you write a page size journal post about the first impression and how importasnt this is in the first message to you.

That makes sense.

Perhaps tell some more about yourself so people can write and interact.

Or stay quiet.

It is such a weakness to call others stupid to make yourself look better in your profile.

Did BDSM become fastfood?

So we call being horny now submission in the bedroom?

some people should have a look here

igotstandardsbro.com/

why is the new journal button in journals...and not in edit journals. ( if i reread this10 times..it makes kinda sense to place it there)

Don;t hide the button....I had to search for it 3 days.

If you read journals and profiles.....it is a mirracle people even find eachother. 

Including myself..we judge...and have all an artificial wish for mr or mrs perfect.

I should keep in mind to be mre reaslistic and open minded

Sometimes it feels like the same 10 people are online.

How many girls would come to you if you scream at a bdsm meeting; "KITTEN comeeeeee hereeeee."

Probably 100 or so.

No profile text...simply because the same people ask the same questions every several months.

If no one reads, there is no need to write.

I read people not wanting anything illegal but do want to be hurt.

Isn't hurting people illegal?

I don't want  punishment look arty farty..I want it to be effective.

it should hurt..and the subject should learn. Not feel pleasure or look nice.

Are you still a slave when you get to much attention and start to use it to get what you want?

Or did you become an influencer..lol

Dear website,

Stop changing gender identity in my search

Finding a relation is not posting a profile like a Cv or asking questions like on a job interview. Stay casual.

"Strong woman in my daily life, sub/slave in the weekend"

Don't you know you have to be strong to submit?

reading profiles..you learn how many perfect people there are on here.

It is weird they have to search  long for a partner.

"I will try, Sir"

I do not want to hear "try". You do,,and you succeed.

If you smile when they choke you, you sre chocked the wrong wsy.

How can people write in their profile when they complain their password is not working?

I like to get to know people first online.

The reason is simple.

People act like assholes online. They know they are safe behind their screen.

But if people act like assholes online, I do not want to meet them in real life.

Because that online asshole is hidden in that same person. No excuses.

length seems to differ hugely from continent to continent.

Most European Masters can have their import slave stand erect to do a blowjob.. No need to kneel for the slave.. 

Perfect

Perhaps it is bad luck/coincidence..but today I saw a lot of profiles talking about their deceased husbands.

Doesn't set the mood, it is pretty sad.

Mm weekend juststarted and is already almost over.

Who made weekends only 2 days. He or she wasn't really smart.

It is funny how people blame others for eveything that goes wrong on here with them.

It is good to be a bit critical about yourself, your profile and how you interact.

The online world is safe if you want to act like an asshole, but if you want a serious relation you might want to rethink that behaviour.

I am not here for job interviews. Please be yourself and to the point.

Most people do not understand the T in TPE.

to find yourself, you first have to lose yourself

As the famous Beavis said; I need TPE for my bunghole.

Never knew he was kinky

Perhaps I am an old fashioned Master.

But a slave should find pleasure in serving her Owner, not in fulfilling her bucketlist of wishes and demands.

Interesting nonetheless 

If people act as weird as they do online, life would be harsh.

Oh.. wait 

Is submission with a lot of one-sided rules/limits submission..or a horny dream?

It seems to many BDSm is just a topic to talk about or to cum on. Nothing wrong with it.

Just be honest.

I know many see this as a dating/fuck website.

I see this as a community.

Therefor I lenjoy the messages wich contain a simple Hello. It is kind of people to show interest or just showing basic kindness.It can make a shitty day feel better.

Did they lower the standards to join the club?

Are you in BDSm now when you just like cocks or tits?

guess time changes all...but not the meaning of BDSM

I wonder why people write line after line to describe how people should contact them. (They are very very special)

But forget to tell why they would be worth the trouble to do so. Zero info about themselves.  Would that fit narcistic behaviour?

This is such interesting place. Love it

"must have a job"

You can read this in several ways

I love people's journals and their rants.

But lets be honest..if you show your half naked body, don't expect people to talk about your brains.

"6/26/2023 3:07:55 AM: Doesnt seem like anyone real left on here."

I always wonder why peopel think they are the only real ones. Different opions make you unreal people..stop it!!!

Don't expect some kind of bond or relation in 3 messages

Young flesh is nice but the mindset is often disappointing 

Using the World Wide Web to find locals..isn't it funny

If you think you can plan your time as slave, change yourself to sub.

"I am kinky"

Compared to who?

Did BDSM became kinky sex dates instead of a LifeStyle?

I am not a Daddy...I do not buy submission 

I know this is a free world, but i see no reason to be in my admirers list if you do not even say hi or return a hello.

There are better people to admire, for example those you talk to.

It is funny how some people just want hear their sexual fantasy from others.

If it doesnt fit...it means blocking. 

Why not say what you want...eassier than "act".

I am not here to satisfy others peopel needs,,especially not slaves.

And please, just say what you want. I do not need diplomacy....keep it short and to the point.

Why do so many make pictures in a bathroom? Is it to show they are potty trained?

People like to ask, not to answer

If you use a male profile, but you say you are are female. Please do not contact me. 

I do not trust it. Just make a good profile and retry.

Online we are all better then the others...superior. It makess us pickie..unrealistic. We do not judge people on who they are..but we judge them on saying "hello" instead of writing their whole life in the first post.

I guess we will be searching for a long time.

submissive in the bedroom...isn't that being horny ( not a bd thing)

so what would be your nickname if you ever would rejoin?;

fister_of_mankind

suckrobot

cuntdestroyer

daddy_cream_hole

clit_juicer

or just the nonsense we use now?

I never undertood the combination of underwear and high heels

Why do people keep searching for the same type of partner when their relations fail over and over?

The online world has weird rules.

People hardly look at eachother or say something in the real world.

But online "hi/hello"and "how are you" are seen as no go.

I guess anonymous we are are more elite.

Yeah I am local too

When people mention Fine Dining as a like. Does that mean you have to pay them dinner before we can fuck?

Just wondering. I am new here. :D

Do you remember when you discovered CS (or CM).

Plowing through all the people who were not who they said the were.

Untill you met that 1 person. ..who turned your world upside down.

I love that feeling. That constant excitement.

It is not about trying things, it is about experiencing them.

The bad thing about an community is people.

Gladly the good thing about a community is people also.

Once in a while you meet the most interesting people/person to talk to.

Just be patient. They exist. Just give them space and do not judge.

Do you expect better values from those that lead?

You are often disappointed..not?

Most people are not who they describe in their profile. 

I wonder why.

Spanking always sound like favour to me, never like a punishment.

I do not spank.

I did some research the last 10 years.

\BDSM kills the humor in people.

How often do you select the wrong people on here?

Life is only complete with a slave and coffee

the more rules you set before you look for a relation, the less you will succeed in finding one

If 10 people contact you on here, just 1 seems to be who they claim to be,

Is that a human trait or is this because BDSM related.

I often read about people saying "vanilla life" didn't work out. But then they look for ages for a partner in BDSM.

Does that mean a certain lifestyle is to blame or are we as persons to blame? 

24/7 is in hours/days.

It is not seconds people.

Did you ever choose some one on here because they are just "highly educated"?

Some people focus a lot on experience in bdsm. It can be handy in some cases. 

But is also means often you repeated the same stuff over and over to get this experience.

I personnaly prefer to discover new things in which I do not have experience 

You do not need to like me. I do not look for friends, I search slaves

No..I do not marry you after 2 days.

I won't ask twice 

It is good to talk to people. You learn that most are more then their profile text.

Sometimes that is good, sometimes not.

If you want to talk, you are more then welcome. But I am not gonna tell you what "I would do to you".

Go watch porn if you have that need.

Why do so many after a few talks want to fly across the world to meet?

Patience. It is not a little step.

Everyone wants a strong leader, aslong (s)he does what his/her subordinates want.

I wonder about those asking for punishment. I can understand a masochist to ask for pain...but punishment is something different. Punishment is not meant to please. It is a way to correct.

Punishment means you will suffer..mentally or physically. There will be no fun or excitement. 

6-feb 2023

invasion of the young slave girls

real or fake

What I like about BDSm is that some like a slap on the ass, while others need to feel the fist full on their body.

We can have opinions about this, but it stays interesting how we experience lust/needs.

I often long back to the times this was a real community. 

The time when people could communicate about feelings and topics related to your  discovery of bdsm.

Sadly no one has time and this became a dating site.

In the end..community or not .people are people.... it is all about ourselves. 

time for summer to start...some nice outdoor porny abuse is needed

peopel have crazy demands for a partner. No wonder we ned 20 years to fidn one

Building a relation takes time. If you have no time, you probably want to fuck.

That is ok. Just say so..be honost.

I wil be honost too.

LOL at all the new pornstar-alike profiles

I always wonder why peopel are searching such a long time for a partner on here.

Is it the bdsm that makes it difficult to find mr/mrs right.

Or do we over estimate ourselfs. We like to write in our profiles how good, educated and special we are. But are we?

for those who read journals..happy x-mas days and a good new year

for those who read journals..happy x-mas days and a good new year

..and remember..masturbate for world peace on christmas 

With anyone hardly updating their profile, everyone must be 60 by now.

Don't get fooled by profiles with the age of 30.. 

"....need to have toys"

so..you want to have toys inside you..used on 100 other people..

Interesting wish.

To each their own.

People always mention, as a like, they like a good book.

Why would any one read a bad book?

If you mention "no drama" you probably are not looking for a relation.

Are we always looking for a better person then we deserve?

Your chastity is not your punishment, it is mine. 

I am surprised that people write things in their profile, but can not explain it.

If you want slavery to be  "classy" at least know for yourself what that means. 

It all starts with understanding eachother., But if you don't understand yourself it kinda is useless. 

Funny how this is called a lifestyle, but no one seems to agree on how to live it.

( and that is even a good thing)

"I am not looking, I am just here 24/7"

Why do you seek here, if you are not sure about what you seek?

If you remove all the profiles you dont like, that don't fit or you just dislike.

How many will be left over..perhaps 1 or 2.

And also that..is pretty unrealistic....selecting people just from words..isn't it?

When I started in bdsm many light years ago, I loved the "under protection of..." text on a girls  profile 

But now thinking back..I have to laugh. How can I protect some one online. 

Guess romance s reality quit a bit.

When people say "No online".

But they are searching online for ages.

Does that mean no one wants them in real life?

The online world killed interaction and communication.

People say something but are not communicating.

People are hearing but not listening.

There is no will to put energie in a friendship or relation.

It made people dull and emotionless.

I am always curious how people meet after being here on CS.

It is so important to express who you are and what you need else you might get more than wished for.

It is confusing ( to me) when people say I am a sub slave. Or saying I am submissive or kajira.

Sub, slave and kajira or 3 different things to me. To someone else they could be all the same.

The risk is that if you introduce yourself as kajira (a Gorean slave) you will meet other behavior from me than when you say Submissive.

We never read about this stuff. But it is so interesting. 

Are mail filters helping or are you still searching

Does experience enhace assholisme

Catagories Master,slave, Dom, sub...don't say much.  They are like cities, but you still have the districts, the neigborhouds, the streets..and the houses.

The human behind a slave or sub goes way deeper than the title. But after a few years in BDSm you know that..and it is still full of supprises..as you meet different people over and over. I guess that is why experience doesn't always say much. Yes skills can be interesting for a whip or shibari....but for the person behind it "experience" everytime starts over and over. (even with the same person after several years).

Does experience mean, you fuck around a lot?

Do not complain, serve. 

A person should be really special if you want to micromanage them 24/7.

It is eassier said then done.  Especially when thinking with a hard cock or wet cunt.

If you want to be shared with others, go find the others.

Being a 24/7 slave is not easy. Far from it. A bitching Master with high demands...changing thoughts and ideas. You have to swallow it ( and other things). You have to follow or else you might get punished.

If you request total slavery...think about what you ask. Do not complain about pressure or no time..or "right now, doesn't fit".  Think about what you promisse and wrote.

Do not disappoint yoruself and your partner. And if soemthing wrong..communicate. We can not read minds ( we have other skills).

There is a difference in saying what you are and being what you are.

Lots of new profiles with pictures of famous people.

Google reversed picture search is your friend.

People seem to understand everyone and the world, but can not talk about themselves 

I wonder what makes this place so magical.

People complain they have been here before, but the assholes and stupids made them go away.

Yet they come back.  

I guess peole are assholes in general..we are just the better assholes.

Are you really your nickname? Or is it what you want or try to be.

It is important to understand why you are not taken.

If peoiple say they are smart or beautiful.

Does that make them attractive or do you want to walk away?

It seems in the online world friendliness is more exotic then extreme sexual perversity

Did the covid years make people even more a-hole-ish?

" I do not expect anything from this place" 

Then why spend your precious time on here. Just wondering.

Because it says more about you then the " place" 

do you fall for the same type over and over? pretty stupid not

Somehow pictures with a great smile make my day better.

KInda weird..as I do like tears.

decency doesn't exist online..because hidden we are superior

I love profiles that say..this and that go into the bulk folder.

Especialy when they are are looking for 100 years now  :D

Seems the filter works.

But then again..respect for their patience.

saydates - dating for the modern world.

I guess it was in 1900. 

A slave should never long for punishment.

Punishment is something you get when you fail. And your purpose is to please, not to fail.

If you mean you like pain...say so. 

I guess I have to focus on tattoos. Porn stars are full of them.

You join a community to feel at home, to discover the judgement is even bigger inside.

Any one that has hai fever as a fetish or kink?

Vanilla people are sometimes more loyal and kinkier than the kink people.

Don't only look in the lifestyle for partners..you might be disappointed later..if you didn't fish in the big ocean.

(not) Funny how some Doms show their young subs naked on here, but do not show their own face.

How responsible.

you are not a slave when you do sessions

I don't own and control a slave with equipment and toys.

I use my mind, hands and sometimes my belt.

Does your taste for music reflect in the way you do BDSM?

Dear CS,

can I have a filter that selects profiles that are Pro, True and Real?

And one for smiling people. 

How do you maintain a relation when you can not maintain communication

I don't block people. They just do not deserve the attention

reminder for myself:  spell check

Don't trust people on words, but on deeds

why does time go so fast lately

Please update your profiles.

Unexperienced for 20 years ...is uhmm..hopeless. GIve up if you can not learn.

Being 20 for 6 years in a row...nice..but no

I don't like profiles that read liek a CV or a superhero description

I like broken toys

Do you think people in the lifestyle are nicer or worse than vanilla people? 

I think they feel better and special..making them worse..

The reader will experience you different from what you have written in your profile.

so many methods to communicate, so few that can communicate

finished your chocolate eggs?

yes..nice butt..but actually I want your soul

I like females in dresses and skirts.

Please do not contact me if you can not maintain a friendship or communication.

Don't trust words like real, good and true.

People who are, can show it.

we often promise more then we can deliver

You can write what ever you want in your profile. If the other think differently about you, it doesn't matter

Females can you keep your cocks in your pants on the pictures.

As a slave your porfile can be full of wishes and fantasies. But be aware....read about what slaves are.

Once collared, all your lists do not count. You serve. No discussions..you serve..or get punished.

Perhaps you are a sub ..that is ok. But do not take the title slave lightly

Are you special, because others are less?

I have to laugh always when people have in their profile " If I do not answer we do not fit ".

20 years later, they are still searching on here.

Time for some self evaluation and adjusting.

Natural submissive or Dominant...what does that mean.

Do you suck random people in the supermarket..or whip them?

It is interesting how people use the word " real", but can not answer if they are " real" themselves.

So you are very young slave and want to be locked up in a cellar for the rest of your live.

Did you ever read your own profile?

If you enjoy punishment, you never have been punished.

We are so special....that no one fits as a good partner.

So we keep searching

and searching

and searching

days

years

sucks so much that no one is as special.

Slave or Master...you should communicate and be proactive to eachother.

I am not supprised communication is missing in many lists

I come here to often.

I can predict which picture belongs to which name.

Because I do not send you dick pics, doesn't mean I am a female pretending to be a dude.

Cleaner my block and hidden list 

Didn't know CS had so many members.

BDSM must be a dream for shrinks.

Daddies and adult baby girls...fat females who call themselves pigs and worthless.

There is space for every one.

I hope someday we can read the stories behind the fetish.

I wonder why dommes show more nudity then slaves or subs.

Must be because it is part of their job.

Are you afraid of what you might find?

so many peopel online on saterday evening...horny or lonely?

covid and bdsm are not good partners

So..how different is this fresh new year till now?

 it took only 2 hours to get my new profiel text approved ...thank you CS

have a good new year A/all

It seems the narcists are searching for ever.

All people are beautiful in one way or an other. If I do not see it, some one else will.

no 50 shades please. I prefer black and white with the glow of deep red fire.

perv is like beauty..it is in the eye of the beholder

I see a lot of slaves calling themselves slut.

That is fine..but being a slave takes way more.

happy holidays to the kind people

BDSM people are so elite, they can not even respond to a compliment.

it seems in bdsm no one agrees how to do bdsm

who learns better...the new or the experienced?

I always reply. It might be short, but I refuse to be an online asshole who can not answer people who try to contact you in a decent way.

It is after all a community...not a shades of grey dating site.

Fine dining before or after anal?

How much are we really of our profile

Lot of girls from eastern europe..that are single with kids.

Have seen that before in the past.

The word "real" is used mostly to look better then others.

Instead of working hard to be better yourself, you blame others for being less. Interesting how that works.

Funny how people think a conversation is a one way action.

Then when you do not talk anymore..ask if you are not interested anymore.

after I saw your tits, I emmediately thought about ' fine dinning" 

only the people you agree with are real

" just looking for friends" 

shows pictures of tits, spread cunt and toys.

Just liek we did at school when we looked for friends

Remember...intelligent people do not need to mention they are intelligent.

They mean they practice narcissism.

if you describe yourself as perfect, you will sooner fail and disappoint

profiles

for those that mix up slave and sub all the time and contact me

sub> you can have a whole list of wishes and don'ts

slave>>> your list should be very very short, close to non existent

kajira>>>>>throw your list away...

A Master is a dominant.

A dominant is not always a Master.

"by day I am a professional"

by night batman?

you can read in the profile that someone is here for attention or to really serve

I really wonder if peopel understand what they ask or look for.

I know fantasies make your cock hard and cunt wet...but torture and being locked up 24/7 for the rest of your life..is crazy

Funny how times change.

In the past people showed their face on here..and it took months before you saw a breast.

Now people show their toy filled asses, their pierced tits en spread cunts....and it takes ages to see a face

To not ruin my lovely compact profile text....I put some things here;

-I prefer those who are born female. 

-I am not looking..I prefer to meet..to discover...to have friends or just capture a slave.

-Not interested in littles and those who look for a daddy. It is not my thing.

-If an animal has been inside you, please move along.

-If you are here to roleplay..I am not the one to talk too.

-If you want to talk about opinions/views etc..that is fine. I reply

-If you have a question..just shoot

-If you are so special, you wouldn't be looking online for a partner ( and not for all those years)

-Netherlands is the country, Amsterdam is just a city. And the Dutch live in the Netherlands...not in Germany

Wow they are back. The best way to learn about people instead of reading their fantasy profiles about how good and special they are.