just reading and enjoying coffee. In the life style since I was 20. Experience? If time is experience yes. But people change and that what makes it fun. Forget your is useless. I will erase it.
4/15/2024 9:40:56 AM

Don't expect the the other person to start talking.  Be pro active. Nothing to lose.

4/14/2024 5:04:57 AM

I just read a journal about someone saying it are mostly the same people still searching..the same face..the same profile texts.

It is kinda true..what does that say about the lifestyle..or its users?

4/13/2024 11:36:24 PM

In the past I got interested in Gor. Although it are just SF novels, I liked the concept of unlimited slavery.

I owned a kajira for 6 years.

Sadly the subculture was not my thing. Not many could project the lifestyle on reallife and reality. It started to feel as roleplay.


Still I mis it sometimes.and I hardly see people mentioning it.

4/13/2024 2:52:13 PM

If you don't understand someones question or answer, just say it.

It takes energy to make friends or lovers online. People seem to be imptatient.

They want friends to be deliverd with Uber.

Even when it ends in nothing, you had good discussions and hopefully learned something about yourself.

Be patient.


4/13/2024 2:44:05 PM

It is good to see so many write journals again. Always good to read others people thoughts and opinion.

And you learn soemthing new weekly.

4/13/2024 7:38:01 AM

Spring cleaned my hidden and block list.

It had more people in it than active users of CS.


ps. Must user names seem to start with an S  

4/13/2024 4:16:22 AM

Do males have more often pictures in their profile than females?


4/13/2024 4:08:45 AM

What it is with everyone being "a brat" ? Is this the new "cute"

4/10/2024 11:32:53 PM

I am curious why people who talk about being a slave, select submissive as orientation.

There is a big difference and you might feel mistrested or misunderstood when people contact you.

4/6/2024 10:10:58 PM

Everytime I use Google reverse picture search for profiles I end in ,50% of the cases on websites with models.

Funny thing is that those profiles talk about trust and honesty. A great start.

3/24/2024 4:50:17 AM

They should make a black list of people who just come here to fart.

3/23/2024 2:38:36 PM

"'My dominance is GOD gifted"

bdsm does have humor

3/22/2024 10:59:37 AM

Does a "No Drama" life excist?

Or is it just BS to look special.


I don't believe in life with out I skip the profiles



3/11/2024 12:35:05 PM

It seems more people are looking for an online porn fantasy than to be in the lifestyle.

3/10/2024 12:31:52 AM

Interesting these slave/sub profiles that have "tell me what you would ...."

Isn't easier to watchporn to cum ?

3/8/2024 12:22:00 PM

Isn't it funny that people have lots of "expert" in their interests. But propably not in meeting people as they are here for ages.

3/3/2024 12:45:09 AM

There is a difference between being a slave and "liking to be fucked a lot".

The S in BDSM is not sex.

2/24/2024 9:54:41 AM

I like to compliment those who ask for humiliation

2/22/2024 11:36:00 AM

Do you, as a slave, want to be destroyed, so you can be rebuilt

2/21/2024 1:42:41 PM

even new beginnings can have old ends...if you do not learn

2/20/2024 11:59:37 AM

Did BDSM got softer..or..I more extreme

2/17/2024 9:26:12 AM

If some one said I had x Dommes in x years.

Is that expoerience..or..are they bad in relations

2/16/2024 1:18:42 PM

50 shades of gray sound like to much unclear choices or options.

I prefer black and white. A slave doesnt need more. No shades..yes or no.

2/15/2024 1:42:41 PM

What is an All American Woman?

Does it mean "disliked in the rest of the world"? 

it sounds kinda "superior" ...blond and blue eyes kinda thing...

2/15/2024 12:27:36 PM

Do you have a favorite user that you watch regular..or dream about?

1/16/2024 2:09:49 PM

We can't be female or male but we can have sex as Daddy and a little on here.

What a logic. I do not understand the world by times 

1/16/2024 2:05:33 PM

If you contact me, please don't ask " tell me about yourself".

Ask focused questions. 

Not want to write a book. 

1/14/2024 3:03:33 AM

It is easy to look for a new life on here, but do you know what your present life is?

1/13/2024 7:15:53 AM

Priority is breaking. The soul needs to be obedient. The body follows.

1/11/2024 10:09:05 AM

A wise man once said..whip the pussy till you cum

1/9/2024 1:35:10 PM

Only interested in reality. 


No fantasies, role-play or sessions.

No interviews, keep it natural and flowing. I am not looking for a job.


Keep it to the point. Say what you want or think. No long stories about how your fish died when you were 14.

12/29/2023 4:32:23 AM

What is the obsession with being bratty.

You enjoy the pain of punishment?

12/25/2023 12:32:27 AM

Have nice Xmas days. Relax and enjoy.

12/21/2023 7:53:24 AM

Not sure if I am a Builder or a Destroyer.

I enjoy both..and both are needed

12/18/2023 9:45:52 AM

If you have to tie your slave up to dominate her, means she is stronger

12/17/2023 7:16:37 AM

I read always this about married people;


-males are cheaters

-females  "my husband knows/allows me to be with others"



which is more worrying?

12/9/2023 2:11:57 PM

Refresh your pics people.

you are not 18 are 40.

12/9/2023 2:10:16 PM

Time is relative.

Weekend days pass so damn fast..week days are turtles

12/3/2023 8:34:24 AM

conclusion for this week:


People without profile picture are professionals.

12/2/2023 8:38:42 AM

Don't call me Daddy or I wil hang you (which I enjoy)

12/2/2023 4:22:54 AM

"no one liners" "one liners are boring"



But do not send me your whole life in the first mesaage, It is stupid to send a stranger a whole book.

And if you do not recoqnice kindness consisting of a few have the answer to you being single.

I guess you do not say "good morning" at work..because it is to short.


just an opinion..lets drink coffee.




11/25/2023 1:42:41 PM

Do you have experience?

mmm 30 years in BDSM


In people?  no..sorry..they are a mystery

11/23/2023 1:38:00 AM

A lifestyle sounds like a group effort...but mostly it is just ego.

11/19/2023 6:27:27 AM

If you read the profiles here, we almost look vanilla and normal people.

11/16/2023 6:07:19 AM

If you ask for punishment, you have never been punished the right way.

11/8/2023 3:42:35 AM

The subs are so dominant in their wishes

11/6/2023 6:12:15 AM

random profile


So...your profile is approx 2 lines of none content text.

Then you write a page size journal post about the first impression and how importasnt this is in the first message to you.

That makes sense.

Perhaps tell some more about yourself so people can write and interact.


Or stay quiet.


10/31/2023 1:01:06 PM

It is such a weakness to call others stupid to make yourself look better in your profile.

10/29/2023 7:31:37 AM

Did BDSM become fastfood?

10/27/2023 10:46:28 AM

So we call being horny now submission in the bedroom?

10/22/2023 9:26:29 AM

some people should have a look here

10/14/2023 11:35:53 AM

why is the new journal button in journals...and not in edit journals. ( if i reread this10 makes kinda sense to place it there)

Don;t hide the button....I had to search for it 3 days.

10/14/2023 11:34:45 AM

If you read journals and is a mirracle people even find eachother. 

Including myself..we judge...and have all an artificial wish for mr or mrs perfect.

I should keep in mind to be mre reaslistic and open minded

9/8/2023 10:41:43 PM

Sometimes it feels like the same 10 people are online.

8/24/2023 8:19:43 AM

How many girls would come to you if you scream at a bdsm meeting; "KITTEN comeeeeee hereeeee."

Probably 100 or so.

8/23/2023 6:57:29 AM

No profile text...simply because the same people ask the same questions every several months.

If no one reads, there is no need to write.

8/23/2023 4:13:04 AM

I read people not wanting anything illegal but do want to be hurt.

Isn't hurting people illegal?

8/20/2023 6:05:40 AM

I don't want  punishment look arty farty..I want it to be effective.

it should hurt..and the subject should learn. Not feel pleasure or look nice.

8/20/2023 1:16:32 AM

Are you still a slave when you get to much attention and start to use it to get what you want?

Or did you become an

8/20/2023 1:09:11 AM

Dear website,


Stop changing gender identity in my search

8/19/2023 7:25:35 AM

Finding a relation is not posting a profile like a Cv or asking questions like on a job interview. Stay casual.

8/19/2023 5:19:01 AM

"Strong woman in my daily life, sub/slave in the weekend"


Don't you know you have to be strong to submit?

8/13/2023 5:09:59 AM

reading learn how many perfect people there are on here.

It is weird they have to search  long for a partner.

8/12/2023 5:14:42 AM

"I will try, Sir"


I do not want to hear "try". You do,,and you succeed.

8/11/2023 4:34:23 AM

If you smile when they choke you, you sre chocked the wrong wsy.

8/10/2023 10:38:35 AM

How can people write in their profile when they complain their password is not working?

8/5/2023 4:38:04 AM

I like to get to know people first online.

The reason is simple.

People act like assholes online. They know they are safe behind their screen.

But if people act like assholes online, I do not want to meet them in real life.

Because that online asshole is hidden in that same person. No excuses.

8/2/2023 1:04:52 PM

length seems to differ hugely from continent to continent.

Most European Masters can have their import slave stand erect to do a blowjob.. No need to kneel for the slave.. 



7/31/2023 12:19:06 PM

Perhaps it is bad luck/coincidence..but today I saw a lot of profiles talking about their deceased husbands.

Doesn't set the mood, it is pretty sad.

7/30/2023 12:40:52 AM

Mm weekend juststarted and is already almost over.

Who made weekends only 2 days. He or she wasn't really smart.

7/30/2023 12:15:21 AM

It is funny how people blame others for eveything that goes wrong on here with them.

It is good to be a bit critical about yourself, your profile and how you interact.

The online world is safe if you want to act like an asshole, but if you want a serious relation you might want to rethink that behaviour.

7/29/2023 7:59:41 AM

I am not here for job interviews. Please be yourself and to the point.

7/28/2023 11:21:58 PM

Most people do not understand the T in TPE.

7/26/2023 11:29:24 AM

to find yourself, you first have to lose yourself

7/18/2023 11:04:56 AM

As the famous Beavis said; I need TPE for my bunghole.

Never knew he was kinky

7/16/2023 3:56:49 AM

Perhaps I am an old fashioned Master.

But a slave should find pleasure in serving her Owner, not in fulfilling her bucketlist of wishes and demands.


Interesting nonetheless 

7/16/2023 1:46:16 AM

If people act as weird as they do online, life would be harsh.


Oh.. wait 

7/15/2023 9:18:22 AM

Is submission with a lot of one-sided rules/limits submission..or a horny dream?

7/14/2023 11:09:16 AM

It seems to many BDSm is just a topic to talk about or to cum on. Nothing wrong with it.

Just be honest.

7/13/2023 11:40:15 AM

I know many see this as a dating/fuck website.

I see this as a community.

Therefor I lenjoy the messages wich contain a simple Hello. It is kind of people to show interest or just showing basic kindness.It can make a shitty day feel better.



7/11/2023 12:57:45 PM

Did they lower the standards to join the club?

Are you in BDSm now when you just like cocks or tits?


guess time changes all...but not the meaning of BDSM

7/8/2023 11:48:41 PM

I wonder why people write line after line to describe how people should contact them. (They are very very special)

But forget to tell why they would be worth the trouble to do so. Zero info about themselves.  Would that fit narcistic behaviour?


This is such interesting place. Love it

7/1/2023 7:39:11 AM

"must have a job"

You can read this in several ways



6/30/2023 11:18:10 AM

I love people's journals and their rants.

But lets be honest..if you show your half naked body, don't expect people to talk about your brains.

6/26/2023 9:58:50 AM

"6/26/2023 3:07:55 AM: Doesnt seem like anyone real left on here."

I always wonder why peopel think they are the only real ones. Different opions make you unreal people..stop it!!!

6/25/2023 3:37:23 AM

Don't expect some kind of bond or relation in 3 messages

6/24/2023 9:42:30 AM

Young flesh is nice but the mindset is often disappointing 

6/19/2023 11:05:43 AM

Using the World Wide Web to find locals..isn't it funny

6/10/2023 5:47:55 AM

If you think you can plan your time as slave, change yourself to sub.

6/3/2023 3:34:05 AM

"I am kinky"


Compared to who?

5/29/2023 3:43:29 AM

Did BDSM became kinky sex dates instead of a LifeStyle?

5/28/2023 5:54:34 AM

I am not a Daddy...I do not buy submission 

5/27/2023 11:38:39 AM

I know this is a free world, but i see no reason to be in my admirers list if you do not even say hi or return a hello.

There are better people to admire, for example those you talk to.


5/27/2023 5:04:57 AM

It is funny how some people just want hear their sexual fantasy from others.

If it doesnt means blocking. 

Why not say what you want...eassier than "act".



I am not here to satisfy others peopel needs,,especially not slaves.

And please, just say what you want. I do not need diplomacy....keep it short and to the point.

5/13/2023 6:29:38 AM

Why do so many make pictures in a bathroom? Is it to show they are potty trained?

5/7/2023 10:41:33 AM

People like to ask, not to answer

5/7/2023 7:42:20 AM

If you use a male profile, but you say you are are female. Please do not contact me. 

I do not trust it. Just make a good profile and retry.

5/7/2023 1:07:54 AM

Online we are all better then the others...superior. It makess us pickie..unrealistic. We do not judge people on who they are..but we judge them on saying "hello" instead of writing their whole life in the first post.

I guess we will be searching for a long time.


5/6/2023 11:11:16 AM

submissive in the bedroom...isn't that being horny ( not a bd thing)

5/6/2023 6:16:45 AM

so what would be your nickname if you ever would rejoin?;






or just the nonsense we use now?

5/2/2023 10:05:57 AM

I never undertood the combination of underwear and high heels

4/28/2023 11:27:15 AM

Why do people keep searching for the same type of partner when their relations fail over and over?

4/16/2023 3:30:49 AM

The online world has weird rules.

People hardly look at eachother or say something in the real world.

But online "hi/hello"and "how are you" are seen as no go.


I guess anonymous we are are more elite.

4/15/2023 1:34:56 PM

Yeah I am local too

4/11/2023 1:26:06 PM

When people mention Fine Dining as a like. Does that mean you have to pay them dinner before we can fuck?

Just wondering. I am new here. :D

4/10/2023 1:43:29 AM

Do you remember when you discovered CS (or CM).

Plowing through all the people who were not who they said the were.

Untill you met that 1 person. ..who turned your world upside down.

I love that feeling. That constant excitement.

4/9/2023 10:10:50 AM

It is not about trying things, it is about experiencing them.

4/9/2023 8:07:56 AM

The bad thing about an community is people.

Gladly the good thing about a community is people also.


Once in a while you meet the most interesting people/person to talk to.

Just be patient. They exist. Just give them space and do not judge.

4/9/2023 6:33:11 AM

Do you expect better values from those that lead?

You are often disappointed..not?

4/7/2023 1:50:41 PM

Most people are not who they describe in their profile. 

I wonder why.


4/7/2023 10:27:40 AM

Spanking always sound like favour to me, never like a punishment.

I do not spank.

4/6/2023 10:57:21 AM

I did some research the last 10 years.

\BDSM kills the humor in people.

4/4/2023 1:21:42 PM

How often do you select the wrong people on here?

3/29/2023 11:05:13 AM

Life is only complete with a slave and coffee

3/19/2023 9:36:05 AM

the more rules you set before you look for a relation, the less you will succeed in finding one

3/18/2023 5:37:43 AM

If 10 people contact you on here, just 1 seems to be who they claim to be,

Is that a human trait or is this because BDSM related.

3/15/2023 10:30:20 PM

I often read about people saying "vanilla life" didn't work out. But then they look for ages for a partner in BDSM.

Does that mean a certain lifestyle is to blame or are we as persons to blame? 

3/13/2023 1:10:58 PM

24/7 is in hours/days.

It is not seconds people.

3/11/2023 11:38:41 PM

Did you ever choose some one on here because they are just "highly educated"?

3/11/2023 11:24:38 PM

Some people focus a lot on experience in bdsm. It can be handy in some cases. 

But is also means often you repeated the same stuff over and over to get this experience.

I personnaly prefer to discover new things in which I do not have experience 

3/11/2023 12:55:53 PM

You do not need to like me. I do not look for friends, I search slaves

3/4/2023 4:39:06 AM

No..I do not marry you after 2 days.

2/24/2023 1:12:53 PM

I won't ask twice 

2/18/2023 12:21:18 PM

It is good to talk to people. You learn that most are more then their profile text.

Sometimes that is good, sometimes not.

2/16/2023 12:51:11 PM

If you want to talk, you are more then welcome. But I am not gonna tell you what "I would do to you".

Go watch porn if you have that need.

2/12/2023 9:26:11 AM

Why do so many after a few talks want to fly across the world to meet?

Patience. It is not a little step.

2/12/2023 5:10:51 AM

Everyone wants a strong leader, aslong (s)he does what his/her subordinates want.

2/9/2023 9:02:06 AM

I wonder about those asking for punishment. I can understand a masochist to ask for pain...but punishment is something different. Punishment is not meant to please. It is a way to correct.

Punishment means you will suffer..mentally or physically. There will be no fun or excitement. 


2/6/2023 11:54:55 AM

6-feb 2023

invasion of the young slave girls


real or fake

2/6/2023 11:54:26 AM

What I like about BDSm is that some like a slap on the ass, while others need to feel the fist full on their body.

We can have opinions about this, but it stays interesting how we experience lust/needs.

2/5/2023 12:15:37 AM

I often long back to the times this was a real community. 

The time when people could communicate about feelings and topics related to your  discovery of bdsm.

Sadly no one has time and this became a dating site.

In the or not .people are people.... it is all about ourselves. 

2/1/2023 11:52:36 AM

time for summer to start...some nice outdoor porny abuse is needed

1/29/2023 8:59:07 AM

peopel have crazy demands for a partner. No wonder we ned 20 years to fidn one

1/21/2023 4:41:58 AM

Building a relation takes time. If you have no time, you probably want to fuck.

That is ok. Just say honost.

I wil be honost too.

1/15/2023 4:50:58 AM

LOL at all the new pornstar-alike profiles

1/7/2023 6:43:05 AM

I always wonder why peopel are searching such a long time for a partner on here.

Is it the bdsm that makes it difficult to find mr/mrs right.

Or do we over estimate ourselfs. We like to write in our profiles how good, educated and special we are. But are we?

12/23/2022 12:37:39 PM

for those who read journals..happy x-mas days and a good new year

12/23/2022 12:37:28 PM

for those who read journals..happy x-mas days and a good new year

12/21/2022 8:12:46 AM

..and remember..masturbate for world peace on christmas 

12/21/2022 7:59:35 AM

With anyone hardly updating their profile, everyone must be 60 by now.

Don't get fooled by profiles with the age of 30.. {#emotions_dlg.laughing}

12/18/2022 7:13:23 AM

"....need to have toys" want to have toys inside you..used on 100 other people..

Interesting wish.

12/18/2022 12:45:58 AM

To each their own.

12/17/2022 11:11:19 AM

People always mention, as a like, they like a good book.

Why would any one read a bad book?

12/15/2022 7:34:32 AM

If you mention "no drama" you probably are not looking for a relation.

12/13/2022 11:24:23 AM

Are we always looking for a better person then we deserve?

12/11/2022 1:05:50 AM

Your chastity is not your punishment, it is mine. 

12/11/2022 12:05:59 AM

I am surprised that people write things in their profile, but can not explain it.

If you want slavery to be  "classy" at least know for yourself what that means. 

It all starts with understanding eachother., But if you don't understand yourself it kinda is useless. 

12/6/2022 7:07:23 AM

Funny how this is called a lifestyle, but no one seems to agree on how to live it.

( and that is even a good thing)

12/1/2022 12:45:17 PM

"I am not looking, I am just here 24/7"

11/27/2022 5:16:40 AM

Why do you seek here, if you are not sure about what you seek?


11/27/2022 5:14:53 AM

If you remove all the profiles you dont like, that don't fit or you just dislike.

How many will be left over..perhaps 1 or 2.

And also pretty unrealistic....selecting people just from words..isn't it?

10/29/2022 11:47:06 PM

When I started in bdsm many light years ago, I loved the "under protection of..." text on a girls  profile 

But now thinking back..I have to laugh. How can I protect some one online. 

Guess romance s reality quit a bit.

10/5/2022 11:39:07 AM

When people say "No online".

But they are searching online for ages.


Does that mean no one wants them in real life?

9/15/2022 11:56:43 PM

The online world killed interaction and communication.


People say something but are not communicating.

People are hearing but not listening.


There is no will to put energie in a friendship or relation.

It made people dull and emotionless.

9/11/2022 12:41:28 AM

I am always curious how people meet after being here on CS.

It is so important to express who you are and what you need else you might get more than wished for.

It is confusing ( to me) when people say I am a sub slave. Or saying I am submissive or kajira.

Sub, slave and kajira or 3 different things to me. To someone else they could be all the same.

The risk is that if you introduce yourself as kajira (a Gorean slave) you will meet other behavior from me than when you say Submissive.


We never read about this stuff. But it is so interesting. 

9/10/2022 12:58:31 PM

Are mail filters helping or are you still searching

9/9/2022 7:57:54 AM

Does experience enhace assholisme

9/7/2022 12:10:18 PM

Catagories Master,slave, Dom, sub...don't say much.  They are like cities, but you still have the districts, the neigborhouds, the streets..and the houses.

The human behind a slave or sub goes way deeper than the title. But after a few years in BDSm you know that..and it is still full of you meet different people over and over. I guess that is why experience doesn't always say much. Yes skills can be interesting for a whip or shibari....but for the person behind it "experience" everytime starts over and over. (even with the same person after several years).






9/5/2022 11:06:26 AM

Does experience mean, you fuck around a lot?

9/3/2022 1:03:26 PM

Do not complain, serve. 

8/29/2022 7:16:43 AM

A person should be really special if you want to micromanage them 24/7.

It is eassier said then done.  Especially when thinking with a hard cock or wet cunt.

8/28/2022 9:49:27 AM

If you want to be shared with others, go find the others.

8/27/2022 5:57:12 AM

Being a 24/7 slave is not easy. Far from it. A bitching Master with high demands...changing thoughts and ideas. You have to swallow it ( and other things). You have to follow or else you might get punished.

If you request total slavery...think about what you ask. Do not complain about pressure or no time..or "right now, doesn't fit".  Think about what you promisse and wrote.

Do not disappoint yoruself and your partner. And if soemthing wrong..communicate. We can not read minds ( we have other skills).

8/27/2022 5:22:10 AM

There is a difference in saying what you are and being what you are.

8/26/2022 2:04:40 AM

Lots of new profiles with pictures of famous people.

Google reversed picture search is your friend.

8/18/2022 9:19:44 AM

People seem to understand everyone and the world, but can not talk about themselves 

8/15/2022 12:55:15 PM

I wonder what makes this place so magical.

People complain they have been here before, but the assholes and stupids made them go away.

Yet they come back.  


I guess peole are assholes in general..we are just the better assholes.

8/7/2022 6:30:18 AM

Are you really your nickname? Or is it what you want or try to be.

8/1/2022 9:31:13 AM

It is important to understand why you are not taken.

7/30/2022 5:41:45 AM

If peoiple say they are smart or beautiful.

Does that make them attractive or do you want to walk away?

7/24/2022 9:47:06 AM
I like the hint a sub/slave gives when they say they do not love pain. You know what they will get.
7/21/2022 12:35:29 PM
Always let a person wait when he or she says they have no patience
7/17/2022 9:33:10 AM
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7/17/2022 4:58:48 AM
If everyone is searching..does that mean there is no one to find
7/16/2022 4:51:37 AM
I don't like fantasies that stay fantasies.
7/9/2022 12:50:27 PM
Do you tell your dirtiest wishes on the first date? People do like honesty.
7/2/2022 11:02:34 AM
change to profiel approved in 10 minutes max. Thank you CS
6/26/2022 3:18:08 AM

It seems in the online world friendliness is more exotic then extreme sexual perversity

6/12/2022 8:08:38 AM

Did the covid years make people even more a-hole-ish?

6/12/2022 7:21:17 AM

" I do not expect anything from this place" 

Then why spend your precious time on here. Just wondering.

Because it says more about you then the " place" 

6/11/2022 6:37:08 AM

do you fall for the same type over and over? pretty stupid not

5/26/2022 5:15:52 AM

Somehow pictures with a great smile make my day better.

KInda I do like tears.

5/26/2022 5:10:19 AM

decency doesn't exist online..because hidden we are superior

5/22/2022 12:59:35 PM

I love profiles that say..this and that go into the bulk folder.

Especialy when they are are looking for 100 years now  :D

Seems the filter works.


But then again..respect for their patience.

5/15/2022 3:41:03 AM

saydates - dating for the modern world.

I guess it was in 1900. 

5/14/2022 7:25:02 AM

A slave should never long for punishment.

Punishment is something you get when you fail. And your purpose is to please, not to fail.

If you mean you like pain...say so. 

5/14/2022 6:04:36 AM

I guess I have to focus on tattoos. Porn stars are full of them.

5/14/2022 3:35:12 AM

You join a community to feel at home, to discover the judgement is even bigger inside.

5/11/2022 10:14:54 AM

Any one that has hai fever as a fetish or kink?

5/11/2022 10:08:45 AM

Vanilla people are sometimes more loyal and kinkier than the kink people.

Don't only look in the lifestyle for might be disappointed later..if you didn't fish in the big ocean.

5/11/2022 10:06:20 AM

(not) Funny how some Doms show their young subs naked on here, but do not show their own face.

How responsible.

5/8/2022 5:58:12 AM

you are not a slave when you do sessions

5/3/2022 11:37:07 AM

I don't own and control a slave with equipment and toys.

I use my mind, hands and sometimes my belt.

5/2/2022 11:35:43 AM

Does your taste for music reflect in the way you do BDSM?

5/2/2022 10:07:55 AM

Dear CS,


can I have a filter that selects profiles that are Pro, True and Real?


And one for smiling people. 

5/2/2022 10:07:26 AM

How do you maintain a relation when you can not maintain communication

5/1/2022 11:23:07 AM

I don't block people. They just do not deserve the attention

5/1/2022 1:14:40 AM

reminder for myself:  spell check

5/1/2022 1:13:49 AM

Don't trust people on words, but on deeds

5/1/2022 1:11:52 AM

why does time go so fast lately

4/27/2022 3:43:02 AM

Please update your profiles.

Unexperienced for 20 years uhmm..hopeless. GIve up if you can not learn.

Being 20 for 6 years in a row...nice..but no

4/24/2022 2:11:48 AM

I don't like profiles that read liek a CV or a superhero description

4/23/2022 7:27:01 AM

I like broken toys

4/21/2022 1:26:12 PM

Do you think people in the lifestyle are nicer or worse than vanilla people? 


I think they feel better and special..making them worse..

4/21/2022 1:22:38 PM

The reader will experience you different from what you have written in your profile.

4/19/2022 12:28:24 PM

so many methods to communicate, so few that can communicate

4/19/2022 12:27:12 PM

finished your chocolate eggs?

4/15/2022 8:55:37 AM

yes..nice butt..but actually I want your soul

4/15/2022 4:17:58 AM

I like females in dresses and skirts.

4/9/2022 5:24:11 AM

Please do not contact me if you can not maintain a friendship or communication.

4/8/2022 10:59:43 AM

Don't trust words like real, good and true.

People who are, can show it.

4/8/2022 10:58:05 AM

we often promise more then we can deliver

4/2/2022 5:59:11 AM

You can write what ever you want in your profile. If the other think differently about you, it doesn't matter

3/26/2022 9:39:01 AM

Females can you keep your cocks in your pants on the pictures.

3/24/2022 1:19:55 PM

As a slave your porfile can be full of wishes and fantasies. But be about what slaves are.

Once collared, all your lists do not count. You serve. No serve..or get punished.

Perhaps you are a sub ..that is ok. But do not take the title slave lightly

3/19/2022 1:21:58 PM

Are you special, because others are less?

3/13/2022 4:11:56 AM

I have to laugh always when people have in their profile " If I do not answer we do not fit ".

20 years later, they are still searching on here.

Time for some self evaluation and adjusting.

3/6/2022 10:47:37 AM

Natural submissive or Dominant...what does that mean.

Do you suck random people in the supermarket..or whip them?

2/22/2022 12:11:43 PM

It is interesting how people use the word " real", but can not answer if they are " real" themselves.

2/18/2022 8:57:32 AM

So you are very young slave and want to be locked up in a cellar for the rest of your live.

Did you ever read your own profile?

2/17/2022 10:40:35 AM

If you enjoy punishment, you never have been punished.

2/15/2022 11:50:52 AM

We are so special....that no one fits as a good partner.

So we keep searching

and searching

and searching




sucks so much that no one is as special.

2/13/2022 3:37:34 AM

Slave or should communicate and be proactive to eachother.

2/12/2022 10:43:26 AM

I am not supprised communication is missing in many lists

2/12/2022 4:10:16 AM

I come here to often.

I can predict which picture belongs to which name.

1/29/2022 5:27:35 AM

Because I do not send you dick pics, doesn't mean I am a female pretending to be a dude.

1/22/2022 8:03:38 AM

Cleaner my block and hidden list 

Didn't know CS had so many members.

1/22/2022 7:13:36 AM

BDSM must be a dream for shrinks.

Daddies and adult baby girls...fat females who call themselves pigs and worthless.

There is space for every one.


I hope someday we can read the stories behind the fetish.

1/22/2022 7:07:52 AM

I wonder why dommes show more nudity then slaves or subs.

Must be because it is part of their job.

1/18/2022 11:52:57 AM

Are you afraid of what you might find?

1/15/2022 10:29:59 AM

so many peopel online on saterday evening...horny or lonely?

1/8/2022 4:07:59 AM

covid and bdsm are not good partners

1/6/2022 11:49:54 AM different is this fresh new year till now?

1/2/2022 5:33:29 AM

{#emotions_dlg.jumping} it took only 2 hours to get my new profiel text approved ...thank you CS

12/31/2021 1:58:32 PM

have a good new year A/all

12/31/2021 8:36:26 AM

It seems the narcists are searching for ever.

12/26/2021 12:17:41 PM

All people are beautiful in one way or an other. If I do not see it, some one else will.

12/25/2021 1:39:15 AM

no 50 shades please. I prefer black and white with the glow of deep red fire.

12/24/2021 2:21:14 PM

perv is like is in the eye of the beholder

12/24/2021 1:42:33 PM

I see a lot of slaves calling themselves slut.

That is fine..but being a slave takes way more.

12/22/2021 11:15:18 AM

happy holidays to the kind people

12/12/2021 2:40:16 AM

BDSM people are so elite, they can not even respond to a compliment.

12/9/2021 10:47:05 AM

it seems in bdsm no one agrees how to do bdsm

12/5/2021 8:23:12 AM

who learns better...the new or the experienced?

12/5/2021 7:10:23 AM

I always reply. It might be short, but I refuse to be an online asshole who can not answer people who try to contact you in a decent way.

It is after all a community...not a shades of grey dating site.

11/30/2021 10:26:19 AM

Fine dining before or after anal?

11/30/2021 10:10:02 AM

How much are we really of our profile

11/27/2021 3:53:18 AM

Lot of girls from eastern europe..that are single with kids.

Have seen that before in the past.

11/27/2021 3:52:20 AM

The word "real" is used mostly to look better then others.

Instead of working hard to be better yourself, you blame others for being less. Interesting how that works.


11/24/2021 1:15:03 PM

Funny how people think a conversation is a one way action.

Then when you do not talk anymore..ask if you are not interested anymore.

11/24/2021 1:14:22 PM

after I saw your tits, I emmediately thought about ' fine dinning" 

11/24/2021 9:18:25 AM

only the people you agree with are real

11/20/2021 11:08:48 AM

" just looking for friends" 

shows pictures of tits, spread cunt and toys.

Just liek we did at school when we looked for friends


11/12/2021 2:04:07 AM

Remember...intelligent people do not need to mention they are intelligent.

They mean they practice narcissism.

11/10/2021 9:22:59 AM

if you describe yourself as perfect, you will sooner fail and disappoint

11/1/2021 12:05:25 PM



Illusory superiority


10/29/2021 5:02:03 AM

for those that mix up slave and sub all the time and contact me


sub> you can have a whole list of wishes and don'ts

slave>>> your list should be very very short, close to non existent

kajira>>>>>throw your list away...

10/27/2021 12:33:41 PM

A Master is a dominant.

A dominant is not always a Master.

10/23/2021 12:58:24 PM

"by day I am a professional"


by night batman?

10/21/2021 5:30:47 AM

you can read in the profile that someone is here for attention or to really serve

10/21/2021 2:36:16 AM

I really wonder if peopel understand what they ask or look for.

I know fantasies make your cock hard and cunt wet...but torture and being locked up 24/7 for the rest of your crazy

10/19/2021 11:10:09 PM

Funny how times change.


In the past people showed their face on here..and it took months before you saw a breast.

Now people show their toy filled asses, their pierced tits en spread cunts....and it takes ages to see a face

10/19/2021 12:18:13 PM

To not ruin my lovely compact profile text....I put some things here;


-I prefer those who are born female. 

-I am not looking..I prefer to have friends or just capture a slave.

-Not interested in littles and those who look for a daddy. It is not my thing.

-If an animal has been inside you, please move along.

-If you are here to roleplay..I am not the one to talk too.

-If you want to talk about opinions/views etc..that is fine. I reply

-If you have a question..just shoot

-If you are so special, you wouldn't be looking online for a partner ( and not for all those years)

-Netherlands is the country, Amsterdam is just a city. And the Dutch live in the Netherlands...not in Germany

10/19/2021 12:04:43 PM

Wow they are back. The best way to learn about people instead of reading their fantasy profiles about how good and special they are.


 Age: 21
 Lake County, Minnesota