My standards are keeping me temporarily celibate, whats a horny girl to do?  debating whether or not to compromise my integrity for a mediocre lay.  i need to take the edge off.  

Never chase love, affection, or attention.  If it isn't given freely by another person, it isn't worth having.

just when i have a little bit a hope, assholes show their true colors.  someone remind me, why i am on this site?  pardon the angry tone, its fleeting.

if you have been looking for me, i have been traveling for work.  just back from India this morning.  fantastic experience.  happy to be home.  

Finally persuaded to read Fifty Shades of Grey.  Severely disappointed.  Do not waste your time, poorly written, poor character development, repetitive, and not at all creative.

can you blame a girl for having standards?  i want to fuck someone's brains out and vice versa.  however, i need them to be decent.  i know, i know, im looking in the wrong place, yada, yada.  im holding out hope that there is someone like me on this site who happens to be particularly sexual and can handle real life.  where are you?!?!?!

Just moved to Philadelphia.  Excited to be back on the East Coast. 

so i want to spend tonight with someone new, around my age, with attractive qualities, enjoying some wine and conversation. what happens after that is a matter of chemistry.  is it wrong to want to spend some time with a new person on a whim?

i am a real woman looking for a real man.  in life, im am independent, impatient, and i make decisions fast.  when i meet someone on this site sometimes it feels like i ignore my instincts.  i dont usually chase men.  i understand there is an entire level of begging that happens in D/s relationships, but for me that doesnt start after a first meeting or conversation.  i wonder if my desire to get to know a person a better alters the way my personality is percieved.  i dont belive in games or drawing out situations unnecissarily.  i would rather meet a person twice in a short period of time and know whether or not there is potential than have weeks of mediocre conversation.  in short, if i show an interest in you and it feels like im coming on a little strong, i am.  dont be afraid, it doesnt last. im not clingy, its simply a matter of deciding what i want in the most efficient manner.

So I am sitting outside at the wedding reception of one of my best friend's wondering if it's possible to have a whirlwind love affair that ends with me tied to a bed, gagged, and begging on my wedding night. Or simply doing all I can to please one person for the rest of my life.

OMG!  a man on this site that follows through, is that a novel idea?

I consider myself a courteous person.  If you write me a message, I will respond to it, even if I am not interested.  With some people you hit it off, even in a platonic way.  With others the conversation fades.  Talking to people in general depends my understanding of the human condition and I never consider it time wasted.  What I do not understand is why some conversations end so abruptly.  On my part, if you insult or offend me in some way, I will tell you.  I do not like to leave people wondering what happened.  Is that uncommon?  There have been a few people that I honestly enjoyed chatting with that for some reason disappeared.  I looked forward to hearing from them.  I know it is only email, but in these circumstances, it is difficult to find someone with whom you could have potential.  When they disappear without warning, it makes you wonder.  I only wish that everyone could be adults and let a person know if you do not wish to continue speaking.  It is only polite.  Is that asking too much?   

P.S. Thank you to everyone who sent me information about the local community.