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I am a single male in my 50's, experienced in real time BDSM, and I seek dominant women with a sadistic streak, in San Francisco or the Bay area, for mutually enjoyable, real time BDSM encounters. I am seeking friendship(s) and real time encounters with dominant women who love BDSM. If you are looking for online interaction only, financial domination, a 24/7/365 lifestyle D/s relationship, or you believe that only your desires matter and the submissive's do not, then I am not the man for you. And while I am always glad to help a friend, I have no interest in being a "service submissive" or a source of free household labor.

But if you love BDSM activities and toys (one can never have enough toys!), have at least a bit of a sadistic streak, love to play, understand that BDSM must be mutually enjoyable, are open to exploration of new activities and enjoy being creative, and would like to find a friend and fun play partner, we just might be very compatible.

I do want to stress the "mutually enjoyable" part, because if it isn't, then what's the point? It is important to me that a partner is enjoying herself, and I tend to want to take more for a lady who is obviously enjoying herself. But I've never understood the point to engaging in situations or activities that I don't enjoy. Life is just too short for that. If your profile contains a statement along the lines of "It's all about me," then please look elsewhere, as I do not believe that "dominant" is synonymous with "selfish." It's not only about me, or you; it's about both of us. That's why they call it "play PARTNERS."