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Female Dominant, 23, Lincoln, Illinois
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Female Dominant, 42, Lincoln, Illinois
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Female Switch, 43
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About FLAMINGEMBERS
I am known as Flame or Red. I have been Dominant in this lifestyle for over 25 years. I enjoy the company of other Dominants and submissives, male or female. I enjoy conversation and discussion of views and experiences. I have the nature of switch (not bottom) however, I function as Dominant and enjoy a relationship with my submissive. I have qualities I desire in a submissive.
I am very pleased to be served by kenwemeet and am therefore not seeking a submissive but welcome all questions and comments from those new in the lifestyle.
When contacting me, I will expect respect if you desire an answer. If you are seeking sex, join a dating site.
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I am currently seeking a service sub. I am located in Brownstown Twp, 20 min south of Detroit. If you enjoy pleasing a Mistress by doing chores and working outside in flower beds and planting a garden - mail me here. No heavy lifting so all ages welcome.
Cleaning out shed and miscellaneous things in house. Benefits will be fresh veggies and a provided meal. I will make it clear - I do not seek a pleasure sub - that position is already taken, lol.
I will answer any questions you may have.
RED
5/30
I have received some replies, but I desire a sub who lives fairly close. Feel free to mail me here. |
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I am always open minded to speaking with those new in our lifestyle. You will approach me with respect. I am active in local clubs here, which is a good way to not only meet me but other Dominants and submissives. This is a good way to get good advice and recommendations. I am also on a sister site as FlamingEmbers which is another way to contact me. There are different clubs every saturday night.
We were all "newbees" at some point, so do not be shy. This lifestyle is a learning experience. We all learn and evolve our natures and desires. |
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I understand there are many male submissives on this site seeking their Mistress. I have now written several times that I am not seeking a sub. I have no desire for a stable of young subs needing training. I am very pleased with the one I am with. I welcome chat or questions on the lifestyle. |
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I am pleased to say I have found a wonderful submissive in Kenwemeet who will serve as my submissive and be under my protection.
I will welcome any letters regarding questions on the lifestyle or letters from friends. |
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I wish to say that I am not seeking a submissive for a relationship. I have found one who serves my every need and has a pure heart. I will welcome mail from those with questions on our lifesyle.
You may drop a line if you wish to know where else to find me or events I will be attending. |
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Well, it seems I have not gotten my point across about reading my profile for wants and desires! I am NOT interested in online domination, your im id, (unless I request it), those outside of the U.S.A, those under 40 years of age (yes, 25 is under 40), those without manners or cannot put a sentenance together. Oh, and those without a profile. I would desire one who can converse with me, has a mind of his own, and desires to fill all my needs and knows his place. One I would be proud to walk beside me. A submissive is a reflection of whom I am above all; you respect me; you respect my choices.
I will add one more thing: If I have not spoken to you we are not friends and I will not add you to my list of friends. |
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Please know I always welcome mail and try to answer all. I especially try to answer newbies questions. NOW! Pay attention: I will NOT respond to any mail with the following: Hello
or You are hot; my cock is hard! Please use proper manners when addressing a Mistress. If I can't read it: I will not reply. I am not seeking a male or female Dominant for play. I do offer my friendship. Judging from mail received, I feel only a small percentage of people read a profile.
Be well... |
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What a joy and wonder it is when we find one we are compatible with in needs and desires! Bringing one to realize his nature and potential. Then life and reality step in to crush these hopes and desires. Responsibilities to the "vanilla" life come first. So a lovely soul is once again hidden. My heart is heavy; I pray there will be time for you some day. Always...All Ways |
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Well, seems I have been remiss in updating my journal. This was pointed out by a dear lil chit who will be rewarded properly some day (SWAT!).
I have been enjoying the warmer weather and taken advantage of it by doing outside projects. Sat here pondering if I should have sought a sweet sub desiring to do my garden! Thinking neighbors would not have understood a naked man tolling in my backyard. What is so "normal" to us in the lifestyle, unfortunately, is not always appropriate or legal to 'vanillas".
A favorite topic - keeping our nature hidden. I run across so many men wishing to explore their feelings but afraid of acting on it. Some feel perhaps it will go away if I ignore it. At night, alone, the burning need fills your mind, wondering what it would be like turning your will and body over to a Dominant to control. Speaking for myself, this is the greatest high one can experience - as Dominant or submissive. For me, it is an intense pleasure way beyond anything sexual. Complete trust, wanting to please and being taken deeper and deeper till there is nothing but the two of us...
Yes, most of us in reality hide our natures. We have to. However, when we can - let us enjoy each other....and live and learn... |
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Well, snow and more snow! Waiting for spring.
Although I was not seeking a submissive when I came here - I now find a lovely new Pet who serves well. Lovely natured, a quick wit and tongue, which does get him into trouble at times, and serves well. I look forward to his attentions..
Another point: I explained my nature as switch. I have run across some male Dominants thinking as such I would turn tables on them. Not so. I have never had a male Dominant be sub to me, nor desire to.
My deepest respect to the Dominant that has bottomed to understand the submissive nature.
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Hello all:
Well, winter is almost upon us here now. Since I am not a winter person, I will retreat indoors. I am doing my best to keep up with mail received. No question is insignificant, since we all were beginners at one point. Knowing our nature is a lifetime learning experience. Keep an open mind and heart...
All Ways...Always |
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Hi Everyone! Just to say thank you for all the warm welcomes! I will try to answer all mail sent. Working on another website keeps me busy. I welcome all respectful, serious questions from newcomers.
All Ways...Always
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